It is every parent’s wish for children to grow up in a healthy and happy family. However, if the parents’ relationship breaks down or even reaches the point of divorce, the young children are often hurt the most. Adults can reorganize the family. But children cannot get the love and care of the original family because of the formation of a new family.
Ms. Cheng would still shed distressed tears when she remembered what happened to her daughter that day. The 7-year-old daughter should have grown up happily under the care of her parents, but she never thought that because of her personal relationship problems, would make her young 'S daughter has endured so much pain that should not be endured.
When Ms. Cheng separated from her ex-husband, her daughter was still young. In order to allow her daughter to be better taken care of, Ms. Cheng chose to abandon the division of property when she divorced her ex-husband and only asked for custody of her daughter. Although ex-husband was also reluctant to bear the young My daughter, but after thinking about it, my daughter will do better with her mother, and she also signed and agreed. The decision to remarry
took a long time before Ms. Cheng made the decision. She felt that her daughter could not lose her father’s love. Therefore, when choosing a spouse, she fully considered the man’s degree of care for her daughter and determined that the other party is a patient and careful talent choice. In the second marriage, and in life, the stepfather did care for her daughter. This made Ms. Cheng once thought that a happy life was beckoning to herself and her daughter.
However, after Ms. Cheng found out that after remarrying, the daughter of was always depressed and repelled her stepfather . This made Ms. Cheng very puzzled, but she considered that her daughter was too young to miss her biological father. Pay attention to the emotional problems of the daughter.
Until early one morning, my daughter had a high fever. The whole person's state was confused, but she kept yelling: "Where is the schoolbag, I want the schoolbag" , Bao Ma was curious about what is in her daughter's schoolbag, opened Then I found a diary and burst into tears instantly after reading it.
It turns out that in the diary, the daughter recorded the beatings and scolding of her stepfather carrying her mother after , and also expressed the yearning for her biological father , and even painted one of the three goldfish in the diary black, symbolizing Terrible stepfather. Ms.
Ms. Cheng never thought that her remarried husband would treat her daughter in such a secret manner. Thinking of her daughter’s long-term internal suffering, she regretted it very much. Z1z divorced her remarried husband the next day and took her daughter away. She did not want her daughter. Receive a little more damage.
’s parents’ marriage broke down, and the children who should have played around their parents lost their paradise. Even the stepparents who met "bad eyes" fell from heaven into hell. How should
restructure the family view the education of stepchildren?
1. Think in empathy and compare your heart to your heart.
Stepparents are not easy to get your child’s approval. If you are a stepparent, please calm down and accept when your child rejects you. Gradually gain your child’s approval with care and love. Don't be too impatient. We have been children. Thinking about empathically can understand the psychological state of children facing reorganized families and strange stepparents.
2. Keep a reasonable distance and respect each other
Stepparents, especially when facing stepchildren of the opposite sex, must maintain a reasonable distance in life and respect each other. The biological parents should still avoid the mother as the child grows up. "The female university avoids the father", and the successor parent and the child have no natural blood relationship, and they need to correct their position to avoid some bad things from happening.
3. The safety of the child is the top priority in everything.
If you are a parent who reorganizes the family with your child, please always pay attention to the child’s dynamics and psychological state in the new family environment. If you find something wrong with your child, you must find out the reason and avoid the process. The situation of ladies and daughters has reappeared. The safety of children must be the top priority in everything at . After all, there have been cases of stepparents abusing stepchildren in recent years. The defensive heart should be maintained at all times.
The fate of the two couples can be separated, but the natural relationship between the child and the parent cannot be parted. If no major principled problem occurs,It is recommended that parents think more about the healthy growth of their children. The willful and impulsive divorce is an irreversible harm to the children.
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