Text|North Su
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Regarding the relationship between marriage, I think most of them are very clear and clear in their hearts when they have a foreboding that they may encounter such a relationship. Extramarital affairs are wrong, and extramarital affairs will not have any good results. I can't feel sorry for the lovers and relatives around me.
Then why are some people approaching and accepting the so-called affectionate in the state of knowing these inaction?
On the road of feelings, the biggest gap between people may be that some people live very self-consciously, while some people live very self-disciplined.
Self-conscious people think that satisfying all their pursuits is success, while self-disciplined people will understand that proper restraint and timely satisfaction are true success. The success of
puts in the feelings and family, is to truly reap a happy, perfect, reunion and stable life through one's own efforts.
In fact, think about it carefully, the real beauty that should be actively strived for is to make all the existing efforts for the better. It is not how much beauty you can expect from another relationship for another person, and not to regard another relationship as a life-saving straw.
If you can't find happiness in a stable relationship, you won't encounter any good results in a relationship that has no promises, especially a woman. Don't treat anyone outside of marriage as a change. The right person in your life.
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Will extramarital affairs change a person's original life?
Of course, and this kind of affection will have a lot of impact on the original life, very serious, extramarital love can really change a person's life, but it is not a positive impact, but a negative one. The impact of paying a price.
Maybe extramarital affairs will have costs. Some people also know that it’s just because they are too ego, they only know how to care about their own feelings, they only know how to feel their own expectations and pain, so when they taste the price, they will regret it. Emotion.
Regret is the most useless awakening and the most useless excuse for mistakes. But some people may be more sad than those who know how to regret, and they don't even have the opportunity to regret.
She is a 35-year-old woman. From an extramarital relationship that shouldn't be close, she finally understands what reality is. She also overdrawn her happiness and life during this experience.
She is a person who pays attention to feelings, or it can be said that she is a person who is relatively easy to have no opinion. The marriage is strongly promoted by her parents, and her partner is a man who is not very talkative and not very good at making her happy.
The person outside of marriage is someone who can say that it will be romantic and will send warmth, so her heart is moved, and she accepts it in light of her own feelings, and this so-called true love has the opportunity to affect her life.
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got along for half a year and the other party signaled to break up. At this time she had actually lost herself and didn't want to let go, but the other party changed and became very indifferent.
She did not wake up in time and found that the extramarital affair was unreliable. She did not expect that she should take back the heart and cherish the most important people and feelings to her. She continued to be obsessed, and she only knew how to immerse herself in the pain of breaking up extramarital affairs every day. Finally, the marriage no longer gave her a chance to redeem, and she was divorced.
When a person loses her marriage and original family for the so-called extramarital true love, will the extramarital affairs pay for her? Will the people in the extramarital affairs care about her life?
If someone in an extramarital relationship is reliable, why would he betray his home? A person who can even betray his closest lover and his family the most, can he really care who loves whom?
So women, when you are moved by someone inexplicably approaching, when you are pursuing all kinds of warmth for a person, don't just know how to feel the throbbing and beauty of being pursued, don't be like a simple little girl. You believe everything you say, you are an adult, you have a family, and you have to understand that a person who betrays the family is not credible;
Similarly, when you are too ego and unable to restrain yourself and enter an extramarital relationship, you are faced with an extramarital breakup. To know how to tell yourself to establish a sense of stop loss in time, you must know to tell yourself a truth: the person in the affectionate extramarital relationship you want can't be given originally, and the only thing you can gain from your mistake is to be serious in the future Treat your own life and work hard to manage your own family's awareness.
Woman, don’t lose your stable marriage, affect your family, and overdraft your ownFor the rest of my life, the person who said he likes you outside of marriage is not worth it.
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For a woman, especially a married woman, it is too important to get warm and loved feelings from emotions. This is also one of the reasons why most women will only consider themselves when they encounter extramarital affairs.
When a woman feels that the feeling she needs is not seen, understood and given in marriage, she may have an impulse to ignore herself because of the warmth outside of marriage.
This is a simple state of a woman living for herself, pursuing what she wants, thinking that that is the best, and what is lost in the end is the best.
If you want not to be overdrawn by the so-called extramarital love, and if you want to live your life deeply after experiencing an extramarital relationship, a woman needs to work hard from two aspects to reach a state of maturity:
First: Follow Now, look inward for the direction of happiness.
Many women will feel very emotionally disappointed and complain when they are unsatisfactory in their marriage and relationship. They always think that the other party should treat themselves how they should be, and think that he has not paid enough attention and care to themselves, just not good enough If you don’t love yourself enough, you will think that the very diligent person outside of marriage cares more about yourself.
Courting outside will have two results. One is that you will never be satisfied, because others treat you better, and you will expect him to be better; the other is that you can easily walk into the swamp of life and rely on love. People lose the ability to save themselves.
Paying attention to the present is a way to help women look at their lives well, and to help women develop the warmth, emotions and happiness they have and exist through their inner needs; the process of
also allows women to gradually understand the establishment Feel the life and be grateful for the consciousness that you have. When this consciousness matures, women will be rich in their hearts, and they will know how to actively create and manage their own lives, and they will no longer only know how to complain about what they should do.
Second: Make a detailed plan for your own people, and know how to truly do for yourself.
Obtaining the results that may not necessarily be the best for oneself is like having an extramarital relationship, just like many people who struggle with pain for an extramarital relationship. Is it happiness to get that so-called relationship?
Is it happiness to get the person who betrays the family and says that he loves you, but who can turn around and say that he does not love you?
Only when you have no definition of the true happiness of your life, you will be obsessed with someone who does not belong to you.
If you know how to make a plan for your own life and life, you have your direction, and you will not be shaken by a relationship without quality.
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thinks of extramarital love as a happy woman in a lifetime. How stupid it is to think of it as a happy woman in a lifetime. You really have to lose everything in the end before you remember that you love it wrong?
At the end of the extramarital relationship, still naively nostalgic for the affection of a man? Still not accepting reality? Still expecting men to care about love?
When an extramarital relationship broke up, the man who actively asked to break up didn't care about these, so don't miss the so-called affection.
hopes that women will stop being so blindly emotional. When encountering extramarital affairs, they know how to refuse, and know how to use self-discipline to achieve a better self; if you wake up too late, then stop the loss in time, let go of your extramarital affairs earlier, and let yourself be earlier Sober and return to your normal life.
Letting go of extramarital affairs, giving up to those who have extramarital affairs is not a loss. On the contrary, if you know how to close your hands in time, you will be better for the rest of your life.
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