How does it feel for the first married man to marry the second married woman? Listen to what the three men say

1, Mr. Zhang

, I feel there is a hurdle in my heart. I can’t get past myself. It’s not a good time to think that she has lived with others for so long. Many beautiful things have been experienced with others, so it seems to be with a second-married woman. There is no enthusiasm. Although

has some inevitable thoughts, it should be mainly based on people. It is not possible to judge a group in general. There are also many first marriages that meet people who are not good, and finally meet the right people. The marriage is happy and sweet. The key is that the two sides can understand and support each other and treat each other without colored glasses. If there is prejudice at the beginning, it is impossible to get along well. It lies in mutual tolerance and understanding. In general, there is still some resistance in my heart, honestly.

2, Mr. Xu: 28 years old, married for 2 years, she has no sense of security, I feel very sorry for Mr.

Ouyang said when she met his current wife. She was only 26 years old at that time, his wife was the same age as him, and she had just divorced. The reason for his wife’s divorce from his ex-husband was that his ex-husband was very good as an executive of the company. After getting married, she discovered that her husband fell in love with another woman. This woman is better than her and more beautiful than her. When my wife got divorced, she felt very painful. This caused his wife to feel insecure after marrying him. Mr. Ouyang said, "I feel sorry for him. A woman suffered such trauma in her last relationship. That man is simply too inhuman. I really want to give her a sense of security, so I let her in many aspects of life. I hope he can get warmth and a sense of security."

3, Mr. Li, I regretted

. In fact, at the time, many people introduced me to girlfriends, and I also had a blind date. Several, but in the end I found that none of them met my criteria for mate selection. So my marriage dragged on again and again. Later, I met a girl in all aspects. I was still quite satisfied. I tried to contact her but one thing was not satisfied. She had a marriage. At the time, because she was more honest, she didn't care too much.

But, after getting married. She and her ex-husband are disconnected again, because there are still children between them. Although the child has always stayed with her ex-husband, it is a piece of meat that fell from her after all. She couldn't let it go, so this relationship between us ended. I couldn't accept a woman with another man in her heart. Therefore, here, I would also advise a gentleman to think clearly when you get married, whether you can really accept the other person's past, don't accept it when you are in love, and reconsider old things in your married life. In this case, it is really difficult to be happy