The Law of Unworthiness: Tell me, when the sexes are dating, don’t do things that are not worthwhile and keep some self-esteem

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can come out of a failed relationship? Many people say that it’s good to survive, but no one has ever taught us how to survive. Those who have not lost a relationship can never experience that. The feeling of losing half of my life, is it really useful to survive it? I tell you, it's really useful to get through!

Today I will break the reality apart and tell you about it, but the premise is that you don’t trap yourself in place, don’t immerse yourself in those unhappy emotions, don’t go back to details, don’t make assumptions, maybe because there is no Meaning, he doesn't like you, he really doesn't like you, even if you relive it a thousand times and ten thousand times, it still can't change the fact that he abandons you.

Have you ever noticed: When girls say that they broke up, most of them are inseparable. They just vent their current emotions and say some angry words!

But when a boy says that he breaks up, one point is accurate, and sometimes even so unfeeling that makes you suspect that this person is the one you once fell in love with?

In my opinion, as long as you don’t come to the end, it’s not a true love, at best, it’s a journey with you along the way. If you really love you, you don’t want to leave you alone, so you have to learn Accept, accept the fact that he has fallen in love with you, accept that he has fallen in love with others, accept all the reasons that make you feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. Once it was good, it was called "stop loss in time", but many people couldn't do it. The reason why many people can't do it is because they can't see a better future. They always feel that the previous is the best! Because most girls make a mistake when they are in love. They are both deaf and blind. They always fantasize about themselves as an exception. They always think he still loves me. They always fantasize about something if I can change something. Will fall in love with me again, but the facts are often not as expected. Such girls usually lose miserably! They always fantasize that they can change the fact that an outsider can see through at a glance. Many girls will cry and shout: We have been together for so many years. The behavior of my hard work and resentment is the same as those on TV. I have no credit and hard work. Their nature is the same. Yes, there is nothing wrong. You have made great sacrifices in the past and made great contributions, but I am sorry, in the future expectations, After weighing it, he judged that the value you can provide is not worth his turning back. Some girls are really stupid and don’t know where the confidence comes from. She may feel that he will never meet you like you again. People who like him so much, the people he meets in the future may not be as good-looking as you, not as good as your deep emotional foundation, not as good as you understand him, sorry, you really think too much, but who knows whether that girl’s income is as high as you , Is your family background hello? Who knows that your value has long been used up by him, who knows that the girl is more fresh?

For these people, what is feeling, feeling is a gift box. Although it is exquisite and beautiful, it will make people's eyes shine, but few people make the act of buying pine and returning beads, right? I'm not saying that you are not good, nor that feelings are worthless.

Let’s make a contrast sandalwood box with a bottle of Jiang Xiaobai and an old newspaper wrapped in a bottle of Lafite in 1982. If it were you, which one would you choose? It’s not uncommon. Because when a man makes a decision, his future expectations occupies a large part. Just like many companies would rather spend a monthly salary of 10,000 to recruit a fresh graduate who doesn’t know anything, but they are not willing to give a monthly salary of 6,000. The salary of an old employee is increased by one thousand yuan, because the old employee has been working for so many years, you can basically see what you can do, and the ceiling has been touched, but a new person, she still has this infinite Possibly, you can also burst out more vitality by using the experience of getting along with your youth. You don’t understand the principles of the predecessors planting trees and future generations taking advantage of the shade. In fact, love is the same truth, those relatives Couples who have been in love for many years, they are actually very close to the status of an old wife and old wife. After getting married, boys already know about what kind of life you are like, but they met this new person and found out after getting along The conditions are the same as you, even better than you, but when you get along and find that you are more favorable and more comfortable than you, then they will easily choose someone with more future expectations. As for us, sometimes the order of appearance is really very different. Important, maybe it was the newcomer who was with him back then, and the person who married him now is you, youWhat is provided is "existing benefits", and the newcomer presents "future expectations", and your boyfriend feels that if you have a try and become single, he will easily choose future expectations instead of Given the benefits, we all say that we don’t meet anywhere in life, but some turns are really a lifetime. From then on, we will never see each other!

It’s very difficult to say goodbye to someone who has loved so hard. The farthest distance in the world is not life and death, but the other side is already calm and calm, and you still remember it. Have you ever heard of the princess’s "World"? There is a sentence in the lyrics that says: Not all feelings have a beginning and an end. They end lonely, and it is not necessarily panic. I hope your eyes will be filled with smiles from now on, and every tear you shed will touch you. I hope that every dream you have will not fail. I know that it is difficult to lose a relationship, but you can definitely get through it. Come on!