Text: Shi Xiaolin
Picture: From the Internet
My husband and I are classmates from junior high school and high school. We have been classmates for six years. This is really not easy among classmates. When
was in junior high school, he was the representative of the physical education class, and I was the representative of the Chinese class. Only when the class cadre meeting was held, it was considered close contact. Although I knew each other, I basically didn't say anything.
When I was in high school, I was in the second grade. My grades were not good with them, so I applied for liberal arts. At that time, the admission rate for liberal arts classes was about 5%. Generally, there are 50 students in a class, and there are not more than three people who can enter the university. It was expected that
failed the ranking. My best test result was also outside the 30th place in the class. At that time, there were quite a lot of classmates in our class, probably seven or eight pairs, including me and my husband, five pairs really entered the marriage hall, which has broken the historical record of our school.
We started with the target from the second semester of high school. That time, my husband and other classmates lost a game of table tennis. According to their initial agreement, whoever loses treats, just in time for Saturday, but I didn’t have any reply. Home, confused, they were dragged to the restaurant.
I still remember that one meal, which cost a total of 17 yuan (later I asked my husband, he sold the food that he brought to school). They scared me when they went to check out, because my pocket money was only two or three dollars a week.
My husband drank too much that night, and the other three classmates took him back to the campus dormitory. In fact, there was no special impression of him at that time.
At the age of eighteen or nineteen years old, which girl is not cherished for spring, but I think, even if you are talking about objects, you should find someone from another class. As the saying goes, rabbits don’t eat grass.
Soon after the dinner party, my husband was playing basketball on the playground, but he accidentally fell down and scratched his hand on the glass. The blood was flowing. He washed it with water, pressed the wound with his hand, and returned to the class. Auntie, just gave me a roll of tape, so I took out a handkerchief and bandaged him. At that time, it was just out of instinct and did not think so much. Unexpectedly, my classmates told me that I was a partner.
just like that, the fake drama is really done. Our love also starts from this. At that time, we were still poor students with nothing. When we were in love, we often went to the orchard behind the school, and sometimes went to the cultural palace in the township, drinking two cents and a bottle of soda, and eating a night snack was also a dime. A stick of fritters and a bowl of camellia at two cents.
In the second month after failing the college entrance examination, my husband came to my house with a gift of 1,300 yuan, which was considered a marriage decision. At the end of the same year, we got married. At that time, 17 classmates attended our wedding, with gifts of 10 yuan and 20 yuan. We were the first to get married among high school classmates.
I remember a few years ago, when I had a QQ account, I added a lot of classmates one after another. They "see" me, and the first sentence asked: "Married to an old classmate, do you have a happy life?"
said true Yes, I don’t know how to answer. When I was in school, because I often watched the works of Xi Murong and Qiong Yao, I would always confuse my future life with fantasy. But when I was really married, I realized that the reality of life was very different from the expected wishes.
Because, even no matter how romantic love is, it will eventually come down to one node: what you face every day is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, having children together, sweating to support the family. There are five
husbands and brothers. Although the father-in-law is a cadre in the brigade, no matter how good a family is in the countryside, it cannot withstand the toss of five sons. When we got married, our father-in-law and mother-in-law built three tiled houses and a kitchen, plus a small courtyard. However, I am already content.
We got married on December 26, 1992. At that time, there were a few migrant workers in the village. Some went to Shenzhen, some went to Dongguan, and some went to Zhangjiagang. Z1z
After we got married, we are also considering our own future, whether to go out and work at home, so the goal must be clear.
After many trade-offs, her husband decided to stay at home. But after we got married, we only have more than one acre of land in total, so what kind of flowers can we get? According to my idea, simply go to the street to do business. Open a clothing store or a shoe store or something. Both of them graduated from high school. They are people with a bit of culture in the countryside. If they step on the ground in the ditch, they will be laughed at. Husband
said that there is definitely no future in the hope of farming, otherwise, let’s start with raising chickens.So, I borrowed 800 yuan from my natal family, and my husband borrowed 500 yuan from his elder brother. Our "career" officially began.
Anyone who has stayed in the countryside knows that if you want to reap the rewards for farming in the countryside, you need to have the right time and place, and you must have patience. This is the same as growing garlic in Jinxiang County, Shandong. The market is good and bad. When it is good, it can make people "full for three years in one season". When it is bad, you will not even have a place to cry.
Our chicken coop is in our own field. At first I thought it would be very comfortable to raise chickens, because when I was young, I felt very happy to pick up eggs. But after we started to work, we realized that the hard work surpassed our imagination. We had been studying before, and had hardly done any physical work.
But after one year, my husband and I have gradually adapted to the smelly chicken coop, we can walk in and out calmly, especially when the manure is out, it is simply unbearable, but the husband still carries it. The bag full of stinky feces was loaded into the flatbed truck outside.
But the most tiring time is when you just bought the baby chickens. The weather is cold and they are easy to get together. If people are not driven in front of them, they will be easily crushed to death. Therefore, my husband and I take turns on duty, sometimes without rest all night.
When I am in a hurry, I also complain about my husband, and sometimes there are some disputes, but then I return to normal, do what I should do!
In the second year after marriage, I gave birth to a son. Fortunately, my mother-in-law is better and takes the child with her actively, so that we can do our best. In 2003, we contracted another two acres of land nearby and started raising pigs, chickens and sheep. In the process of
, I have experienced many ups and downs, but the husband and wife work together. Generally speaking, it is better than working. One year when the market was at its best, we made nearly 200,000 yuan, and most of the people who went out to work in the same village were 30,000 to 40,000 yuan. If
wants to profit from breeding, it must keep up with the pace of development of the times, what kind of variety is most needed in the market, when it will be released, the most advantageous price, and what kind of feed is most helpful to meat quality. The trick is still there. We have some cultures, and we keep studying knowledge about breeding every day when we have free time. After so many years, I have become a veritable veterinarian. When
built a house in 2008, the first thing I asked for was that there must be a decent study room in the house.
In my heart, I am a person who pays attention to the taste of life, but in view of the limitation of family conditions, I had to wait in silence. After 2014, the economic situation has undergone a major turning point. At that time, the family had more than one million deposits.
We contracted another fifty acres of land to plant red kiwi fruit and high-quality grapes.
In order to not be controlled by vendors in terms of sales, my husband went to Nanjing alone to find some well-mixed classmates to help open up the market. By coincidence, a well-connected classmate was responsible for the operation of an e-commerce company. He taught her husband how to do it. operating. Because of the use of the Internet, by 2017, the native chickens, native ducks, native goats and kiwis raised in our family will be self-produced and sold. The profit is twice that of ordinary people.
Now, my home has become a place for delivery. I walk an average of more than two hundred orders a day. Busy, let us find happiness and a destination. Although I am tired every day, I still feel delicious when I wake up with a dream.
In my photo album, there are photos of our high school graduation. Of the 52 students in the class, two have left the world. Whenever I think of the bits and pieces of time together, I sigh, but this also stimulates my fighting spirit. While I am still alive, I must cherish it so that every day will be full of different excitement.
Of course, there are a lot of good friends among the classmates, some become directors, some run foreign trade companies, some become logistics agents in the city, and some are executives in enterprises. But most of them are plain and plain. They silently dedicate themselves in ordinary jobs.
The five pairs of classmates who got married in our class back then have two divorced. Some people say that marriages between old classmates are relatively more reliable. I don’t think so, because everything is artificial, especially marriage. If there is no tolerance, tolerance, care and understanding between each other, the marriage will disintegrate, it has nothing to do with whether it is a classmate or not.
In 2018, the child graduated from university. Considering his development, we giveHe bought a house in the city. This is the case with parents, who want to make their children's lives better. Let them work at ease without worries.
And my husband and I bought a three-bedroom and one-living room in the county town. I think that one day when we can’t do anything in the countryside, we can also stay there for a few days. Between the countryside and the small town, I don’t feel The same mood of life.
The love between my husband and I, just like our breeding and planting business, is a long and flowing water. There are so many ways to realize love, vigorous and beautiful, but the long flowing water is the real life.
Marrying a former classmate, for me, it should be a very romantic thing. In the countryside, as long as you work hard, you can live what you want.
Twenty-eight years of life, by no means a string of words can clearly describe the right and wrong of the process. I only know that we have overcome the difficulties of life together, and have passed the "three years of pain and five years of coldness" of marriage. , Seven years of itch, ten years of injury". Also, we are all healthy now, and we still have some savings. This can be regarded as proof of happiness!
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