text|Ashapu emotional story
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Illustration: "The Centimeter of Love" stills
Presumably every man is unwilling to marry a brother-in-law to be a wife. It is not a man that is ruthless, but a brother-in-law is too terrible. If a woman has a bottom line, it's okay. A woman without a bottom line blindly indulges her natal family and helps her younger brother, then her marriage life will not be peaceful and happy.
In the TV series "The Centimeter of Love", Guan Yuqing is a standard demon to help her brother. Although she has a bottom line, every time Guan Yongnian asks her to help her brother, Guan Yuqing does not want to make her father angry. No compromise.
Guan Yuqing is a very family-oriented girl. When faced with her father's patriarchal preference for her younger brother, she still had a lot of dissatisfaction in her heart, but she still failed to prevent herself from being a helper.
Even if her younger brother drove her parents out of the house in order to get married, or even if the younger brother sold her car privately, and finally got into big trouble, she still had to deal with it because of the fetters of family love.
Many people say that when you encounter such a family, you must sever the relationship, but not every woman can easily break the family relationship. Guan Yuqing in the TV series
is regarded as a successful woman, she can use her ability to help her brother. However, most women in real life are not as successful as Guan Yuqing, and they can do good demon support without relying on others.
Many women rely on their husbands’ income to help their natal brothers after they get married. The most terrifying thing is not the Demon Fu, but the Demon who has no bottom line.
reader Xiaofeng is a demon with no bottom line. She and her husband are university classmates. After graduation, they developed their own careers, but her husband's career is getting better and better, but Xiaofeng's career has been dull and little progress. Until she got married, her husband had already achieved little in his career, but she just had a stable income job.
Xiaofeng’s salary is not high. If she only relies on her salary, she may not even be able to support herself, because her money has to be used to help her natal brother.
Xiaofeng’s parents are only her and her younger siblings. Xiaofeng’s parents are typical patriarchs. Just like Guan Yongnian in "The Centimeter of Love", they treat their sons as treasures, even if their son wants their lives, nothing will be lost. Serve without hesitation. Z1z
They don’t understand many things, but they just spoil their son blindly. Even if the son has already caused the whole family miserable, Xiaofeng’s parents don’t think that his son has made a big mistake, and always say that his son is young and naive.
Xiaofeng’s younger brother originally talked about a girlfriend. He was not good to them. He dealt with his girlfriend twice in three days. After hurting the girl, the other party asked their family for compensation. His parents had no money, so Xiaofeng asked Xiaofeng to pay. For 80,000 yuan.
Xiaofeng told her mother that she can’t indulge her brother like that. Her mother also said: "You, a sister, have any qualifications to come back to take care of your mother’s affairs and let you help your younger brother. Is it necessary to point fingers at us?"
Xiaofeng At the beginning, she would argue with her mother, and over time she seemed to get used to the family atmosphere. When she got married, her husband gave 160,000 gifts, and they all stayed at her natal family. After getting married, her younger brother rarely asked them for money for a while.
But when the younger brother gets married, her maiden's mother asks her 200,000 yuan. Xiaofeng doesn't have that much money, so naturally she wants to ask her husband. Her husband was unwilling to give it at first, but Xiaofeng said that her family was too difficult. Now they can help their family members, and they are also helping their brothers in the name of family affection.
Xiaofeng and her husband have been in love since college. Naturally, the relationship between the two will not be affected by 200,000, and Xiaofeng’s mother also said that this is for the younger brother to get married. In the future, as long as the younger brother gets married, she will persuade her. He will find a job to support his family and will not trouble his sister and brother-in-law anymore.
Xiaofeng thought the same way. Her husband naturally believed what his wife said. Who knew that Xiaofeng's brother had no pocket money for three days after getting married, so he started calling Xiaofeng to ask for it.
At the beginning, Xiaofeng gave 300 or 500 to his younger brother, but he always said that it was too little. Later, Xiaofeng had to pay 2,000 to his younger brother with a salary of 5,000 a month. It's not that she didn't know that this was wrong. In fact, she didn't dare to let her husband know, but her husband would know after a long time.
But she took her own money and her husband didn’t say anything, but she usually gave pocket money. Her brother later hadAfter the baby, even the milk powder money wanted her sister to take.
This time, let alone Xiaofeng’s husband, even she herself felt a bit too much. She insisted on not giving the milk powder money. She told her parents and younger brothers and sisters that it was not easy after she got married and she could not just go blindly. Helped my brother.
Because of this, she and her natal family fell out and did not return to her natal family for a long time. Later, relatives in the family persuaded her. After all, the family still couldn't break the relationship.
And Xiaofeng's parents also asked for their daughter, and took her younger brother to apologize to her. She couldn't bear to naturally reconcile.
Later, her younger brother was going to take his wife and children out for a trip, and if he didn’t have money, he asked her this sister for 20,000 yuan. Xiaofeng had already given part of his brother’s money, and the rest was spent almost at home. , She didn't have any savings in her hands, 20,000 yuan was more difficult for her, she had to ask her husband.
She said to her husband: "Husband, my brother's family of three went to travel and borrowed 20,000 yuan. You should pay it out first, and I will pay you back if I save enough money."
Her husband was angry at her directly when she heard this, Xiaofeng husband They said that they have helped their brother-in-law a lot since they got married, and there are more than 300,000 yuan before and after. I really can't help anymore. Every time they say that they borrow money, but they have never repaid it.
Xiaofeng didn’t know what to think. Her husband was unwilling to borrow the 20,000 yuan. She was angry at the time. In fact, because of her maiden brother’s request, she always couldn’t lift her head in front of her husband, but this time she didn’t know why. Quarreled with her husband.
The two people quarreled endlessly. Her husband said that if he couldn't go on, he would divorce. Xiaofeng was also anxious at the time, and the two soon divorced. Xiaofeng has no bottom line as the demon of helping his brother, and finally got involved in his marriage.
Now when many men are looking for a partner, when they hear that the wife has a younger brother in the family, they worry that they will become a helper after they get married, but they cannot not get married because of this. They can only say that when choosing a marriage partner, they should first understand the other’s family. Happening. In the
TV series "The Centimeter of Love", Xu Xiulan clearly said to Guan Yuqing's family at the dinner table: "If we marry a wife and raise a brother-in-law, I will not agree." Yuqing can't invest any money in helping her brother. In fact, I think such a request is reasonable.
Marriage would involve two families. If you don’t know it, there is no way. Since you know that the wife’s family situation is serious and patriarchal, the mother-in-law should have some requirements. Demon.
Few women can dare to make trouble with their family like Su Mingyu, and few women have a successful career like Guan Yuqing, but they also have a bottom line. The woman of Fu Di Mo really dare not marry in an ordinary family, that is a bottomless pit.
Therefore, if the marriage partner's family favors sons, they must make things clear when they get married, and men cannot raise a brother-in-law in order to marry a wife. It's not easy for anyone to make money. You should live your own life first. Help others can only do what they can. The picture of
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