The devil is hidden in the details.
Instead of entangled with the half-truths of girls’ “linguistic cues”, it is better to calm down and judge the girls’ attitude towards themselves through some details when getting along.
"Like to chat with you" and "Like you as a person" are two concepts. How do you know if a girl likes you?
asking directly is tantamount to suicide.
For girls, this is tantamount to letting her speak out before boys. In the eyes of most girls, taking the lead in expressing her attitude will make her feel underestimated in her relationship.
regards girls "frequently chatting with themselves" as a signal that girls like themselves, and it is easy to fall into misunderstandings.
girls are willing to chat with you, only to prove that by chatting with you, she can get what she wants, but others cannot provide.
such as your professional knowledge, the social resources you have (money, contacts, inside information), the pleasant experience brought by your talkative;
is even just to pass the time-her other friends have been busy recently, and you are the only one free.
girls will take the trouble to meet her professional teachers for the content of the final exam.
In this case, professional teachers do have "attraction" to girls, but this "attraction" is far from reaching the level of establishing a relationship.
In this case, if you make a judgment that "she likes me" or even push the relationship blindly, the result will not only be boring, but also make girls alienate you. What behaviors of
mean that girls are not very interested in you-
mentioned more than once that she has a boyfriend
"I have a boyfriend", if a girl tells you this, it does not rule out that she is deliberately setting up obstacles for you;
But if a girl mentions her boyfriend more than once, but also mentions specific details, such as:
"My boyfriend will pick me up later"
"This is from my boyfriend"
Then even if the girl is single, It is enough to show that girls are not interested in you and do not want you to continue chasing her.
She doesn’t pay attention to what you say, and she doesn’t respond positively.
Out of politeness and reservedness, how many girls will not actively refuse the invitation of boys to "chat";
but if you and your topic does not arouse her interest, then her response Will become dull:
"Oh"
"Really?"
"That's it, haha"
"Then you are great"
Her expression and body language have not changed, which shows that you and your chat content It couldn't arouse her interest, so much so that she was very satisfied, thinking about how to end the conversation as soon as possible.
She always looks at other places; she leans back and is unwilling to face you; this is a vague expression of "I want to end the date". Which behaviors of
are false signals?
Women are born to attract men through disguised signals. A woman with extensive social experience knows how to use her beauty to confuse men and make men fall under her pomegranate skirt. The men who took the bait of
will eventually be labeled as "spare tire", "good guy", "grass-eating guy", and even touching the tip of a girl's finger becomes a luxury.
is interested in contacting you, but not interested in you.
If a girl talks to you frequently, the response time is short, and her speaking attitude is very low-this does mean that the girl is trying to please you, but she is pleased Must your purpose be you?
One of my younger brothers worked in the school newspaper, and once asked me to cry and told me that he was rejected by the school girl. The school girl
was very positive to him on weekdays, all kinds of closeness and flattering-so this time the school girl also "politely" rejected him.
I asked her: Does a girl chat with you rarely involve her personal life?
looked at the record, and it turned out that most of the time the girl was talking with him about "work", "people we know together", and some entertainment gossip.
Every time boys want to talk about their hobbies, living habits, and local customs, girls immediately become perfunctory and even leave with excuses.
I told the boys: Although you are not a high-ranking student in the school newspaper, you are a senior. Out of respect for your identity, work experience, and inside information, girls will also show interest in you.
But she is interested in the resources you can provide, not you.
If a girl always touches you deliberatelyAvoiding "private life" and "personal status" can basically conclude that girls are not interested in you.
will chat with you, but can't talk about "you"
This is a dilemma that some talkative boys often encounter:
often has girls who talk to him, find him to dispel troubles, and talk to him about various concerns.
He knows the secrets of every female friend, some of which are not even known to their boyfriends.
But unfortunately, every time he tries to talk to a girl about himself, trying to open up to the girl, the girl will immediately "look at him" or even interrupt and continue the topic. The behavior of
shows that girls like to chat with you, but they don't like to give you feedback, and they don't like to talk about "you". Your attraction to her is far from enough to make her interested.
They will only take the initiative to find you when they need you.
Lack of tacit understanding
The best way to distinguish between true and false signals is to "confirm the tacit understanding", such as asking her to help carry something, let her play a game with you, and see if the other party is willing to engage in tacit understanding, and whether he is really willing to invest further In the interaction between the two.
If the other party is not engaged in tacit understanding, or the degree of commitment is not high, then the previous signal can be regarded as a false signal, which means that you need to consider whether to change to a girl who is more likely to accept you, or to reflect on yourself in time. Before being patient with you, establish an effective attraction for girls in time.
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