"Will you give up your current job for me?"
"If you are together, I am willing to give up work, where you are, where I am."
is a classic TV series dialogue. I used to think it was very romantic. Once again, I feel that this is actually a trap. Why does
say that, because these two lines of dialogue tell us to a certain extent that career and love cannot coexist. In order to highlight the nobility of love, career can be sacrificed.
In reality, how many people are like this, in order to choose to flaunt the importance of love, they either give up their careers or persuade them to give up their careers.
1. Xiao Liu who gave up his job for love
Xiao Liu was an elite in the company when she was not married, but after she met her husband, she went to her husband’s city, quit her job, and thought about being there. Start again.
But her husband persuaded her not to look for a job. They are not young anymore and they must prepare to have a child, and the child needs someone to take care of it.
Xiao Liu said that her mother-in-law can take care of her, but her husband said that the elderly can take care of their children, but it is better for parents to teach children how to behave.
She is always on the rise in her career, so it is most suitable for her to bring children.
finally hoped that the child would be older and wanted to go out to work, but because she had been derailed for too long with society, she could not find a suitable job.
even the husband who persuaded her to quit her job said she, "You are like this, who wants to recruit you to work? Or stay at home honestly."
Xiao Liu is particularly wronged, she is just for love I gave up my job, but I didn't expect to end up with this result.
2. Sister
whose love and career coexist and a sister I know faces the same situation as Xiao Liu, but she does not give up what she likes to do.
Even if she brings a baby at home, she will still take time to read and improve herself. She doesn't want to be surrounded by the family in the future.
waited until her child went to kindergarten, she went out to work, because she has been studying, so she was able to take over the work soon and did a great job.
She said that many people think that there is a sequence between love and career, and sometimes they cannot have their own career for love. And for the sake of career, you can't care about love. In fact, the two can coexist and find a balance, but many people give up without finding it. After
gave up, it was quite regrettable, how did he make such a choice in the first place.
Career and love can coexist, and the two are not in order.
is just that, in real life, everyone will have something to focus on, but both are important modules in life and are indispensable.
Don't think that it is noble to give up work for love, and don't think that it is very independent to give up love for work. In fact, we are stuck in the limitation of our thinking.
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