In a relationship between the sexes, women appear passive because of reservedness, and men appear active because of bravery.
However, in real life, some men can get the favor of women without any effort; some men use all kinds of routines and cannot get a moment of sincerity from women.
So some people will say: "Women chase the men's gauze, and men chase women across the mountain." No matter how much money and sincerity these men give, it is difficult to get a woman's heart.
Actually, the reason why these men can't catch up with women is probably because they are relatively straight men and don't understand girls' hearts. In the process of pursuing women,
must learn to understand their thoughts, grasp their weakness, and "take down" her.
For men who don't understand women's minds, no matter how much they pay, they will be wasted by the blind.
In feelings, men must learn to use these three psychology to master women’s minds:
01, Matthew effect-self-confidence
The name of the Matthew effect comes from a parable in the "Bible·Matthew Gospel", which means good The better, the bad the worse, the more the more, the less the less.
also follows this principle in love: excellent and confident people are easily favored by the opposite sex; on the contrary, ordinary and inferiority people can hardly attract the attention of the opposite sex.
Some men can still be favored by women even if they have no houses or cars.
Because they are very confident in love, this kind of self-confidence exuded from the inside out is easy to attract women's attention.
They will not give up easily even if they encounter setbacks in their relationship, let alone deny themselves because of this. They will only get more frustrated and courageous, face this matter more positively, either continue to pursue or find another goal.
On the contrary, people who are not self-confident will only kneel and lick each other in the relationship, and will become depressed after being rejected.
Therefore, if you know how to perfect your talents and enhance your personal charm, it is easy to attract women's attention and be chased down.
only relies on the brave character in the relationship, and always boldly invests and pleases the other party will only make the other party favor and proud, and will not take you seriously.
For example, if you spend 2000 to buy a pair of shoes for yourself, you are a pretty boy; if you spend 2000 to buy a bag for a woman, you become a dog.
In the matter of the relationship between men and women, we must first learn to manage ourselves and make ourselves a good and confident person. If you are excellent, the opposite sex will naturally pursue you.
02. Look more at the effect-long-term love
In the 1960s, psychologist Charonz conducted an experiment in college:
he walked into the dormitories of several girls at random, and then sent them different tastes Drink, let her taste. However, Charentz asked them not to talk while tasting the drink, and asked them to say how much they liked after a while. The
research shows that whether girls like and know each other is related to their degree and the number of times they meet.
In real life, it is easy for boys and girls to fall in love over time. For example, the heroes and heroines of the TV series "Dear, Loved" have already had a good relationship with each other when they meet for the first time. Each time they meet each other for a while, they can deepen the degree of mutual affection.
If a man has a girl he likes, he should learn to get close to her, find opportunities to meet her, and talk to her if he has nothing to do, so that the two talents have the opportunity to change from strangeness to familiarity to mutual love.
Two people gradually get acquainted with each other, and she will naturally discover your strengths and like you, or even chase you back.
03, Murphy's law-the more you care, the less you will get
Murphy's law refers to: if something has the possibility of going bad, no matter how small the possibility is, it will always happen.
often hears some men complain: why I give so much, she just doesn't want to be with me?
In fact, no matter whether it is work or emotion, sometimes we are too nervous about the gains and losses of one thing, which leads to a mentality of gains and losses, which leads to confusion when doing things, which is a good thing. It can also be broken.
Therefore, in our relationship, we must learn to treat the person we like with a normal attitude, try to be relaxed in front of her, and try to be generous and decent in doing things, and don't make people feel that you are petty.
girls are generally more discussingA man who hates chicken belly and caress about things, when you behave more appropriately in front of her, your personal charm will be more vividly displayed, and it is easier to be favored by the goddess.
Conclusion:
In real life, if you think women are difficult to chase, in fact, you don’t understand women’s minds and you have used the wrong method.
No matter what you do, once you use the wrong method, no matter how hard you try, it won’t help.
women are not difficult to chase, as long as you learn to grasp their weaknesses, learn to use their psychology and then prescribe the right medicine, then most of them will be able to develop in the expected direction.
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