Author: Shirley
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Dong Qing was in the "Reader" in said: "companionship is a very common thing, can day after day, year after year, is especially rare, because the other side the most Beautiful things are given to you, and that is time." Every pair of
who entered the marriage hall hoped to grow old together, but everything in the world is changing every minute and every second. Being with you is easy to say, but truly It is very difficult to do well. The first chapter of marriage is a romantic poem, and the rest is plain prose, repeating the boring life after marriage every day, not to mention white heads. Many young couples have not passed half of their lives. With the idea of divorce.
I believe they have struggled in their hearts. After all, every couple wants to live a lifetime, but people's hearts are always fickle. It is a common feature of many people that they love the new and dislike the old. Very few couples can really grow old.
There are some couples with dilapidated feelings, and it is not that someone has done something wrong. Maybe they have hurried into the palace of marriage before they know how to love, and before they have time to learn, it is over. The former partner of
finally became the most familiar stranger. Even if he was reluctant to say a thousand words, he could only end there and start his new life.
But the world is big and small, and divorced couples also have embarrassing scenes that happen to be on the road. Then, after many years of divorce, how would a man feel when he sees his ex-wife again? Let's take a look at the answers of the following three men.
Mr. Zou: "Although I regret it, I will not bow my head and admit my mistake."
My ex-wife divorced because of a quarrel and divorced impulsively. In fact, thinking about it afterwards, that day was just a small matter, but we had a big fight and even filed for divorce. But think about it carefully, both of us have strong personalities, and divorce may be a relief for us. After the divorce between
and my ex-wife, I also had reflections. It is true that I am a man of machismo and my mouth is stubborn. These problems still cannot be corrected. I usually make her angry, but she also has the same temper. As long as we quarrel, no one is willing. Bow your head first, a little trivial matter turned into a big contradiction in the end.
At the mall a few days ago, I met her and her girlfriends shopping together. We exchanged a few words, saying that we had a good time recently, but we all know each other well. This is just because we want to save face. Self-esteem.
In my opinion, even if we all know our problems, no one is willing to bow our heads and admit our mistakes. It is difficult for those partners who love face to go long on the road of weddings, because they want to save face and finally miss the best chance to retain them. When the small conflicts accumulate again and again, they will become more and more chilled, and slowly. Came to an end.
Mr. Zhou: "When we meet again, I just don’t know each other, and I still wish her in my heart."
My ex-wife and I divorced, there was no cheating, and no domestic violence. It was just because the flatness destroyed the marriage. At the beginning, we loved each other very much. After being married for a long time, I can't help losing my freshness. We often can't say a few words a day. This kind of marriage exists in name only. During the divorce, we didn't have too many quarrels. After the two people's property was distributed, we broke up peacefully.
Because there is nothing to miss in this relationship, and we have no children yet, we all feel that the long-term pain is not as good as the short-term pain. Our personalities are very decisive. Divorce and a new lifestyle are also the best ending. After all, We are still young and we can't live our lives forever. There are many beautiful things in life, and marriage is only one part of it. The pursuit of happiness is everyone's right, and we can be considered as each other's perfection.
In the third year after the divorce, I saw her on the way to work. She was so beautiful without any change, but our relationship was different. We saw each other, just nodded and smiled, and left without a word. , No longer entangled is my respect for her.
can say that our relationship is a failure, but everything is over. There is no love or hatred between us. As her ex-husband, I can only bless silently, but I won’t bother anymore. She is very good, but not with me. Appropriate.
Mr. Wang: "Looking at her with the child, my heart will turn back and forth."
My ex-wife and I have been divorced for eight years. It doesn’t make any sense to discuss who is right and who is wrong. We can only say that we are the losers of the marriage. The child became the most innocentVictim.
My ex-wife is a particularly strong person. When we divorced, the child was only six years old. She resolutely wanted the custody of the child. I chose fulfillment. After all, the child was conceived and given birth in October. I left the house to her, and I went out. Now that the child is 14 years old, I will send my ex-wife the child’s living expenses every month. Although I have paid, I know that she is a woman and it is very hard to take care of the children by herself. My ex-wife’s character, even if it’s difficult, she won’t find it. Others help.
I think although my ex-wife didn’t say anything, she still resented me a little bit. After all, it was my pledge to love her forever, but I changed my heart in the middle. She broke down and cried and I still remember .
Every time I visit my child, my ex-wife doesn’t have too many expressions. After all, although we are divorced, the child is innocent. Even though she feels uncomfortable, she still wants to give her a father. The more she is so generous, my heart The more guilt.
Seeing my ex-wife after eight years of divorce, I have already formed a new family, and the ex-wife did not remarry because of having children, I am very guilty of the harm I have done to her, and I also have affection for the children. Although my ex-wife and I have no love, we still have I am sorry for her family affection and responsibility, but I can't make up for it. My heart is always mixed.
Conclusion:
divorced for many years and saw his ex-wife, most men will feel unwilling to give up. They either reluctant to give up their children, or feel guilty to the ex-wife. How many people dream of their life.
Life is short, love is rare, and marriage is even more difficult to manage. Some people can marry their lover, and it will last a lifetime, while some people do not know the blessing in the blessing, have already had a marriage, but still worry about the flowers and grass outside, wait until After losing, the consequences were too heavy, and I began to regret it.
Marriage is like picking up shells. You don’t need the most beautiful and biggest one. You have to choose the right one. If you find it, don’t go to the beach. I hope everyone understands the philosophy of this sentence. With so many people, how difficult it is for you to meet, fall in love and then get married. Cherish this relationship so that you can live your life happily without suffering from your heart. Do you think this is the truth?
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