The mother who had been missing for more than 30 days had unfortunate news
The mother of her colleague died after losing contact for more than 30 days. It was notified by the police station.
The police station contacted their families from the alarm records and missing person notices.
The four colleagues and siblings, two sisters and one younger brother.
was born in the difficult 1960s, and both parents were workers in second-tier cities. Raising four children is not easy either. Although their parents don’t have much salary, they have grown up with their sisters.
Two sisters worked after graduating from junior high school, for the sake of multiple families.
Fortunately, my colleague went to high school and took over my father's class after graduation and became a worker.
In the impression of her colleagues, her parents had hardly taken care of her, especially after going to work, they handled everything themselves, and their parents would be considered herding sheep.
Mothers who do not give their children motherly love
also need to solve the problem of eating and drinking by themselves.
Parents feel that it’s time to take a breath after raising their children. It's time for the old couple to enjoy their happiness.
The sisters working at home have paid for their monthly salary before getting married. The three sisters take turns cooking, buying vegetables, and the whole family is responsible for eating and drinking.
The eldest sister, second sister, and colleagues all feel that it is boring to stay at home and does not have the affection and love of their parents.
The two sisters got married early.
The parents talked to her, regardless of whether they were asking or consulting. My mother often says that finding the right person is your blessing, and finding the wrong person will suffer.
Before getting married, the colleague’s family task was to use his own salary, adoptive parents, younger brothers, and family life.
The parents’ money is left for the younger brother to get married. This makes sense, the old and youngest son is the most favored and cannot be refuted.
She also wanted to leave home, so she got married in a hurry after she got married.
is preparing to get married, and my parents have not helped me. Anyway, I have developed the ability to be independent and self-reliant since I was a child.
gritted his teeth and got married. Although my husband didn't care about his parents-in-law and was dissatisfied with his daughter's marriage, he felt so patient.
Colleagues married themselves and just lived their own lives.
finally left the home that had never felt the warmth since birth.
After marriage, my mother accidentally returned to her parents' home. Her mother always played cards with her neighbors and did not get up to say hello. She just looked up at the couple, "What do you want to eat, you can make it yourself." Continue to build the Great Wall.
Son-in-law can't stand it anymore, and it's not easy to get angry in front of neighbors.
"Mom, let's put things here, we're leaving."
went to my mother's house, that's the scene.
With a child, my family is busier and I don’t care about going to my mother’s house.
The mother is also busy, and her younger brother is married and has a child. In addition to being close to his younger brother, his grandson is okay, and his sister-in-law is the same as his daughter.
The daughters grew up at home, know their parents, and get used to it. If they can't stand me, they can leave and go back to my own home.
The daughter-in-law was unhappy. The sisters didn’t come back, and the mother-in-law and father-in-law didn’t kiss each other, so they simply moved out and stopped living together.
The parents didn't go to see their grandson, and they lived a leisurely life again.
The children of colleagues, the children of colleagues and sisters, parents have not seen them in a day. All three sons-in-law have complained. Tacitly understood, it was not a special day, and no one went to his parents-in-law's house.
Mother's indifference
Suddenly one day, my father suddenly had a heart attack, and the mother remembered her children. When the siblings and sisters received the call and rushed to home, the father was no longer able to do it.
The siblings arranged for their father’s funeral, but they left their mother’s house without stopping for a long time.
Slowly, the mother is old and wants to take turns to stay at the house of several children. Everyone discusses that the mother should live in her own house and the children should take turns to accompany her. Everyone assigned tasks, and the siblings took turns to take turns to one month. All three sisters retired. They had time to take care of their mother and had jobs, so they were spared. My younger brother pays 1,000 thousand a month to pay the sisters hard work.
My eldest sister's house is closest to her mother, which is convenient. In the first month, my elder sister took care of my mother. My elder sister found that my mother was forgot about everything and was not talking, but she was talking to herself.
That day, the eldest sister led her mother to her house. The eldest sister retired and was busy, making clothes for her grandson, and her daughter was about to give birth. The eldest sister is excited and is going to be a grandma.
took my mother home and threw away the garbage.
is carrying the garbage in one hand and pulling my mother in the other hand. He slowly goes downstairs and is about to go back to his mother's house.
Stand at my elder sister’s house, you can see my mother’s house, and they are all in the same courtyard.
Go down the building of my elder sister's house, and my elder sister said, "Mom, wait for me, I'll throw away the garbage."
The elder sister let go of her mother's hand, turned around and walked towards the trash can, walked to the top of the building, turned a corner, and there were only a few dozen meters behind the building.
The eldest sister met the old neighbor upstairs behind, and also came out to throw the garbage and greeted her. After throwing the garbage, he turned his head, walked to the top of the building, turned a corner, and did not see his mother. The eldest sister walked to the place where her mother was standing just now, and looked around and didn't see her mother.
The eldest sister thought that my mother was so anxious to go home, so she didn't give it to herself.
walked towards my mother's house. At this time, the phone rang. When the eldest sister saw that it was her daughter's phone number. After chatting on the phone for more than ten sentences, I walked towards my mother's house. When I arrived at my mother's house, my mother was not at home. My eldest sister thought that my mother had visited her, but when she remembered what her daughter had just told me, she became busy.
Indifferent maternal love cultivates a cold heart
On the evening, the second sister suddenly came to her mother. When she arrived at her mother's house, it was going dark.
The door was locked and knocked on the door, but no one answered. There is no one in the room. The second sister called the eldest sister, "Oh my mother, why aren't we at home?"
The eldest sister said, "I'm not at home? Haven't come back yet? Let's go to the neighbor's house to check it out."
went around and shouted for a few times, but couldn't find her mother.
The second sister was anxious and contacted her while walking, "Can't find our mother? Will something happen?" "How could it be? Our mother is so familiar with this road!" Go and ask the neighbors and see who is going to play cards again.
Everyone knows that mothers love playing cards. In the past, when the sisters went back to their parents' home, the old mother sat at the card stall, and they didn't help them, as if they couldn't see their daughters and son-in-law's family coming with their families. So, every time, the daughters came happily and left angrily.
So, it is not a last resort, the daughters are unwilling to come back to see me.
The second sister went to the neighbor's house again to ask, and the eldest brother-in-law went to the roadside to search, but there was still no sign of her mother.
called the third brother and came out to find his mother.
On the evening, the daughters, sons and daughters-in-law all started looking for their mothers. Streets and alleys, and the surrounding relatives and friends. No information.
called the alarm the next day, and looked for it again, but there was still no information. This happened 10 years ago. There were few camera fights on the street. My mother left the community and saw her mother looking east at the camera at the intersection. Then it disappeared.
For several days, more than ten days, twenty days, more than thirty days, all you can find, acquaintances, relatives, mothers and mothers are not intimate with each other, and they do not usually interact with each other. The family is anxious and can't think of where my mother will go?
Until about a month later, the police officer at the police station called, "Has your mother been lost?"
"Yes, did my mother find it?"
"How long has your mother been lost?"
"How long has your mother been lost?"
"I've been lost for a month and five days. Where did I find my mother?"
You come to the police station.
The family felt that the situation was not good. Although the mother has been neither salty nor indifferent to them for decades and has never been close to them, it is a mother after all. They want to know what the mother is like?
When I arrived at the police station, I found a body that was found on the north side of the city, on the bank of the Yellow River.
's face can't be seen, and the body has decayed.
From the photo, the clothes are their mothers.
The police analyzed that the old lady probably couldn't find her way home, so she walked all the way to the Yellow River, about 30 miles away.
Seeing that there was no way out, the old man rested under a tree, without food and drink, no people, and starved to death.
Alzheimer's mother
They did not expect that mothers who had no family affection with them would leave them in this way.
Thinking of their mother's previous alienation to them, at this moment, their inner sadness only has a brief regret and relief.
Unfortunately, the four siblings did not watch their mother. They were relieved that their mother, who had weak feelings, had received blessings. There is no longer the embarrassment of being with long-term companionship in the future.
When my mother is there, they are always cold to them, and when my mother leaves, they are also cold to them.
It is said that a woman influences a family for three generations. Their mother is cold by nature and has weak family affection. All they gave was coldness.
A man left alone in the wilderness where no one knew. My mother's lonely personality is destined to end her lonely life.
The mother of young could never have thought of it
There is a saying in Buddhism: "Bodhisattvas fear the cause, and ordinary people fear the result."
Ordinary people only think of the result and are afraid of the result. But if you don’t think about the reasons, and just emphasize the results, how can there be good results?
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