stated that he did not despise the rural people.
has observed some people around him and found that people who grew up in cities and those who grew up in rural areas have very different ideas and visions.
marriage is a combination of two men and women with different personalities, as well as the collision and participation of the big family behind them. Life is trivial and realistic. There will be many contradictions in firewood, rice, oil and salt. At this time, the family education, family style and character of the two will become important factors for the happiness of the couple.
Choosing the right partner is the best investment for a person in the second half of his life. Then, when it comes to marriage choices, do urban men choose a girl from the countryside as their wife? The three men told the truth.
Mr. Yang
when he was in college, he liked a girl who was a college student from the countryside. The feelings at that time were very innocent, and we planned to get married after graduation. When
was about to graduate, I took her back to my home to meet her parents. My parents told me about her family situation, let me break up, we are not suitable. I think my parents are snobbish and look down on rural people.
I did not listen to my parents' persuasion to break up, because my parents disagree, we also failed to get married. After graduation, I joined a good company under the arrangement of my parents, and she worked hard to find a suitable job for her.
I confidently think that as long as we persist, my parents will one day agree to our marriage. But I didn’t expect that the last person who couldn’t keep going was me. Her parents asked her to get money every month after she worked. Her salary was not high. Sometimes it was given to the family, and there was no money at the end of the month. She couldn't save it herself. She was reluctant to buy clothes, but she gave a lot of money to the family every month.
Sometimes there is no phone bill, or if there is no money to pay the rent, I can only borrow it from me. If it is a loan, I can't let her really pay it back. I eat and live at home and spend most of my salary for her.
After a long time, I found that her house is a bottomless pit, and there will never be an end. If we get married, the burden of her family will become my burden. Only then did I understand why my parents did not agree to our marriage.
Mr. He
I did not look down on rural people, but I would not choose a girl from the countryside as a wife. The reason is simple. The difference in family education and growth environment has created differences in the thinking and vision of each other.
is like the collision of two cultures, it is not easy to integrate.
In real work and life, there are also many girls from the countryside. Some of them are very good, not bad at work, and very good at living. But I don't know why, in front of girls who grew up in cities, these rural girls are still not as natural and atmospheric as those who grew up in cities.
What's more, there is the family behind them. The rural people have a deep-rooted notion that if a person lives well, he must help his brothers and sisters at home. Their wealth seems to be shared.
I feel that many married girls in rural areas will become brother-in-laws and brother-in-laws after they get married, and they will be helping brother-in-law and brother-in-law together with their husbands. This is why I don’t want to marry girls from the countryside. the reason.
Mr. Yun
My first wife was a girl who worked hard in the countryside. She was very good and bought her own house in the city. When we got married, my parents were against it, but I couldn't let go of her and insisted on getting married despite the opposition of my parents. After we got married,
had a few happy days. Later, her parents got older and said that their daughters were promising and wanted to live with them and enjoy the happiness. Since her parents came to live in, our house has become a "hotel" for relatives in the countryside. Today this one will stay for one night, and the other one will come to have a meal tomorrow. No month has passed.
's house is smoky every day, and my private life is gone. We quarreled. She said that I looked down on her parents and relatives. To be honest, I really looked down on them. There are so many relatives like this, which is a disaster for the family.
I really don't want to serve this big son, so we got divorced.
So, no matter who asks me now, whether rural girls are good or whether they can get married, I have an attitude. If you can’t accept the peculiar habits of their rural people, then don’t choose girls from the countryside. You will live your life. Found that they are not suitable for each other.
In marriage, the ancestors have long summed up the doorway, that is, the door is right for each household, bamboo door against bamboo door, and wooden door against wooden door. Right marriageIt is easier to be happy and grow old together.
A happy marriage is inseparable from the material basis. The three views of two families. The marriage of two people is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two big families. Therefore, the marriage can be long if the brothers are similar and the ideas are similar.
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