The infection has peaked recently. Who is taking care of you if you are infected?
Some friends may laugh at themselves, saying that as an adult, no matter what kind of care is needed, one person can definitely handle it.
Even so, when the girl reads the news recently, she is often shocked to the point where her eyesight goes black.
In marriage, sometimes the person next to you may not even have outsiders caring about you.
Sick, this demon-looking mirror can only be seen clearly if the person next to you is a human or a "ghost" by shining it on yourself.
Recently, in Heze, Shandong, a wife had just been diagnosed with positive , and she experienced a scene that made people laugh and cry.
was diagnosed at night. Early the next morning, the whole family ran away, including: mother-in-law, children and husband.
It stands to reason that my mother-in-law is very old and my children have weak immunity , so they are not able to withstand the torment. It is understandable and understandable that she left.
But the husband also left without looking back.
Although the old saying goes, "Husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly apart when disaster strikes." However, this is not the level of "catastrophe" at all, but they still leave each other behind and fly away. What if there is a disaster in the future? How can you give your back and sincerity to a person like
?
What’s even more outrageous is that even if he left, he even took away the only fruit at home.
did not leave any nutrition for the patient who may have persistent high fever, body pain, and inability to move, and did not show any consideration for the other party.
even singled out rotten fruit and left it in the cupboard.
Ask yourself, we are not so cruel to our roommates. What does this husband do to his wife?
I think, as long as there is a trace of friendship in the heart, one will not do such heartless things.
As soon as the incident came to light, the comment section all exclaimed, "Human nature exposed!"
After discussion, the only word "divorce" came down to.
Everyone is filled with indignation, why? Because there really is such a person around them, and one day the guarantee of failure will come true for them.
Nowadays, we rarely have the opportunity to face life-and-death tests, and it is difficult to see through the hearts of people in an instant through the performance of major moments. Therefore, most people spend their entire lives in a daze.
A wife who takes care of all the housework, a mother who raises children like a widow... Disappointment is always accumulating, but it is not despair, and I endure it day by day.
But no one expected that this lingering on the sickbed would not only be a test of one's own immunity, but also become a detector of emotions and even people's hearts.
How many people are forced to face the facts and sadly discover that they treat each other sincerely, but they cannot get even a single ounce of cherishment.
was so passionate that he paid everything wrongly!
Some people are selfish regardless of objects or situations.
Nowadays, in addition to children and the elderly, there is a group of adults who also need special care, and that is pregnant women.
After a woman becomes pregnant, her own hormone levels change drastically, her mental state and physical condition undergo great changes, and she needs more care and attention from people around her.
However, some husbands do the opposite, as if it is not their wife who is pregnant and the child is not their own.
A respondent on Zhihu shared her own experience. She was 6 months pregnant at the time and accidentally became pregnant. Her husband asked for leave and went home, euphemistically calling it "taking care of her". What does
actually do?
plays games until midnight every day, and sleeps until the afternoon the next day before getting up. When he is hungry, he goes out to find food... one person is full and the whole family is not hungry.
What should pregnant women do? It's none of his business, since he has hands and feet so he won't starve to death.
The pain of his pregnant wife became a reason for him to relax. The existence of his child could not stop him from pursuing happiness.
But this is even a blessing. Because if you are not pregnant, you cannot delay cooking even if you have a high fever of 39°.
And when cooking, you have to pay attention to the nutritional balance, otherwise "I don't like to eat it."
The woman herself is also impotent
If you really can’t get up, it doesn’t matter, don’t worry, every mess will be left for you, and you can slowly clean it up when you get better.
This husband feels that it is not easy for him to cook every day, so no matter what his wife's physical condition is, she must share some of the work.
He was so afraid of tiring himself, but he never thought that his wife had been so tired countless times that in the end, he took all the housework thrown to his wife for granted.
Some people think that it is good enough for him to know how to cook when his wife is sick.
However, precisely because of constantly lowering the bottom line, these things that were originally part of the job gradually became requiring praise and praise before they could be done, until finally they belonged to women alone.
The so-called marriage is supposed to support and rely on each other, but in reality, it has turned into a calculation of forward and backward calculations and a calculation of gains and losses.
This is a partner in the business field, not a harmony on the road to marriage.
Priceless treasures are easy to find, but lovers are rare.
True love does not need to be taught, or even said. He expresses his sincerity instinctively.
Some time ago, the same family was infected. When the husband first became positive, he didn't care about fighting hard. But when his wife was diagnosed, the husband immediately took it seriously. He cooked and prepared medicine, tested antigen, took body temperature, observed and protected in real time, and did everything he could. A husband like
can be called a 24-year-old filial husband template.
As expected, the message area this time was filled with blessings.
Comparing our hearts, we are not mindlessly opposed to every marriage, but the person who will be together for a lifetime must be a worthy person. The respondent
provided a good answer template. Also during the extraordinary period of 8 months of pregnancy, the husband and wife were infected one after another, but neither of them thought about leaving the other behind. Instead, they invested energy and time without any scruples.
The road to marriage is ultimately supported by two people, so they are not afraid of being infected, and their first thought is to feel sorry for each other; instead of flying apart when disaster strikes, they get closer to each other, and are grateful to have been with each other all the way.
This is a healthy marriage.
If every day we worry about such trivial matters as who did more, who did less, and who infected whom, until the end, what will be left will not be love, but only meaningless revenge and mutual accusations.
Disease is a mirror that reflects the good, evil, beauty and ugliness in the world.
was a "demon" at heart, but he suddenly revealed his true form. There was no way to assume responsibility. All the trust that had been entrusted in him collapsed, and it would take thousands of times more effort to rebuild it.
People who are "people" at heart will be more convinced that each other is worthy of staying together for a lifetime. There will be a long road ahead, but you will never be alone with your lover by your side.
Only a marriage based on love can last forever, and that requires every bit of support and companionship in daily life.
Just like the wedding vows: no matter good times or bad, no matter rich or poor, no matter health or disease, no matter youth or old, we will be in the same boat through thick and thin, share weal and woe, share joys and sorrows, and become lifelong partners!
Click [Looking at] . I hope we can all find that person with whom we can share wealth and adversity!
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