When a girl says "confidence in mystery", she just expresses her feelings. Feelings are neither right nor wrong. It is a representation of true or false created by the accumulation of various factors. Therefore, "confidence in mystery" is not a strict conclusion. 01
Yang Li is bound to be hit by blockbuster films, especially verbal attacks from men. This is something that may leave many girls speechless and even angry.
because she said on the talk show, "Obviously they look so ordinary, but they can be so confident."
I don't understand Yang Li's true inner thoughts, and I don't understand her personality. I just infer that she was just joking based on what she said on an entertaining talk show.
However, once the public figures' "trafficking" remarks drifted into the serious discussion circle, Yang Yi could not control the true meaning of her remarks, because countless people would speculate that her remarks were sincere. This happened to many people. Things on the characters.
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This is the confusing incident that a little sister of mine told me a few days ago.
She said that she saw some humorous seniors in the club and wanted to chat with them, so she added their WeChat.
But these straight men thought they were interesting to them, so they were slightly intimate in their words.
But thinking about myself and the male classmates and male roommates around me, they seem to be extremely autistic. I have never imagined which female classmate likes me, and even often self-deprecats. Do all the straight men of
have confidence?
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Whoever speaks out covers the appearance of the group he belongs to in the world.
Those unpleasant straight guys took the initiative to find girls and made bad behaviors, and they were noticed by the girls, so all straight guys were covered with the label of "fascinated confidence".
The face of "confident" straight men covers all straight men. When those obscure boys are still immersed in silence, the straight guys who rush to talk to girls have changed the girls' evaluation of all straight men.
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I often see girls complaining about the "fascinating self-confidence" of some men, they add the sentence "Individuals cannot cover the group, only some men are like this", very cautious, because if you don't add these attributives, they will definitely Was sprayed.
As I said earlier, when girls are saying "confidence in mystery", they are just expressing their feelings. There is no right or wrong feeling in
, it is a kind of true or false appearance created by the accumulation of various factors.
However, once "straight man's mysterious self-confidence" enters the propositional category, this ambiguous sentence will become a dangerous factor, because people will be deceived by feelings, but the truth must not be fallible.
When they feel the self-confidence of straight men, this appearance can be disassembled into countless factors. We need dialectical deconstructed thinking to disassemble the various characteristics of these "confident" straight men.
In this way, girls will cross the perception stage and enter the perception stage on the issue of "confident and straight men".
They will reduce complaints, and instead use their own analysis to help them reduce the emotional energy wasted on these boring boys. Because they fully understood the psychology of these men, they broke away from the panic and confusion, and became aware of them, even pitying these men.
So, if girls start to discuss whether Yang Li's remarks are correct propositions, pure verbal care is outdated.
adds a lot of attributives to ensure that what you say is accurate, does not offend others, almost completely does not solve our doubts, but only makes people feel tired.
We should abandon this boring practice and ask ourselves:
does my feelings reflect the truth? Are straight men really confident? Should straight men have these fascinating self-confidence? Do all straight men have these mysterious confidence?
Some girls just know that there are some annoying and disgusting goods among men, but they can't say at all, which ones are so disgusting and annoying, and why these people are so disgusting and annoying.
So we have to distinguish between feelings and propositions. Men don’t need to scold girls because of girls’ feelings. Girls should not let their feelings enter serious propositions.
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