Zhenai.com to explore the views of single young men and women on marriage
At present, marriage and love websites are becoming more popular. In order to better understand the requirements and choices of young people in major marriages, Zhenai.com has launched a marriage opinion survey. Now young people get married more and more late, which has promoted the delay of marriage age throughout China, because they need more sufficient time to solve those marriage puzzles. The collision of ideas, the collision of lifestyles, marriage is no longer just a matter of two people, there are many things to consider, not a simple ceremony. It will involve a series of practical issues such as marriage concepts, wedding rooms, wedding banquet arrangements, etc. What is your opinion on these issues? Zhenai.com uses data research to reveal the answers.
The right to the family is still the mainstream concept of marriage
Maybe you think that “the right to the family” is the previous concept, which is now outdated, but the survey data of Zhenai.com found that 60.2% of young people agree with this concept, because marriage is a matter of two families. , The righteous couple can promote mutual communication and emotional warming, and it is easier to communicate. The other 39.8% said they did not agree. The data also shows that the top three cities with strong Mendi concepts are Wuhan, Beijing and Shenyang; the top two cities with weak Mendi concepts are Chengdu and Chongqing.
dowry and dowry are also a manifestation of the concept of marriage. The customs and habits of various places are different, but some common points can be found through data. For dowry requirements, 51% of people are "under 50,000"; 28% are "50,000 to 100,000"; 21% are "over 100,000". Regarding the request for the bride price (cash), 72% of the people asked for “within 100,000 yuan”; 17% of the people asked for “100,000 to 150,000”; 11% chose other amounts. The two cities with the highest beauties are Henan and Fujian.
Marriage room is still a "hard" requirement for marriage
Marriage room has always been an inevitable problem in marriage. For a period of time, there have been emerging marriage requirements such as "naked marriage" and "simple marriage", but the data found that, Marriage room is indeed the first choice of many people, at this point, women are more prominent. Statistics show that nearly 80% of women require buying a house before marriage, and nearly 40% of men require buying a house before marriage.
In terms of the down payment requirement for the marriage room, 49% of people think that it should be “burdened by the man’s family”; 22% think that “both families should bear the burden together”; 17% choose to “pay by both parties to the marriage”; 12% Of people choose "whoever has good conditions will bear the burden". In addition, there is a relatively unanimous opinion on the issue of loan repayment. 74.37% of young people believe that they should share the burden. This is also a manifestation of a change in modern marriage concepts. The concept of
marriage room has always existed, and it is also considered as a guarantee for a new family. So what happened to the question of whose name is written on the real estate certificate? The data shows that 56% of singles think that "write the names of two people"; 32% think that "the two families need to discuss together", and 11% think that "write the name of the party with the more money".
Money issues need to be negotiated by all parties.
Regarding money issues that have just been married, such as weddings and banquets, 47.15% of people think that “being borne by the man’s family”, and the traditional concept of the man’s main responsibility is still the mainstream trend; 26.98% of people think "Bed by both families"; 25.82% of the people chose "Whoever has good conditions will bear the burden"; 0.05% of the people think "Women should bear the burden". Weddings and banquets are not only superficial, but also the dedication of the two families.
In the question of the ownership of the money, nearly half of the people (56.93%) chose to “belong to the newlyweds”. Parents consider that their children need financial support to get married and generally choose to leave this part of the money to the newlyweds; 30.65% of the people would "get back money from relatives". This is due to the relationship between the parents. After all, the relationship between the parents will need to be paid back. This is also one of the considerations; choose "to the woman's family" and "to the man's family" The number of people was 4.31% and 4.72% respectively; in addition, a very small number of people (3.39%) chose the "party who paid the most for the wedding." This kind of money-related issues requires both parties to negotiate, and how to make reasonable and appropriate arrangements requires thinking.
The results of this survey brought some attitudes of the new generation of young people to the problems that may be encountered in marriage. With the changes of the times, our concepts are also changing, but some traditional concepts are still the mainstream. Although this timeThe research only involves part of the problem, because there are countless problems waiting to be solved behind the word marriage. Our society is also working hard to give young people enough space and time to think about these problems so that they can have an ideal marriage. Our single men and women do not need to feel that these things are cumbersome and cause stress, but should appropriately use external forces to reduce stress, find their destiny as soon as possible, and earnestly pursue their own happiness.
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