The reason why many women who marry far away regret marrying far away is not because they are poor, nor because they cannot adapt, but because men have changed.
The man I thought I could rely on was the one who hurt him the most. But because I married far away, no one could rely on me, and I had to bear all the grievances and sadness.
If you don’t marry far away, you can at least go back to your parents’ home, and there is also a “sanctuary” that can give you comfort and strength.
Some women even quarrel with their parents very fiercely for marriage away, and they still have no regrets when their parents threaten to break off their relationship.
The women in this part of their hearts are the most painful. They don’t even have the courage to go back to their parents’ home, and they can only swallow all the pain by themselves.
It is precisely because of men's inaction or lack of responsibility that many women who marry far away regretted their past. Not only did they not get the sympathy of others, but they would be scolded: this is all for asking for your own sake and deserves it.
Is it really wrong to marry far away if I didn’t marry the right person? Or is it bad luck or is it because I don’t know the right person?
coordinates Jiangsu, a woman shared with netizens the real life of her misfortune after marrying far away. In the
picture, a woman with an ordinary appearance is cleaning the house. From the scene in the picture, it can be seen that this family is actually not rich, and it should be said to be a very ordinary family.
According to women, they are like many ordinary families. The couple has the male lead and the female leads the female leads the inner side, the man works outside and earns money, while the woman takes care of the child at home.
Although the days are not rich, it is considered to be insufficient and more than the bottom.
However, what is unexpected is that the man who doesn’t make much money and ordinary people have an outside heart and a home outside.
The woman was heartbroken, but she couldn't figure it out: How could a man without a house or a car have an affair?
What made her unable to let go was that she married here from thousands of miles away. Not only did she not live the life she wanted, but her initial belief was even destroyed. She didn't know why she had come to this point?
In fact, there is a prerequisite for marriage far away, that is, working provides everyone with a platform. In the boring days of going to and from get off work, a relationship has become the spiritual sustenance of many people.
can be imagined that the understanding between each other is very limited, not to mention that people who are in love lack correct judgment and only believe what they are willing to believe, but cannot listen to their parents' advice.
This directly led many people to find out after marrying far away that whether it is the man’s family conditions or the boyfriend’s personalities, they are very different from what they imagined.
However, it is too difficult for them to look back, and the most important thing is that they have the ties of their children.
Just like the experience of a woman in the article, many netizens are upset about her, and some netizens said: What does a woman want to do? It’s really sad to marry myself from a distance, then go from another place to another place with my husband. In the end, even my husband is not my own.
Some netizens said: Women, don’t believe the big pie that men paint for you. To be honest, many men look for partners outside, most of them are not because of love, but because they don’t want to be a bachelor.
Author's opinion:
Many people have to pay for their impulses, but among all the choices, the price of marrying far away or marrying a non-beautiful person is the heaviest.
Many people make choices when they don’t know how to make choices, but when they have the ability to make choices, they lose the opportunity to make choices, including marriage.
The older generation often says: Marriage is the second reincarnation of a woman.
Before, most people sneered at this sentence, but for most women, this sentence is the most wise saying.
Many women's happiness in the second half of their lives are closely related to their in-laws' family or husbands. Those women with harmonious families or loving families always have a smile on their faces.
On the contrary, if a woman is centrifuged with her husband or has a tense relationship with her in-laws, you can tell that her expression on her face will definitely be unhappy.
Another point is, don’t believe that women rely on themselves, it’s just poisonous chicken soup, or it’s not suitable for ordinary women at all.
How many ordinary women can live a good life by relying on themselves, especially when they have children to raise?
So, here I would like to advise all female friends: When you have the opportunity to choose, you must listen more to adults, don’t make choices blindly, and don’t make choices with “ Love Brain ”.
Be sure to be cautious!
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