"It's so hot at home. I have to get up and cook for the whole family when the temperature reaches 39 degrees. Your brother-in-law can't move in bed at 38 degrees. I still have to eat and drink. The workers have taken a break, and I still have to go to the factory to pay for goods. It's so hard to be a woman..." Ever since my sister's family of four became positive, I have listened to the above conversation several times a day, from feeling distressed and unfortunate at the beginning to being angry and resentful, and then to being very disgusted. I have always felt that this kind of self-sacrificial marriage is not something great to be proud of. On the contrary, it makes people very humiliated.
Since the liberalization, overnight, the whole city has been filled with Xiaoyang people, and my sister’s family has not been spared. First, my 14-year-old nephew got positive. Four days later, the whole family started showing symptoms one after another. My eldest nephew, who came home during the winter vacation from college, got positive for the second time, then my sister, and then my brother-in-law. Probably my sister had the worst constitution, so she had the worst fever. On the day my sister developed a high fever, her brother-in-law had no symptoms, her younger nephew had recovered, and her eldest nephew's symptoms were mild. My sister still struggled to get out of bed and cook food for the family. My sister is a person who loves children very much. Their meals always include a combination of meat and vegetables, and are full of color, flavor and flavor. So even though I felt very uncomfortable, I still made a soup with 2 meat and 2 vegetables for the sake of nutrition for the children. The next day, my brother-in-law started to have a fever, which reached as high as 38.2 degrees. He lay in bed all the time, checking his cell phone and sleeping, and had no appetite for food. My sister was worried that he would not have enough food to resist, so she carried the meal to the bedside with a high fever of over 39 degrees, and she was almost unable to feed him. Because I was worried about my sister and nephews, I would call her every few hours, and then my sister would complain to me about how wronged she was. Unable to bear it, I yelled at her: "You made your own choice. If you don't cook, they will starve to death? If you don't go to the factory to pay the bill, the factory will close down? You don't have to do it, but you have to do it yourself, so don't complain. Walk on your knees and walk the path you choose..." My eldest nephew gave a thumbs up next to him to show that I was his mouthpiece.
To be honest, my two nephews are both good, sensible and sunny children. On the contrary, my sister has always liked to take care of them, and she has always been proud of them. Until now, the two nephews have not even washed their underwear. This year, my eldest nephew is going to college. My sister worries about her son not being able to live independently. However, when her eldest nephew has no problem at all, she feels very disappointed. It was the same this time. My eldest nephew secretly told me that it wasn't that they didn't feel sorry for their mother. After the whole family became ill, the younger nephew said that he could learn to cook and take care of the family. My sister insisted on disagreeing because she felt that her son was not afraid of Yang Chun Shui. As the sons who were taken care of by the great mother even though they were sick, I didn't dare to refute a word. I had a different stance. I said that I was afraid that my sister would be disappointed. I felt that my sons looked down upon me and I felt aggrieved. How could you not feel happy hearing me criticize their mother?
There is also my brother-in-law. Because there were too many brothers in his family, he could not afford a wife to marry into my family, and he was spoiled by my sister to the point of not being able to get married. I remember the first time I quarreled with my sister over this matter was during the summer vacation of my freshman year. At that time, I had made an appointment for a summer internship, but my sister asked me to go home to take care of my nephew. I felt sorry for my sister, so I put the reserved meals in the refrigerator at noon. After washing the dishes, I went to the shop downstairs to take care of my nephew so that my sister could take a lunch break. As a result, my brother-in-law called me and lost his temper because he couldn't heat up food in the microwave. He blamed Sang and Huai and said why I didn't wait for him to get home and heat up the food before leaving. I was so angry that I yelled at him, "Are you a prince? You can heat a 3-year-old child in a microwave oven. You are also from a poor family. You grew up cooking and doing farm work in your own family. How come you become an ancestor when you come into my family? Why do you have to be taken care of by others?" At that time, my sister was worried that I would hurt her husband's self-esteem, so she had a fight with me.
I still find it difficult to understand my sister’s brain circuit. My brother-in-law is married into my family, which is good, but my parents bought him a house in the city, a car, and raised his children. They live separately and give birth to children with his surname. Our family doesn’t owe him anything, right? He married into his wife because his family was poor, but it was not our family that caused the poverty. Why do we need to support him as an ancestor? Later, the family conditions got better and better. After my brother-in-law got rich, he spent time and alcohol outside. My sister was still virtuous at home, taking care of the housework, taking care of the children, and taking care of her own shop. We felt sorry for her and could only help. If she didn't get divorced, no one could do anything. I remember one time I was helping with housework at my sister's house, and my dad came over for lunch. He loves dumplings. I remembered that the dumplings I made with my sister the night before were in the freezer, so I took some out and cooked them for my dad. My sister actually said, "Your brother-in-law loves to eat dumplings. This is specially reserved for him." I was so angry that I almost threw the dumplings on her face, and secretly yelled at her behind my dad's back: "Why am I the worst?" Your husband has had a hard time cheating, so you can save some of his favorite food so that he can have the strength to find more women?
Okay, I admit that I have a bit of a venomous mouth. I often get angry at my sister. I really feel sorry for her misfortune and get angry with her. This is my first time as a human being. I don’t understand why some people live in a self-sacrificing way. I can’t understand it.
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