Why is it the man who did the wrong thing, but in the end it is the two women who hurt each other?
This is the question Zhao Sanyue asked his mother, and this question applies to two families in the fifth episode of " Sanyue has a new job ".
First family: Zhao Sanyue and his mother
From the beginning, mother and daughter grew up together, happy and happy. Sanyue likes her mother, and her mother is willing to accompany Sanyue.
Later, the father and mother started quarrel over trivial matters, and the father sought an affair and eventually ran away from divorce.
After the father left, the mother who was pulling her daughter alone faced the failure of marriage, faced the ups and downs of life, and faced the young daughter, she was strong and collapsed.
She dared not and could not fall down in front of life, and she could not vent easily. When she returned home, she put down her disguise and passed on her sadness and anger to her daughter. She told her daughter again and again that he would have left if it weren't for you.
In the end, the daughter's heart was deeply thorned. She no longer liked her mother, but was afraid of rebellion. The mother and daughter became more and more irritated. Sanyue's run away from home was also the product of such a deformed relationship.
The father's affair and the grief of divorce have become the shackles of mother and daughter, but one's mistake has caused two innocent people to suffer harm.
Second family: Xu Shicong's wife and lover
Xu Shicong died, and died miserably. His death or his infidelity made the two women doomed.
To his wife, she mortgaged the house and accompanied him to start a business. She risked her life and gave birth to two children. She wasted her figure and appearance. The road to the workplace has become a distant dream.
But this man who bet on her future and life betrayed her, leaving her with only the embarrassment of being hacked to death by her lover and the embarrassment of having to give her family a decent farewell.
As for lovers, Xu Shicong has been dragging his family. He can give his lover a happy experience, but he is unwilling to give a promise to stick to. The disappointment made the lover unbearable. He raised the butcher's knife and cut the man who had let down the two women into unrecognizable scars.
But, what did she get? The beauty of love and the fantasy of marriage are impossible, and such crimes are even largely imprisoned.
Xu Shicong's cheating alone hurt three people, but his mistake was hurt by two women who loved him deeply. His wife was exhausted by his betrayal, and his lover was on the road of no return due to his betrayal.
It is obviously a man’s mistake, but why do two women have to bear the harm?
answer I don't know, but the ending is clear. Looking back, some people do stupid things without knowing it, while others watch the harm happen without realizing it.
In fact, many times, this is the world. I understand the truth, but the result will not be so smooth in the end.
All we walk along our lives, there are always many times when we are hurt. Whether it is our own mistakes, others or God’s tricks, it is inevitable. We just hope that we can heal ourselves instead of dividing the damage we bear and turning it into secondary derivative damage.
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