1. When I was having dinner the day before yesterday, everyone was talking about it. Recently, due to the counterattack of the epidemic, many people's travel plans have been disrupted. At this time, a female colleague said:
This morning, my mother told me that my grandmother passed away. Fortunately, because of the epidemic control, otherwise I would have to go back and stay up late. I would be upset if I was not exhausted...
After a word was made, everyone looked at each other, and the female colleague seemed to feel that she had lost her words. I quickly changed my words: Actually, it is worthy of being punished. After all, my grandmother is very good to me, and I want to go back, but because of the epidemic...
As expected, the female colleague posted a circle of friends after dinner, "Dear grandmother, I can't come back and send you a ride. I feel very sad. Please forgive me!" The picture shows an old lady holding a little girl, probably a photo of her grandmother when she was a child.
I clearly remember that she once told us that she grew up at her grandmother’s house for a long time when she was a child. Her grandmother was very nice to her and sometimes she felt that her grandmother was even more close than her mother.
I remember one time after the Chinese New Year, she brought back a large bag of walnuts, chestnuts, and bacon. "Walnuts and chestnuts were all made by my grandmother, absolutely original. The pork was fed by my grandmother himself, and I can't buy it outside!"
's happy face was filled with happiness, "It's good if I have a grandmother", but what about now? Grandma passed away, but she lamented that the epidemic control allowed her to relieve her of the pain and worries of "staying up even more vigilance", and later mourned her on her circle of friends!
As a colleague, I feel disgusted and sad when I see her words and deeds. What would it feel if the grandmother who loves her and loves her knows?
"I can't blame me, it's mainly..." This is probably the best excuse and excuse for such people. I obviously don’t want to do something, but I just want to find a reason to defend myself.
is just your reason, how pale, ridiculous and sad it looks in the face of the love you have enjoyed before!
2. I remembered that when I was working in the company, a new colleague came. As an old employee, I took the initiative to take him to familiarize himself with the surrounding environment of the company early in the morning, accompanied him to the supermarket to buy daily necessities, and then delivered it to the dormitory and helped make the bed.
After finishing, my new colleague called me to go to the noodle shop too early. He asked me what to eat. I have never been particular about it. I just said that I just put more peppers on the bowl of green vegetables.
After a while, I picked up the chopsticks and was about to start, but I saw that there were several pieces of beef, an egg, and a ham in the bowl of the new colleague opposite.
I was stunned for a moment, then smiled and said: You are quite rich!
New colleague ate egg beef noodles as if nothing had happened and said: You should eat breakfast well, and you can’t treat yourself badly.
I was stunned for a moment. After eating the bowl of vegetable noodles in a few bites, I got up and prepared to leave first. The boss called me and said that I didn’t pay for this bowl.
I was stunned for the third time. The new colleague turned his head and said: I was afraid that you would add other things, so I didn’t pay for you. Why don’t I do it?
I quickly said no, and while scanning WeChat, I turned around and left, feeling my stomach churning, and the bowl of noodles I just ate almost vomited out.
What I didn’t expect was that this new colleague later told others that I am a reliable person, taking care of my new colleague, and not greedy for small gains.
I got goose bumps all over when I heard this, and just wanted to escape from afar.
There is a kind of selfishness called holding chicken feathers as an arrow, justifying one's selfishness, and "praise" others and giving others a noble hat. It can be said that you can kill two birds with one stone, which is a great trick.
3. A female friend told me that the owners of their community discussed the issue of parking fees being too expensive. Many people agreed and hoped that the property could reduce the cost.
Suddenly a man said that he worked in the city and the parking fee was 50 yuan a day, so the parking fee of 300 yuan a month in the community is already very cheap. I really don’t understand why you are not satisfied. Do you want to have sex for free?
Soon, the remarks in the group quickly turned from discussing the parking fee to condemnation and abuse of the man, and it took a long time to calm down.
"If that man was in front of me, I would slap him twice at the time to show his superiority. I hate those who pretend to be X the most!" The female friend was indignant and furious. The most common way for people like
is to compare with the following: Compared with XX, we are already good enough, what else do you want!
The main purpose of people like this is not to deliberately stand against most people. They just want to show their superiority and prove that they are better than others.
People like this are: they don’t feel pain when they stand and speak!
html Can the 30000 yuan per month be the same as those who earn 3000 yuan per month? Even if you earn 30,000 a month, what about the monthly income of 50,000 a month?4. A few days ago, revisited the TV series " Survival Migrant Workers " and had a lot of insights. I feel that the people in it were not performed by them, but were just a true portrayal of life.
For example, there is a migrant worker named Wang Jiacai who is timid, selfish, cowardly, but prefers to come up with bad ideas.
Everyone went to the company to ask for wages, but the security guards refused to let them in. Wang Jiacai suggested that everyone go to the company together, with a large number of people and a few security guards were nothing.
A group of people arrived at the company's door. He stood behind and instigated others to rush into it. After that, the migrant workers had a conflict with the security guard. The Wang family thrust on the iron gate and shouted, "Boat hard, beat them to death."
When the leader Xie Boss was broken and fell to the ground, the Wang family and another migrant worker sneaked away in the name of calling the police.
Speaking of selfishness, the selfishness of people like Wang Jiacai is probably the most hateful. Under the guise of seeking welfare for the group, they pretend to be public and private. I will have ideas. You will do things and share the benefits actively. If there are difficulties, they will slip faster than rabbits.
In the movie "A Plan ", the line that Jackie Chan said to his boss, "You are responsible for the merits, and I am responsible for the disaster", profoundly and bluntly expresses the sinister and selfish nature of such people.
5. Selfish people are everywhere, and even everyone has more or less selfish elements. Selfishness itself is not scary, it can be weakened and changed; what is scary is selfishness without knowing it, and regard selfishness as the law of survival.
People who use selfishness to excuse themselves are just like the seven-injury punch of Xie Xun in " The Legend of the Condor Heroes ", hurting others and even more hurting themselves, and ultimately making themselves lose more and suffering.
I hope that fewer and fewer selfish people will be good people.
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