mom? Mom is the person who gave you life after pregnancy in October, and then worked hard to raise you, and have a constant blood relationship with you; your wife and you were originally strangers, but they knew each other by destiny and fell in love with each other. It is a good thing for a hundred years, and it is agreed to spend the rest of my life together. If you only save your mother, your parents-in-law and your family will bother you; if you only save your daughter-in-law, your neighbors will poke your spine and say that you are ungrateful, marrying your wife and forgetting your mother.
A sensible person will say, whoever is close to me, I will save whoever; a negative person will say that I will not save anyone, I will jump down and die together with her, then I will be liberated and never encounter Such an annoying thing; people who care about love will say this: I will save my mother first, and then save my wife, if I can save my wife, of course it’s best, if my wife can’t be saved, I’ll jump off. , And die with his wife; and flexible people will say, I will save my wife first, and my mother will have my father save it; but from a legal point of view, you must save your mother first. The relationship between mother and child is legally determined Yes, no one can change it. In law, you have a legal obligation to support and support your mother.
The Constitution of the People's Republic of China stipulates that adult children have the obligation to support and support their parents. Article 21 of the "Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China" stipulates that children have the obligation to support and support their parents. When the children do not perform their support obligations, parents who are incapable of work or living in difficulties have the right to require their children to pay support.
And when your parents are in danger, you have the duty and obligation to help. If you don't help, it constitutes "intentional injury" or "intentional killing" of inaction. On the surface, this question
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is a test of a man, who is more important to you than your mother or your wife. But why must one choose between mother and wife? Why can't two people exist at the same time? Are mother and wife incompatible? In fact, this question is a trap and a false proposition. There was a typical complicated question in logic: Have you stopped beating your father now? Whether the answer to this question is yes or no is wrong. You should answer: I have never beaten my father. In other words, why must I choose one of the answers you provide instead of choosing another answer? The question
is to put it nicely. It is called a test of a man’s EQ and IQ, but if it doesn’t sound good, it’s a question of sow discord. This question immediately pushed a man into a desperate situation, he had to choose one of the two. This is tantamount to putting a man on a fire. This problem does not know how many family harmony has been destroyed. So the person who invented this problem is actually a frenzied neurosis!
Many men feel confused when facing this question and don’t know how to answer it. In fact, this question can be solved like this:
One, after a man gets married, if conditions permit, try not to live with his mother.
Because young people and older generations have different living habits and ways of thinking, living together will inevitably lead to various contradictions and troubles. If we say that we live separately, there is nothing like this. It also avoided the root cause, if mother and wife fell into the river at the same time, the question of who should be saved first. Of course, live separately and don't live too far apart. If the distance is too far apart, it will be difficult for the elders to take care of anything. It is best to keep the distance between a bowl of soup, that is to say, make a bowl of soup and take it to the elderly. The soup is not cold yet, this is the distance.
Two, if your mother and wife are really idle, they will ask you this question.
You can say something like this: As long as you all love me sincerely, your position in my heart is equally important, and there is no need to differentiate between them. In other words: Is there something I did not do well? Did it make you unhappy? So much so that you ask me this question.
Three, the person next to you asked you this question, but he didn't have any bad intentions, he just wanted to see how you deal with it
You can say: Didn’t this happen? Let’s talk about it if it happened. In other words, why should I let my mother and wife go by boat at the same time. It can also be said that usually I can let my mother, my wife, and me, everyone learn to swim. Isn’t that all right?
Four, if someone asks you this question maliciously and wants to see your jokes
, you can give him back unceremoniously: Hey hey, how do you say it? Did you talk like that? You see my life is getting better, you feel uncomfortable, right? What's upsetting you? Mind your own business! Then I ask you, do you prefer steamed or braised when you eat shit? !
Mom and wife fell into the river at the same time, who should save first? On the surface, it is an emotional problem, but in fact it is more of a thinking problem. Whether it is this question or other questions, the key lies in whether this question is a false proposition, is it a question with traps, and whether it has the meaning and value of discussion and thinking. If it is a false proposition, then jump out of this trap in time and don't be led by others.
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