Most girls’ ideal partner is tall, rich and handsome. Not only can they have good conditions to spend money on themselves, but they can also show off their handsomeness and high-spiritedness. At the same time, they can surprise girls from time to time in life, and there are also

Introduction:

Women who actively divorce will say that the man has many shortcomings and is not suitable for him. Which one of you who can really get together and get married is not your choice? Most girls’ ideal partner is tall, rich and handsome. Not only can they have good conditions to spend money on themselves, but they can also show off their handsomeness and high-spiritedness. At the same time, they can surprise girls from time to time in life, and there are also men who speak humorously. Who doesn’t like this kind of man?

The reason why Miss Xiao wanted to divorce her husband was to find an ideal partner in her mind.

self-reporter: Miss Xiao

I am thirty years old this year and have been married to my husband for six years. My husband and I met and I were also introduced by relatives and friends. At that time, I had just graduated from college at the age of 24, but my relatives and friends said that girls are already very old and no one wants them anymore. Because I devote myself to studying, I was indifferent even when many boys chased me. But after graduation, I found that I didn’t think I looked handsome, but I had a good condition and had a good appearance, except for those honest people.

My relative introduced this person, because honest people rarely like to gather together to play. They are all more homeless. How could a otakus have a girlfriend? So he still needs to introduce him to me, so he introduced him to me and became a husband and wife. I have been on blind dates three times, but I don’t like others, either they are too tough or too ugly.

Muscle type is not the type I like. I like those who look delicate, tall, rich and handsome, so that I can get married. But I was born in the countryside and looked just the same. With such conditions, people will find good ones. Later, I saw the reality clearly and chose to continue to develop with my husband who was on a blind date at that time.

He treats my parents and me very well. Although he talks very little, he proves with his actions that he cares about me and my family. We got married less than half a year after we met. Our parents said, "I'm pretty good at being honest. Although I don't know much about speaking, I can live a life! Since I decided to marry someone else, I'll be nice to others." Later, I was afraid that my husband's personality would change a lot after marriage, so I would take the initiative to do housework. But my husband took everything into consideration. He said, "There are men in the family! I am not a busy person. I will leave all the money to support my family in the future and do housework."

Maybe that's what honest people are like! I have never seen someone with such a good temper. He is three years older than me, his salary is four times higher than mine, and he will choose to keep and use 90% of his salary. He said, "A woman is only responsible for her beautiful appearance, and I will raise you in the future." Many girls were a little moved when they heard such words.

I was a little moved when I got married at the beginning, but in the end, even if my husband was willing to spend money on me, he looked okay, but he spoke very plainly and could not tell his joy, anger, sorrow, and sorrow. In this way, there will be no emotional sharing. In the long run, the only shortcoming of this is infinitely magnified in my eyes, so that I want to divorce now. An ordinary family life, even if my parents think such a stable family is good, but I still want to live like that dish, without all kinds of ingredients and embellishments, no one will like to eat even after it is ready.

The same is true for love. I think wasted love is what we girls yearn for. I thought I would adapt to ordinary life after getting married, but in the end, even with children, I still couldn't help but want to leave. Although I have a husband, I still go out to work. Although my salary is low, it is also the money I earned by myself and I spend it so peacefully that I have no burden. I have also thought about changing this way of life, but it is really hard for honest people to change.

I can live every day easily when I handed over the child to my parents-in-law. I once brought my best friend and friend home, making it like a KTV. I talked and played cards, but my husband wanted to hide when he saw it. Even if I was holding it aside, others would only reply to questions and not ask others when chatting with him. This way of chatting will definitely not last a few minutes. Just like this, a husband who was like a spectator sat there without saying a word or showing no expression.After

, I never had a party at home again. The atmosphere was completely destroyed by my husband. After others came, I didn’t want to come. And I said, “I don’t want to be seen like a monkey. In front of him, I feel very naive and can’t let go of singing.” No one likes this, and I am no exception. After that, I was afraid that my husband would keep him and disagree, so I called my husband directly to meet and divorce him in front of the Civil Affairs Bureau.

Just those days, I was thinking about divorce. I forgot that my menstrual period was coming, so I rushed to the supermarket next to the Civil Affairs Bureau to buy sanitary napkins. When checking out, the owner said, "Is the young man standing there smoking a cigarette silently your husband? It's almost the same wallet." I said, "Yes, because this wallet is a wedding anniversary gift my husband just bought for me after getting married, a couple's wallet, and put his salary card together and said to me to take care of it. I have been using it until now."

shop owner looked at me and said, "That young man just bought a pack of cigarettes from me, and complained to me: Do women prefer people who like jokes and humorous, sunny boys? But I really treat someone like that so Can't the other party be melted by this warmth for a long time? I tried hard to love someone but was lost by me. Am I stupid? I went out to smoke before I could reply. If you are his wife, then you are going to divorce! Listen to my advice, I am a person who has experienced it. I know that he really loves you. Divorce always magnifies other people's shortcomings infinitely, but if you think about it, his strengths and love for you over the years are the best in life. You must be careful before divorce. "

I also thought about his strengths after hearing this. In fact, it means that he has little words. I can't count other strengths. I don't have to do housework. I can do whatever I want to eat every day. I will reply to my requests. Even if I say I will divorce, he just silently asked why. People who don’t know that he loves me think they are people with broken relationships, but they don’t put joy, anger, sorrow and happiness on the surface, and think that such people are easily betrayed by expressions.

Recalling every bit of my life, even if I am my ideal marriage partner, I am only one condition away. But he is too honest, but now he has become the most beautiful memory of my happy life in these years. Maybe I was also on a whim and was glad that I met the shop owner and did not get divorced. When I walked out of the supermarket, I said to my husband directly: "I'm sorry, I thought that a romantic and exciting life is the source of my happiness. In fact, it's not. Ordinary is true love is the foundation of a happy life after marriage. So let's go back together! I don't want to regret it in the future. I decided to cherish the life I have now. Let's go see our own children together! I miss him." So I left the Civil Affairs Bureau with my husband together. Seeing my husband fading away the loneliness, he ran towards me like a child, and I smiled happily.

to the end:

There are really few people who want to find a perfect person in marriage, and even if there is one, it may not be something you can have. The ideal object is like an idol, dispensable, just like the perception of life: there must be some time in your destiny, and don’t force it if there is no destiny. It is better to be a person who can love you as before than your unrealistic ideals. After marriage, we must cherish the people in front of us and not wait until we leave before regretting it.