Someone said: "The address between the opposite sex often expresses the other's feelings."
The relationship between men and women actually starts from daily "communication". The boy who is still in love, when he meets the girl he likes, he can't help but go up and "mouse". So, when you first contact, how to call the other party becomes very important.
When someone needs to ask for help from the opposite sex after they have married and established a business, how to call each other has become a question that everyone needs to think about.
When facing one's love object, most men's address should be "Dear". The term "beauty" is used more frequently when facing the opposite sex who you don't know.
However, in daily life, men like to call women the most, often referred to as "sister". When most women hear the word "sister", they actually have two thoughts. First, is he older than me? Why call me "sister"? Second, does he like me?
So, these two doubts are fighting in my heart. And a woman will treat the man called her "sister" on her own impulse. But what is the purpose of that man calling you "sister"? It is mostly these kinds of meanings, as long as you can explore the heart of a man, then what you encounter may be your "lucky".
Men call you "sister", mostly because they want to be "close to you"
once heard this sentence: "The first half of the chat will determine whether you are The status in the heart of the other party.”
When people chat with people, the first impression is very important. In psychology, there is an effect called the "primary effect". The first time the two parties chat, the first time they meet, they can actually determine their position in each other's hearts.
Men like to call you "sister", mostly because they want to establish a position in your heart. It makes you feel intimate, just like the relationship between brothers and sisters, thus narrowing the distance between the two sides and getting closer to you.
The word "sister" has a bit of "protection" in it. Think about it, if this man wants to pamper you or want to be close to you, then he must make you feel "secure" in order to pave the way for better communication in the future.
A man is a creature with strong curiosity. If he sees it and feels good about you, then the term "sister" is the best performance.
Men call you "sister", mostly because they want to "show" themselves
Every man has a "giant" in his heart, and this "giant", It represents the strength and protection of men.
Why do we often see in daily life that men always like to show themselves in front of the opposite sex, and even have disputes with their brothers for the opposite sex? Such "struggle" is a kind of "show."
They call you "sister", which is why. Because they want the opposite sex to know how powerful they are, and they also want the opposite sex to understand their abilities. Then, the phrase "sister" is a sign of man's dignity.
Many people wonder, why is it a show of dignity to be called "sister"? Think about it, if a man calls you "sister", what does it mean? It means that he is softened and can't compare to you in some respects.
Then, his "sister" address is a kind of "smugness" display.
When a man calls you "sister", it's probably something "please"
has seen such a thing. In the work unit, the boy Liu often turns to the girl Xiao Chen for help. Every time Xiao Liu asked Xiao Chen for help, he would say to her: "Good sister, only you can help me this time!"
Such words sound a bit "awkward", But it is Xiao Liu's masterpiece. Whenever Xiao Chen heard such words, he always wanted to beat him up, but he still softened. Because such words originally meant "begging for someone" in it.
Getting along with each other, between the opposite sex and the opposite sex, is inherently complicated. If you use some more "familiar" address to plead with the other party, then the other party will easily agree to your request and even have a better relationship with you.
You should know that such words are the "sweet words" we often say. Since it is "sweet talk", it has the effect of "sweet" to the heart.
When a man calls you "sister", he probably falls in love with you
When a man calls you "sister" and reaches a certain number of times, there is another one This possibility means that he "likes" you.
Why do you say that? A "sister" actually means "care". He wants to express his wish to protect you for the rest of your life. However, if he can't pull the bottom to tell you directly, then use the word "sister" instead.
The heart of a man is like this. He thinks that this kind of "ambiguous" title can bring people closer and express their own feelings. Then, it is easy to determine the relationship between the two parties, let love germinate, and even bear fruit.
I once knew a couple. The name between them is a bit strange. The husband calls his wife "Sister" and the wife calls her husband "Brother". This name sounds a bit strange, but when you think about it, it represents the "establishment" of a relationship.
I have you in my heart, and you have me in my heart. Then, the naming of "brother" and "sister" has become daily life. This daily routine means that the other person falls in love with you.
It is a habit for men to call you "sister", most likely
There is a more unexpected situation, that is, it is a habit for men to call you "sister".
There is a friend. When he went out to eat with him once, he also invited a lot of friends to the scene. Most of the friends there were "girlfriends." Whether it is younger than him or a few years older than him, he always calls it "old girl".
"Sister, stop playing with your phone, pour me some juice, your brother, I'm thirsty."
"Sister, hurry up and eat, and you will spray all your saliva when you chat. The food is inside."
Such words have become his daily habit of speaking. For him, calling a woman a "sister" mostly belongs to the unique respect he believes in his heart.
In the future, no matter what man you meet in your life, as long as he calls your sister, then it will represent these five meanings. If he wants to get closer to you, then he will definitely bother you every day and keep calling you "sister". But if it's just a habit, then he will call the opposite sex the same.
is actually the expression of the human heart. Grasping their inner thoughts is actually grasping their own "fate."
文/舒山有鹿
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