No one wants to lose their wife in their old age. Even couples who have been quarreling all the way still cannot accept the departure of their wife in their old age. Many old people think that they can live without anything, but they absolutely cannot live without their wife. Aft

Introduction

No one wants to lose their wife in their old age. Even couples who have been quarreling all the way still cannot accept the departure of their wife in their old age. Many old people think that everything You can live without it, but you absolutely can’t live without your wife. After all, your wife has been with you for most of your life, and you have family ties even if you don’t have any feelings. There are even some elderly people who have been taken care of by your wife. Suddenly your wife leaves, and he feels like a useless person. He can’t do anything, and he doesn’t know how to take care of himself.

Old people who also have this problem cannot accept that they don't have a wife by their side, so they will find a wife for themselves in their later years. They originally thought that if they find a wife who likes them, they won't have to worry about anything in their later years, but in the end the two separated because of the issue of keeping their pension. So what happened to the two of them? Let’s take a look at the story below.

Narrator: Uncle Zhang is 66 years old

My surname is Zhang, I am 66 years old this year. In the year when my wife just left me, I had no interest in anything, and I couldn’t even take care of myself. Looking back on the days when my wife was by my side, I didn’t care about anything. I didn’t have to worry about it. I didn’t buy a single meal, and I didn’t think about what to eat. My wife took care of it all for me. Although we often quarreled when we were together, and at the most serious time, I even thought about getting a divorce and didn’t want to be with her anymore. However, after my wife left, I couldn’t do anything, and I missed my wife especially.

My wife and I have a son and a daughter. They got married the year after my wife left. After they got married, they all moved out and never came back even once a year. I didn’t want to follow the kids, so after I retired, I lived at home alone.

A person's life is a bit boring no matter how I say it. I feel downcast every day. My friends asked me to go out for a drink, but I didn't want to go, so I just wasted my time at home. Later, maybe because of the passage of time, I slowly figured out that I shouldn't go on like this. The days are still very long, and I should cherish it, otherwise I will definitely regret it in the future.

When I first started, I didn’t think about remarrying. Firstly, I felt sorry for my wife, and secondly, I was worried that my children would mind, so I never thought about it over the years. I lived alone for a few years. Later, when my children saw me alone at home, they felt uncomfortable, so they suggested that I find a wife. This way, they don’t have to worry about me being unsafe at home alone.

Although I refused at first, when they continued to enlighten me, and when my brothers and friends seemed to be in love with their wives, I felt very sad and envious, so I decided to listen to my children and find a partner.

At first, I didn’t know how to find a wife who suits my heart. It felt like looking for a needle in a haystack. It was hard to find. I am also quite honest and I didn’t dare to take the initiative to chat with women. Until one time, I met my old colleague Ah Mi from many years ago.

Ami is a friend I met when I first came out of society. We haven't seen each other for many years. If she hadn't recognized me, I wouldn't have recognized her. She has changed a lot. After a short chat between the two of us, I found out that she divorced her ex-husband. Now she comes here to help her son and grandson. At that time, I thought she was quite good. It was pitiful, so from then on, the two of us made appointments to chat every day. I was worried that we were both bored. I also wanted to find someone to chat with, so I went with Ah Mi. When chatting with her, time passed very quickly, which also made me very happy. I had never noticed before that the two of us actually talked about so many topics, and we had many similar hobbies, which made me very happy.

After getting in touch with her for a period of time, I felt that she must have a good impression of me, otherwise she would not come out to accompany me every day, and would often make breakfast for me, so a bold idea came to my mind, that is, I want to remarry her, and I don’t know if she is willing. My children support every decision I make, and as long as it is what I think is good, they will support me.

After getting the support of my children, I found a suitable time to tell Ami my inner thoughts and suggested that the two of us get together. When I told Ami this, I was worried that she would reject me. Fortunately, the results were good, but she did not agree to get the certificate and chose to partner up.

She said to me: "I can be with you, but we will only work together without getting a certificate. In addition, I hope that your pension will be handed over to me for safekeeping. Don't worry, your pension will be put together with mine. From now on, our living expenses will be taken from it. I will account for everything we spend every day. At the end of the month, we will calculate the amount together, so you don't have to worry about where the money was spent."

She raised these opinions with me, and I felt that there was nothing wrong with her. Moreover, I thought that since the two of us were together, we should not care so much and should be honest with each other. I believed that as long as I treated Ah Mi with my sincerity and sincerity, she would live a good life with me, so I agreed to Ah Mi's words. After the two of us got together, I directly handed over my pension card to Ah Mi for safekeeping.

After we decided to become a partner, Ah Mi moved to my place to live with me. In this way, the two of us lived harmoniously for a year and a half. To be honest, I was very happy during the past year and a half, and the two of us basically had no quarrels. However, even if there is any mistake, it is all my fault. I will admit my mistakes and prevent Ami from being angry. Ami also took good care of me during the days when I was together. She was busy with the family every day and went to her son's house in her free time. I had no objection and let her go.

However, when I told my friends that I had given my pension to Ah Mi for safekeeping, they immediately said that I was stupid. I didn’t understand. I gave it to my wife to keep the pension. What’s so stupid about it? Moreover, the two of us were together, so we shouldn’t divide it between you and me. Whose money is not a flower? What should I guard against? However, my friend said that I was too naive, and said that I know people well but don’t know their hearts. Don’t be fooled by others and count their money stupidly. You will find out later. I hope I won’t regret it.

In my heart, I believe in Ami. She has been thinking about this family and me for the past year and a half, and she has never done anything to disappoint me. How can such a good woman be like her friends and others say? However, after a long time, I gradually became a little bit behind and thought that at my age, I still met such a good wife. Is there some ulterior purpose? The more I thought about it, the more panicked I became.

During that time, I thought about this matter every day. When I looked at Ami, I didn’t think there was anything suspicious about her. Sometimes I also thought that I was worrying too much and shouldn’t take what my friends said to heart or doubt. But my brain couldn’t tolerate my thoughts, so I decided to test Ami to see if she was really with me. After thinking for a long time, I came up with a way.

On the second day, I told Ami: "Recently, my son wants to buy a bigger house. He has money, but he is still short of it, so he came to borrow some money from me. I think my pension is 5,000 per month, and we can't spend much every month. We should have saved a lot of money, so I want to use my savings to buy a house for my son first. When he makes money later, he will return it to me."

I thought Ah Mi would agree immediately, but after she listened to what I said, she thought for a while, and then said to me: "Okay, your son is in trouble and he really needs help, but we need a bowl of water. Since you give your son money, then I have to give my son money. This is only fair, what do you think?"

After hearing what she said, I was speechless. What kind of logic was this? I gave my son money, but I didn’t say I wouldn’t pay it back. Why should I give her son money? Her son has no pressure now. I thought she was playing tricks on me, fearing that I wouldn’t get the money back. I told her that the reason why my son is anxious to buy a house now is because his grandson is going to junior high school. If you want to go to a good high school, you must have a room in the school district, otherwise you will not be able to get in. I have money, so I should help and reduce their pressure. I am not saying not to give money to her son, but I am saying that the money should be given to my son for urgent use now, and when the son's funds are restored, we will give her son money. This is not the time to insist on fairness, at least we must make arrangements based on the situation.

But no matter what I said, Ah Mi refused to take out the money. It was okay to take out the money, but she had to give half of it to her son, otherwise she would not take it out. She said: "You have given all the money to your son now. We didn't save any money in the first place. What will happen when my son is in urgent need of money? There will be no money to give to my son. I don't care, it just won't work."

I was really angry with her. She only thought about her son, and now her son couldn't use the money. What was she worried about? However, when I saw that she refused no matter what, I got angry and asked her to bring out all the bills of our expenses for more than a year.

However, when I asked her to take out the account book, she was obviously a little surprised. It gave me the impression that I didn't believe her, so she went back to the room angrily and took out the account book and threw it at my feet, asking me to find out. If no problem was found, she asked me to share the money equally with her, so that we no longer have to worry about the money and we don't have to be together anymore.

At that moment, I felt that I had gone too far. I didn’t really want to make her angry, and I never thought about divorcing her, so I kept apologizing to her, hoping that she could forgive me, but She was unwilling to forgive me, and said to me: "Check the account book carefully. If you think there is no problem, I will divide the remaining money into equal parts later, and then call you back. Your pension will also be returned to you. Your pension card is too valuable. I don't deserve it and I can't afford it."

didn't allow me to say a word. She completed all the procedures in one operation. After calling me the money, she went back to the room to pack her luggage and left without saying a word to me. Seeing Ah Mi without looking back, my heart felt like a needle pricking me. I regretted it. I shouldn't have. I believe Ah Mi, I shouldn’t have tried her to see if she really wanted to live with me. I regret it. If I had known earlier, I wouldn’t have listened to my friend, so that I wouldn’t have lost a good wife. It’s hard to find a good woman like her. I feel very sad. I don’t know what to do. Ah Mi refuses to forgive me. I’m really mentally ill.