A woman who has lived in domestic violence for a long time gives the bystanders a feeling that she can be bullied and is angry at her.
Quit is the nature that everyone has, especially in women. Many women who have been abused by domestic violence are indeed afraid of the vicious face of the perpetrator from the bottom of their hearts.
Kindness and soft heart are also a woman's nature. They often choose to be patient and forgive because the perpetrator is his own family.
However, when women can't bear it anymore and can't stand it, they often take luck and push themselves onto the path of crime.
In the intensive care unit, the daughter said to her critically ill father: "I will call you dad for the last time. From now on, don't let me meet you again in the next life!"
Doctor Atractylodes suspected that the patient Zhang Jinshan was poisoned by pesticides, and the urine sample waiting for the test was stolen. I unexpectedly saw on the surveillance: it was the patient's daughter Yingying who took away her father's urine sample.
After calling the police, the daughter Yingying and her mother scrambled to say that it was her own poison, which surprised the doctors present.
It turns out that there is a touching truth hidden in this incident.
Yingying's biological mother died very early. When she was four years old, her stepmother came to her house. She treated Yingying as her own, better than Yingying's biological mother.
Zhang Jinshan started drinking and domestic violence because his small factory went bankrupt. Over the years, my wife has been injured frequently.
called the police and filed a divorce, which was that affected the relatives of her parents' family, so Zhang Jinshan's wife had been enduring it.
Yingying was so big that she saw her father beat her mother, she stepped forward to block her. For the first time, Zhang Jinshan took care of his daughter and stopped committing violence. But later, Yingying stopped her again, and he even beat Yingying together.
From then on, the mother and daughter were often injured together. Yingying hated her father and sympathized with her mother even more.
The stepmother couldn't bear to watch Yingying be beaten, so she secretly poisoned Zhang Jinshan's Chinese medicine. Yingying accidentally saw a pesticide bottle, so she stole the urine sample.
Although it is not a biological mother-daughter relationship, Yingying and her stepmother are both thinking about each other and not implicating each other.
Before being taken away by the police, Yingying went to the intensive care unit to see her father. She said firmly: I will call you dad in the end, we will be cleared up this time. From now on, don’t let me meet you again in the next life!
This plot in "Thank you Doctor" once again made everyone see the tragedy of domestic violence. The long-term cruel domestic violence, when my wife couldn't stand it, she chose the path she should not choose: crime! The daughter, who was resentful to her father, did not dissuade her in time, but instead covered her up.
We sympathize with their experiences, but the law does not. For them, domestic violence is over and the torture on their souls will last for a long time.
She ended her nightmarish domestic violence with her young life!
Speaking of domestic violence, many people will think of the movie "Don't Talk to Strangers". The male protagonist An Jiahe is very suspicious and is a cruel domestic violence man who is cruel and heavy. Afterwards, he knelt down and apologized to his wife.
The second wife Mei Xiangnan, after seeing his true face clearly, no longer believed him, nor wanted to continue to endure, so she chose to escape. As it turns out, Mei Xiangnan's choice and approach are correct. She got rid of domestic violence with both physical and mental injuries and lived a normal and peaceful life.
Compared with her, An Jiahe's first wife Zhang Xiaoya was very unfortunate.
Zhang Xiaoya swallowed her anger in the repeated domestic violence and recorded her experience by writing a diary. After despair, he chose to commit suicide by crashing into a car and leaving the key to the safe locked in his diary to the strange driver. Zhang Xiaoya said goodbye to the world and her nightmarish marriage life with a smile on her face.
Facing the same perpetrator, the two women have different choices, and they have completely different endings.
Mei Xiangnan's rationality and courage helped her get out of the predicament and live the life she wanted.
Women, deeply trapped in the quagmire of domestic violence, must be brave, rational, and use wisdom to use positive energy from the outside world to get rid of domestic violence.
He hit his father and is still a good son in people's eyes.
In my memory, Uncle An in our village is a big evil man.
He doesn't smoke or drink, and he smiles kindly whenever he sees people. But he had a very bad habit, which was to hit his wife every now and then, and he beat him very hard. I swung up any furniture I had, never cared about hitting the other person's part.
Aunt An is gentle and can't speak loudly. She never talks about Uncle An’s domestic violence in front of others. Sometimes, even if someone saw the bruises on her face and asked with concern, she just lowered her head and said nothing, and at most she couldn't help but shed a few lines of tears.
Their generation had deep-rooted traditional concepts and for the sake of their family and their own reputation, they would only endure humiliation and compromise. There is no obvious concept of domestic violence, at most it is considered that it is family misfortune. Family scandals should not be made public!
Uncle An has two sons and two daughters. When they were young, they were very afraid of their father, although their father rarely "educated" them. However, it is natural for children to love their mothers and feel sorry for their mothers.
When the eldest son was seventeen or eighteen years old, he once saw his father beat his mother again. His son, who was about the same size as Uncle An, rushed forward and blocked Aunt An and fought with his father. Later, when the neighbors heard the news, they persuaded them to stop.
Since that time, as long as Uncle An takes action, his children will stop it together. As long as the father does not make trouble, his children will be respectful to him.
As the children start their families one after another, Uncle An gets older and his violence has become much more restrained, and the family is still living a peaceful and reunited.
No one accused the children of "disobedience". Some people even praised Uncle An's son for being filial, knowing that he felt sorry for his mother, and would protect his mother.
Uncle An’s domestic violence is that kind of machismo. He always wants to establish his prestige and the image of the “Emperor” at home through fists and feet.
It can be seen from this that domestic violence can be stopped. Family members must face it together, and confrontation is necessary, but it does not violate the moral bottom line. Children have the right to protect their mothers and the responsibility to protect them.
is written at the end: In the face of domestic violence, be brave and not cowardly, be rational and not lose your composure. Don’t turn other people’s mistakes into your own sins!
1. When faced with people who commit domestic violence due to alcoholism, they cannot blindly indulge and endure it. They should choose the right method to help quit drinking, solve the problem from the root, and end domestic violence.
2. When faced with people who commit domestic violence due to some psychological stubborn disease, they cannot adopt a concise approach and tolerate domestic violence. We must actively seek help and guidance from psychologists, and live a normal and healthy family life.
3. In the face of domestic violence induced by family conflicts, we must actively communicate and zero tolerance. This type of domestic violence is often out of control. The first time it is not possible to resolve the conflicts substantially, and it will continue to be repeated in the future.
4, avoiding and escaping are desperate choices and are beyond refutation. Can't get away with it? Avoiding positive confrontation and cold handling of perpetrators may allow him to calm down and reflect on himself.
5. In the face of domestic violence, the most undesirable thing is to take extreme measures to violate the moral bottom line and legal warning line, and push yourself from the edge of the cliff of despair to the abyss of sin. No matter how many sympathetic eyes and sighs are, no matter how sad the experience is, it cannot replace or reduce legal punishment!
May domestic violence stay away from our lives! May every woman be treated with tenderness! I also wish every family harmony and happiness!
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