No matter how high the IQ is, as long as you fall in love, you will inevitably become a monk who is confused and falls into many emotional misunderstandings.
There are also many boys who think that as long as they are unconditionally obedient and unreserved and honest with each other in the relationship between the sexes, they do not know that love also requires attention to many details.
Today we are going to talk about what boys need to pay attention to when they are in love:
"Love is mutual"
Love is mutual. Don’t always complain that she is not good to yourself. First ask yourself if you have done it. Effective care
Remember every anniversary between you, and take it seriously. Why does
have the Spring Festival? Because life needs a sense of ritual, it needs to be moved, it needs to look forward to, it needs a Spring Festival Gala.
If you have something, it’s okay to talk more about "I miss you", "Like you", "Love you" and "What are you doing", which helps to strengthen the relationship. Like it is nothing to find words.
Girls’ love is often a bonus system; boys’ love is often a subtraction system.
When you think she is not so good, it is better to reflect on whether you are blinded by lard.
“doesn’t mean losing oneself when you fall in love.”
always cooperates with the other party’s schedule and thoughts in order to gain the goodwill of the other party, concealing their true needs and subjective wishes, and chooses to revolve around girls.
Over time, you lose your original intention of love, and it is more like an accessory to each other. Once you develop an interactive mode like
, your contribution will become something you deserve. When you get tired, do not compromise for her, and become self-conscious, the other party will have a psychological gap, which is not conducive to the long-term relationship. development of.
Respect for girls is a good thing, but it does not mean that you will lose yourself in love. To maintain a long-term relationship between two people requires equality, respect and balance.
means that we are comfortable getting along with each other. I think for you and you think for me. We try to maintain the same level of mutual sacrifice and compromise.
"Don't go back and forth."
If you really love her and want to be with her for a lifetime, don't go back and forth and you'll be fine with other girls.
You have a surge of vitality and blood, but you don't know that there are links between them. Maybe your girlfriend trusts you very much, because you have been around once, and she can no longer trust you.
When you are ambiguous with a girl for the first time, she usually does not break out on the spot.
But in the future, she will continue to observe you, figure out your psychology, analyze your every move, and know that every girl in the relationship is Sherlock Holmes. This is nothing to say.
The right love should be evenly matched. Two people are attracted to each other and give each other, instead of one flying freely in the front and endless chasing after the other.
As long as she loves you, all the questions are sent for sub-questions. If she does not love you, how you answer will be sent for propositions.
Walking less into the minefield can at least add some blood to your life. No matter what you do, you must remember that your ultimate goal is to make her "love you".
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