This is a survey on "marriage satisfaction". One of the questions is: If the marriage certificate is only valid for ten years, will you still be willing to renew the contract after it expires?

This is a survey on "marriage satisfaction". One of the questions is: If the marriage certificate is only valid for ten years, will you still be willing to continue to renew the contract after it expires? Despite my psychological expectations, the answer still shocked me. More than 80% of people answered that they were unwilling.

I am a person with senior love experience. I talked with my husband for more than nine years before getting married. Both of them felt that no one could leave each other in their lives. Although the parents of both parties disagreed, the two of them broke through the obstacles and entered the palace of marriage. After getting married, I realized that love and marriage are really different.

When in love, I look forward to marrying this man every day, wanting to fall asleep together, get up together, and create a happy family together. But life after marriage is very different, especially after having children, I am entangled in family trivial matters every day, and often quarrels arise because I cannot tolerate and forgive the other party. So, in my opinion, marriage is like an executioner, erasing our feelings and making two people who love each other and care about each other become disgusted with each other.

I often wonder why when you are in love, you can think about the other person in everything, and when you are having trouble, you are willing to spend time creating a little romance for the other person on the anniversary. But now, there is nothing, and I can't even remember our wedding anniversary because I have never been there. In the past few years of marriage, I have been quarreling over trivial matters and quarrels over trivial matters of life. I can no longer remember what we were like before we got married.

So, if I were asked to answer this question in the questionnaire, I would probably choose not to renew my contract.

Maybe to outsiders, my marriage life is very happy, I have two cute children, the husband of the Gu family. But outsiders cannot see our conflicts and quarrels. Only we ourselves know that the other party is no longer the person we care about at all times.

I often miss the feeling of falling in love. I love each other purely. I have endless words to say and endless chat every day. I encourage each other when I encounter setbacks, and tolerate each other when I encounter shortcomings, and make noises, and never leave each other when I am not.