Nowadays, most people spend a lot of time online every day.
This also leads to the fact that we live in the real world and also live in another online world.
On the Internet, whether you are reading posts, playing games, or doing something else, you will always meet some people who you feel are pretty good and who make you feel very opportunistic.
In other words, it is not that I met such a person by chance, but that from the beginning, I intentionally met him and wanted to find a partner.
In the real world, everyone's circle is so limited. If you can't find it around you, you will naturally turn to the Internet. There are real people behind the virtual place
, and they are all kinds of people. It is normal to meet people who feel good.
It's easy for us to feel that way, but we'd better not fall in love easily with someone we've never met.
If the distance is too far, just get along normally.
once encountered a case where a thirty-year-old man fell in love with a woman from a foreign country. He said it was because she often encouraged him and understood him well. He, who had been suppressed by his family, felt that he had found the value and meaning of existence there.
So, without ever seeing her, he fell in love. He chatted with her every day, regarded her as his girlfriend, and kept spending money on her. He felt that he had simply met true love.
reminded him tactfully at that time and asked him to pay attention. The other party might be lying to him, but he didn't take it seriously.
What happened to them later, I don’t know, but I believe this situation is not an exception. There are always people who are far apart and may not have the chance to meet, but they have already established a romantic relationship, but they are already in all kinds of intimacy and continue to give.
Maybe he is really lonely and the other person can satisfy his emotional needs. However, such feelings do not count after all.
Distance is really a problem. We may not meet each other one day. Moreover, with this kind of love, we don’t even know who the other person is behind the Internet, and whether the identity mentioned is true. The relationship between
and each other is abnormal. Even if it makes you feel satisfied for a while, it won't be able to continue for a long time. It is very likely that it will be over without even seeing it, and the whole process will be completed.
Sometimes, when reality is not so satisfactory, you can turn to the Internet and find someone to talk to. However, it is just a matter of communicating and getting along with each other as ordinary friends. Don't expect too much and be too emotionally invested.
It is really possible that the other party just wants to defraud money. Even if it is true, most of the time, it cannot be sustained at all.
Even if they are very close, we must meet first before talking.
Maybe each other's cities are quite close to each other, and the two people may even be in the same city.
is so close and still cherishes each other so much. This is indeed worth making people happy. You can feel very happy about it. However, you don’t have to ignore it and just say that you really like the other person and feel that the other person is the right person.
Don't be naive, even if you are very close, it is still possible that many of the other party's messages are not true. Even if everything is true, the feeling of meeting and chatting on the Internet may not be the same.
Don't overestimate your own judgment, and don't be too trusting in the people you meet. If you both feel good, then meet them first.
Find a day that both of you think is suitable, find a place that you both think is safer and has a larger flow of people, clean it up, meet the other person in real life, take a look with your own eyes, confirm the other person's identity and appearance, and then say anything else.
At that time, if you really didn’t feel that good and were rather disappointed, forget it and don’t mention it again. If
still feels satisfied, he has carefully examined all aspects of the other person's information and found that it is reliable, that they are really single, and that the other person is willing to continue, then he can slowly get along with the other person and develop gradually.
Falling in love is still a relatively important thing. It should not be too hasty or too casual.
No matter what, it is always necessary to meet a real person, understand the other person's character and personality up close, and feel the actual feeling of getting along with the other person.
Don't like someone you haven't met in person. The celebrity you have liked for many years may collapse and be completely different from what you imagined. What you see is just the surface, not to mention when you are looking for a partner, you need to be cautious enough.
I haven’t seen anything like it before, more of it, but it’s just my own illusion. What
likes is not the real appearance of the other person, but the appearance that he imagined and added filters to.
That and the other party may not really be the same person, but they are just self-righteous in various ways.
Life has never been as good as imagined. Occasionally, it is okay to use the Internet as a kind of sustenance and put your love on someone you have never met. However, you still have to pay attention to the right amount.
Live in reality, not in your own illusions.
You also have to like a real person, not an unattainable and unreal dream, then you will wake up.
text/Tan Meng
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No matter what, it is always necessary to meet a real person, understand the other person's character and personality up close, and feel the actual feeling of getting along with the other person.
Don't like someone you haven't met in person. The celebrity you have liked for many years may collapse and be completely different from what you imagined. What you see is just the surface, not to mention when you are looking for a partner, you need to be cautious enough.
I haven’t seen anything like it before, more of it, but it’s just my own illusion. What
likes is not the real appearance of the other person, but the appearance that he imagined and added filters to.
That and the other party may not really be the same person, but they are just self-righteous in various ways.
Life has never been as good as imagined. Occasionally, it is okay to use the Internet as a kind of sustenance and put your love on someone you have never met. However, you still have to pay attention to the right amount.
Live in reality, not in your own illusions.
You also have to like a real person, not an unattainable and unreal dream, then you will wake up.
text/Tan Meng
picture/network
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