Do you know the lesson you learned too late in your life?
1. Do not beg others to enter your life.
2. Marrying the wrong person is more lonely than being alone.
3. You can't let the other person love you in turn by loving someone.
carefully discovered that these three sentences have one thing in common, that is, when the right person does not come, you should not try hard, because even so, you will not get a good return.
chatted with a few friends and found that many people are now facing a problem, that is, being urged to marry by their parents, forced to go on blind dates, and contact strangers of the opposite sex. One of
's friends said that he has been losing weight recently. This month, he has contacted 3 girls and they all think that others are pretty good. They just dislike him for being too fat. The parents have been urging them to be positive if they like it, so he I work hard to lose weight just to compromise with my parents and with others.
After listening to him, everyone was happy, but they were very sad.
still remembers what a friend said when she was young. He said: "If two people can’t talk together, it’s meaningless even if they’re married. If someone dislikes me for being fat, then I will let her hurry up while she’s still young. Find another one."
found that when young, everyone wanted to meet love, but as they got older, many people’s hearts changed, thinking, "If you don’t meet love before 30 , Then you can only compromise." A girl next to
once gave her future partner many harsh conditions. Some people said she asked too much. Then she said: "These requirements can be changed. Either you can change when you meet love, or you can change when you’re going.”
Later, her girlfriends got married one by one, and she became the girl who has been the most bridesmaid. With her parents and relatives constantly urging her, she finally chose In order to compromise, it took only two months from the blind date to the marriage. After getting married,
always cannot resonate with her spouse. She likes to go shopping, watching TV, laughing and joking. The spouse likes to read quietly, and occasionally goes out fishing. He often dislikes him for being too noisy. She cooks him a meal and is often caught It is too light and unpalatable.
cannot blend into each other's circle, nor interfere with each other. The life after marriage only made her feel that there was one more person around her, but she became more lonely.
A good marriage life, I think it should be 1+1>2. Happiness is shared with you, and sadness is shared with you.
But if two people are together, but often feel lonely, it is not as good as being alone, living comfortably and freely.
met a girl a few years ago, 30 plus, is a typical Guangpiao, in the eyes of her parents, she is an unhappy person, even if she can make a lot of money, even if she is alone.
is alone. She has her own house, her own car, and is close to the company. She is busy with work every day. When she is free, she invites friends to go shopping and watch movies, eat and drink. When she comes home, she also has her own In a private space, I will exercise for an hour a day, read a book, listen to music, and live a fulfilling and chic life.
When talking about single life, she said: "The advantage of being alone is that you don’t need to discuss what you want to eat every day, and you don’t have to be afraid to say a certain sentence to make the other person unhappy. You don’t have to do what you don’t like because of him. Things."
she said: "If one day meets a person, he will double my happiness, and two people get along smoothly, then I will not hesitate to say goodbye to single life, but in that person Before, I will live my own life first."
Sometimes, two people may not be as beautiful as you think, and neither of them is as bad as you think. Therefore, it is more important to live a good life before meeting that person.
Many people will force themselves to enter the world of two individuals due to various external reasons. Compromise in marriage will be done, and they will not make life smooth at the same time, but they will make themselves and the other party exhausted.
In fact, love is very simple. When you meet the right person, you will find that most of the problems in life are not that bad. Many things seem to be simple. You don't need too much to compromise.
But forcing yourself to live with someone who is not suitable, to change yourself to cater to each other, you will feel tired over time, and it will also put a lot of pressure on the other person.
Therefore, everyone should have their own life first, love themselves in their own lives, and wait patiently for the right person to make your life better.
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