"I suspect my husband treats me like a wildcat when it comes to nice things, and he treats me like a chicken when he says bad things." This was said by a good friend of mine, Xiaoxue. I was very shocked when I heard this. What kind of logic is this?
Xiaoxue had just been married for just over a year. Before the marriage, the two of them negotiated not to have children until they had earned a few years of money, since they were young anyway. It stands to reason that this marriage of less than two years should be very harmonious and beautiful, so why do you treat her like a chicken?
Xiaoxue has an ordinary appearance, but has an excellent figure. She can be wherever she wants, and she is well-organized. She told me that since she got married, every time her husband wanted her, he would throw her down violently without caring about Xiaoxue's feelings. Whether on the sofa or on the bed, he would just roughly pull off her clothes, without much foreplay, and just go straight in.
Moreover, he was extremely rough and did not even allow Xiaoxue to resist. As long as she resisted, her husband would torture her even more severely. Xiaoxue said that although she sometimes likes to be so domineering, this approach feels like treating a chicken, with no emotion, no tenderness, only venting. She said she can't figure out why?
Xiaoxue said that her husband is a civil servant and his life is not too stressful. They live alone and do not live with their parents. She is also innocent. Her natal family is also well-educated and sensible. Her husband has a good personality and his original family is also very good. However, in their married life, he treats her like a wild woman. She really can't understand it.
Xiaoxue also said that sometimes when she wanted to live a married life, her husband would say he was tired and ignore her at all. But as long as her husband wants it, he won't ask her. No matter what she is doing, she can't stop his wildness. She said that she also asked him, but her husband just kept silent.
Over the past year or so, Xiaoxue has concluded that this man treats himself like a chicken.
I was quite shocked when I heard Xiaoxue's words. Is there any man who treats his wife like this and is of no use to the family?
I asked Xiaoxue to check her husband’s mobile phone or computer to see if there was such a short film, and whether she had been taught bad things there, but she found nothing.
I have met her husband. He is very intelligent in dealing with people. I heard that the company leaders like him very much and he is expected to be promoted. Why is his married life so rough, making Xiaoxue feel like a wild flower?
Xiaoxue also said that except for that aspect, the two of them are doing well. They don't quarrel or have cold wars. They come home on time after get off work. She just doesn't know why her husband is like that?
When Xiaoxue came to tell me this, I was very confused and couldn't explain the reason, but I had an intuition that her husband loved her very much. The more a man loves a woman, the more he wants to conquer the woman physically. If it is not simple and rough, can a woman feel comfortable?
If she acted softly, weakly, and leisurely in such a matter, any woman would probably be so angry that she would kick the man out of bed and find a toy for herself.
When I told Xiaoxue this idea, she laughed so hard that she thought I was talking nonsense.
If I were a man, I would look at this issue from the perspective of her husband: "Treat your wife as a wild woman, which is full of fun and gives you a feeling of superiority. This is fun." But I can't say this yet. This is just my guess, I didn’t dare to tell Xiaoxue. (Haha)
In short, Xiaoxue just thinks that her husband treats her like a wild girl, and she still doesn’t know why.
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