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I don’t know if you have discovered a phenomenon, that is, why do women always think that other people’s husbands are better? Is your husband really not good enough? This in the end is why? Three women gave the answer.
Ms. Tan, 24 years old,
and her husband have been married for more than two years. I don’t know if I can spend more time together because of the marriage, or what? Now it seems that I’m blinded by the bicycle, otherwise, how could I? Marry him. Don't say that the husband has any particularly good advantages. If there are no major shortcomings, it is considered good. I have not found a good advantage in him, all of which are small shortcomings and minor faults. It is also what I said about his minor shortcomings, minor faults, and his attitude towards me is getting worse and worse. I feel that I dislike him, how can I dislike him, but he really has these shortcomings. If he changes, then I won't talk about him. If he made a mistake, he still doesn't correct him. He has to insist that I dislike him and have a bad attitude towards me. How can I feel good about a man like this? Let’s compare the husband of a colleague with the husband of a colleague. From time to time, the husband of a colleague helps his wife with some housework, and from time to time, he gives small gifts to create a little romance. My husband doesn't know this at all, and the husband of a colleague gives his wife the salary card for safekeeping, so he can buy whatever he wants, as long as it is within the scope of consumption. As for my husband, he keeps his own money, and even keeps my money. What I want to buy must be approved before he can buy it, otherwise he will say that I spend money indiscriminately. There is harm when there is comparison. In this kind of comparison, there is no comparison at all. It must be the husband of the other person. I said nothing wrong, right? I even suspect that I married the wrong person. Although my husband is not good at all, I also understand in my heart that the husbands of other people's households only belong to other people's households, and there is no way to be their own.
Ms. Qiu is 30 years old
Why do I think someone else’s husband is good? This is entirely because my husband can’t give me the life I want. Let’s look at my best friend’s husband. Whatever my best friend wants, her husband will give it. As for my husband, what I want, he can’t give anything, he can’t give it, and he has a bad temper. He always says I’m wrong, says I’m greedy and disgusted with the old, talks about spending money, and prodigal... , That woman feels better. The more I say this, the more I feel that someone else’s husband is better.
I don’t want him to satisfy me with everything, at least I should agree to a part. I’m also his wife, so I don’t want to reject me all, take 10,000 steps and say, I can’t say that when I reject me, how can I offend me He? Talking like this really hurts my confidence, but any woman can't accept a man like that. Why should I marry him? Nothing can be given to me. So it makes sense for me to think that other people's husbands are good. How can other people's husbands be so good to their wives, but my husband can't. Why does my husband treat me like that? I don't know if I have said what many women are saying. It’s better for someone else’s husband. My husband still needs to learn from other husbands.
Conclusion:
In fact, most women like comparisons, but comparisons are not too much. No matter how good someone else’s husband is, it will never be yours, and it may not be suitable for you. Only your husband is yours, maybe you Your husband is not necessarily the best, but he is definitely the one who loves you the most. It is normal for husbands and wives to have some shortcomings with each other. It is normal for strangers to have some shortcomings. What we need is to tolerate and understand each other. If there are shortcomings, we should correct them. Only in this way will life get better and better.
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