Is a relationship worth continuing? Many people are confused and hesitant, and continue to feel that he does not love him enough, and he feels a little lost and sad inside, and he is reluctant to leave.
The easiest criterion for judging relationships is that you are more happy than sad.
Two people are inevitably quarreling and frictions are present, but those who love you will definitely solve it with you, and will not let you deal with it alone, nor will they treat it in various ways that make you sad.
So when a man treats you like this, no matter how much he loves you, you must consider whether you should leave.
Hot and cold
This is a very common situation in relationships. When you don’t quarrel, it seems that he is obedient to you and gives you all the good things, but once you have an entanglement, he will turn on the Cold War mode for you, or you must compromise.
is actually just relying on you to control you. He knows very well that you love him and cannot do without him. As long as you fight with you, you will not be able to stand it. Finally, go find him.
No matter what the reason is, it has become your fault.
Although two people don’t compete for winning or losing, there must be someone tolerant, but if it’s you every time, then you have to consider whether he really loves you.
Because seeing whether a person loves you is quarrel. When there are disputes of interest, it is easy to be good to you when you are good, but how is it important to you when you are bad.
Today is just a quarrel that can make him treat you like this. Then tomorrow you have conflicts with his family, and what about when you want to divorce the day after tomorrow? Whether
is your concession.
You choose to be tolerant because of your deep love, but this behavior will only aggravate his compliment and make him become more and more presumptuous because he tasted the sweetness.
He knows that you are afraid of losing, and knows that you will always choose to compromise in the end.
So he is becoming more and more cold toward you. If you still don’t notice it, you will only compromise and make concessions, and you will be destined to suffer and be particularly painful.
suppress you
Many girls mentioned communicating with him, he always likes to pick on me, but he doesn't separate from me. Is it really bad for me?
Maybe you have many shortcomings, but it is not the same. Loving someone is to learn to appreciate her strengths, tolerate her weaknesses, and make each other better.
instead of suppressing the other party, making her inferior, and even to the illusion that only men want her and no one else wants it. Even if you are obviously better than him, you dare not leave.
He enjoys your goodness and says you are not good.
If you continue like this, you will become less and less confident.
If you don’t agree, break up
Whether it’s love or marriage, many people have encountered this situation.
Two people have a conflict, and the other party will ask, if you don’t agree, I will break up.
First of all, this is not a attitude of respecting you and solving problems. If you want to use breakup to threaten your future if you want to use breakup to threaten your future.
is unwilling to break up with physical contact, and does not want to have a child for the time being to get divorced. If you don’t listen to him, it’s also a divorce. Saying a few more words to your parents is still a divorce. You live in fear as a whole.
Not to mention happiness, life like this doesn’t even have a quality of life.
The more principle a person is, the more likely he is to get pure and respectful love from the opposite sex.
When a boyfriend or husband threatens you with breakup, he loves you, but to satisfy his various desires.
For example, asking you to be sensible is just to satisfy your desire for control. It is to dislike you that you are not good, to satisfy your inferiority.
So it’s not that some people can’t meet scumbags, you always meet them, but that she has love but also has bottom line.
She will cherish a good relationship, but she will definitely refuse the feelings that hurt her.
Men either escape or are reluctant to correct themselves when they meet such a woman.
So you need to have a bottom line and stick to principles. Maybe in a short period of time you will lose some "people who love you", but what you leave must be the people who truly respect you and are willing to protect you. Only healthy love can last, resist the countless trivialities in marriage and the dullness of life, and truly accompany each other through countless springs and autumns.
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