Maybe the moment you gave up was your darkest moment. The wishful thinking you had, the beautiful longings you had, and the interactions you had had are like shadows that linger with you. However, any thing, even if it is tragic or bad, when you extend the time, it is just a small stick in your life. No matter how ugly the trend is at that time, it will return to normal later.
So giving up is a wise move, and it is more sensible than carrying it on hopelessly.
We might as well imagine, if you insist on not giving up and insisting on your so-called love, what will be the results and what are the chances of winning?
First, there is no chance, and you will end up alone. And if you don't give up, you have to give up if you don't give up. I believe everyone understands the degree of psychological trauma between giving up love after two years and giving up love after ten years.
The second is that your love finally touches the other person, and the person who originally had no feelings for you is moved and accepts you. However, you have to be clear-headed. Love is spontaneous and two-way. The emotion accumulated by your one-way dedication is ultimately different from the heartbeat. And the love gained by being moved can only last for a while. The famous writer Su Qin said, "Sacrificing yourself for one person regardless of gain or loss can eventually move the other person. But being moved does not mean being moved. Even if love is committed to being moved, it will not stay moved for too long." Two people attract each other and go in both directions, which is true love.
The third thing is your perseverance. When Yun Kai meets the day, the person who originally had a family finally divorced because of you. Let's not discuss the moral issues for the time being, and just discuss the facts. There is a set of data online that shows that 50.16% of divorces are caused by the involvement of a third party. After the cheater divorces, only 10% of people marry a third party; among them, 80% of men will regret it after marrying the cheater. If we break these data down, that is to say, 50 out of 100 people will divorce for a third party, and then 5 people will marry a third party, and 4 out of 5 people who get married will regret it in the end. To be clear, only 1 out of 100 people has no regrets. 1% probability, do you want to stick to it?
Therefore, your giving up may not be acceptable at the moment and may feel severe pain. But, later, when you look back, you will be very lucky. Those data are not just data, but a condensation of countless people's live cases.
Many times, the so-called "being trapped by love" really limits your unlimited possibilities, good times, and wonderful life.
Love is not advisable to be too obsessed with. In love, you have to take the initiative and rely on yourself to "qualify" instead of waiting for someone else's victory or defeat to determine your "qualification". The meaning of life is very different between enjoying love for ten years and enjoying love for fifty years. Giving up is to win more good times for yourself.
To save others is to save oneself. Uncle Ka intercedes, insists on originality, and continues to share emotional topics. Welcome to browse Uncle Ka's other emotional articles. You can also go to the comment area to give Uncle Ka a topic, and Uncle Ka will write for you personally.
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