( here refers to “friends of the opposite sex” and “brothers of the opposite sex.”
It is really uncomfortable to have a girlfriend of the opposite sex in the relationship. The love of two people feels like three people. But who is willing to share their objects with other people of the opposite sex? The most important thing about
is that the party who does not have a girlfriend feels uncomfortable. He said it was not, nor did it not. I can only bury the dissatisfaction with the "friends" in the bottom of my heart, but I have no choice but to watch as you confuse each other in the name of your girlfriends.
waits until the patience is exhausted, and there will be another multiple choice question, no matter what the result is, it will end up unhappy.
1, you would not be naive to think that you are just friends?
In fact, most of the so-called "friends or brothers" of the opposite sex, one party likes the other. Because of the quantitative changes in friendship, are there few examples of qualitative changes to quantitative changes? One can't distinguish friendship, and one can't distinguish love. One side is cautious and tentative, and the other side caters to and maintains friendship at will.
In fact, the one who feels that there is a pure friendship is often the one who is loved. You never know how many undercurrents are hidden under the other's casual expression.
He is like a beast hiding in the dark, observing the current situation and waiting for opportunities.
2, really don't use your girlfriends as a shield.
Watching you walking together, going to dinner together, watching you say goodnight to each other, chatting together, I'm really sad.
"Where did you just go?"
"Go to dinner."
"How did I see you with a man?"
"He is my best friend"
"..."
"I just saw him put his hand On your shoulder."
"He is my best friend"
"I just saw him touch your hair."
"He is my best friend."
"You guys went to the playground together today?"
"He is my best friend." "Z3z
" He is my best friend."
"He is my best friend"
......
"Do you still have me in your heart? Friend, best friend, best friend, all the best friends, who is your boyfriend? Come on!"
really don't use "girlfriends" as a shield anymore, he is really uncomfortable.
Possession and sense of security are part of love. Since you have accepted his love, then of course you must learn to give up for him and give up some people or things that make him sad.
If you don't want the other person to think too much, then you should think more!
3, I don't want to force you to make a choice, but I hope you understand how I feel.
I don't want to force you to make any choices, but I hope you can understand what a friend is and what a couple is. When you feel that you cannot hold the boundaries of "pure friendship", I hope you can be decisive, for me and for yourself.
I also understand that if you are forced to make a choice, even if I stay in the end, we can't go back.
But I just want to let you know that I am the person you can trust and rely on most, and I just want to be the only one in your heart.
I am not preaching a black and white interpersonal relationship, nor am I denying the pure friendship between men and women. What I'm expressing is just a simple and rude but most practical concept of love: learn to keep a distance with other opposite sex, not to say that you stop being friends, just hope that you can make the other person feel full of security.
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