The truth of marriage

The truth of marriage-mutual resentment and perseverance. (Image source: Adobestock)

Recently, there was an uncle on the Internet because of the hot topic.

Someone asked him what is a husband and wife?

He said: When not quarreling, you can die for him (her). When quarreling, I think he (she) is the damn thing going. After the quarrel, I feel that he (she) is dead, what should I do? In just a few words,

makes people laugh and laugh, but also thinks it is very realistic, telling the true meaning of married life, and it is really rough and not rough. Between

husband and wife, it is often disgusting and dependent.

Some people may think that couples should treat each other as guests and raise their eyebrows, but there are also many people who think that the truest emotions between husband and wife are actually: dislike each other in their mouths, and never give up in their hearts.

When I was young, the author lived in a triad courtyard where the family gathered. This is indeed the case. Many elders complain to the other half at every turn, but when they turn their heads, the two cannot be separated from each other. It is obvious that the relationship is deep.

even took care of the other half when he was weak and sick and bedridden. No matter how much money he spends, there is no complaint, and he only hopes that the other party can quickly recover.

This is a real husband and wife, like the left hand and the right hand. Because they are too familiar, they may not feel each other and never feel important, but when we have a hand that is difficult to handle, we will miss the time when we have a sound hand.

When two people live together, they will always encounter the despair of quarreling, but there are also moments that make people feel at ease. Even in the happiest marriage, there are occasional thoughts of divorce and the urge to beat each other out in life. But a real couple, even after the quarrel, will not hold grudges, and when they think about it in the future, they will feel distressed and avoid repeating them.

dislikes on one side, and never abandons on the other. The lives of the two may be noisy, but they still move forward hand in hand. This is where the feelings are sincere and moving. Before

, some netizens took a photo on the bus. In the photo, the husband was dozing off on the bus, and the sleeping posture was very ugly. Although the wife sitting in front of him looked at her husband with a "disgusting look", her hand grasped the handrail and used it as a pillow to prevent her husband from bumping because of the shaking of the car.

During the tens of minutes away, the wife changed positions several times, but her hand never left the armrest.

Perhaps, this is the true face of the relationship between husband and wife, there is no vigorous pledge of each other, only the care and care of the water.

In our life, if there is a person who, while despising himself all day long, while silently caring about himself in his (her) way, then we should really cherish it.

Someone said: People only show their truest self when they have enough security in front of people they fully trust. The marriage of the older generation may not be able to satisfy many people's dream-like life, but it is the most real. And their interaction seems to be noisy, but they just walked together like this. In fact,

is not just between husband and wife, including relatives at home, friends around life, all "dislikes", "poisonous tongues" or "spits" are behind a kernel called "care".

So whether we are family, partner or friends, if we can meet those who despise ourselves while still persisting, we must cherish them, because they will all be the greatest luck in our lives.