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The rhetoric about whether there is pure friendship between men and women. People will naturally stand side by side and hold each other against each other!
In real life, I don’t know how many people are. When talking about boyfriend and girlfriend, they often use “pure friendship” to describe it.
I don’t know how many people are doing things that are crossing the boundaries of relationships in the name of friendship!
The statement about friendship between men and women. As long as they retain a reasonable sense of boundaries between each other, then friendship between each other is true friendship.
On the contrary, interactions that exceed reasonable boundaries should not be used to cover up one another with friendship!
For some people, is there any friendship between themselves and the opposite sex? Instead of responding to the outside world's words with too angry or pretending to be calm, it is better to use your actual actions to prove that you are really not "misunderstood" or maliciously "sting".
Non-single men and women, women’s lack of self-love, men’s lack of self-respect, and close interactions that destroy boundary rules, really don’t have to say that they are wronged!
purity? Once a man and a woman chat like this, the relationship will be impure:
First: Talk about each other's various shortcomings in a marriage relationship
It is impossible for two people in a marriage relationship to live in harmony all the time.
When you get along with each other after a first sight, you will naturally feel uncomfortable with each other. The necessary prerequisite for emotional relationships to meet the standards of harmony and health is to speak well and empathize with , transpose your position, and solve problems in a timely manner!
When there is unhappiness between two people in a marriage relationship, or there is something that they don’t like to their partner in their hearts, and they will complain to their friends of the opposite sex, it proves that in their hearts, friends of the opposite sex are far more "understanding" themselves than in front of them.
Non-single men and women complain about their partner's flaws for a long time, and they will naturally turn against each other in their hearts.
Don’t say it, let’s just talk about alleviating the pressure in ordinary marriage and relationships. In fact, this way of relieving stress is nothing more than to convey to the other party:
I trust and depend on you, only you let me get spiritual relaxation information!
Non-single men and women, there is no need to deliberately, and they will also know the boundaries that should not be disliked between each other.
The proximity of dependence and trust is the initial representation of the out-of-bounds. It is a direct manifestation of the inner expectation of getting warmth and comfort from each other.
In a sense, complaining too much about your partner with friends of the opposite sex is a subconscious change of your identity!
The understanding, protection, distress and empathy between the opposite sexes mostly come from the marriage and love relationship objects.
Two friends of the opposite sex get along in this way, which is to make each other's motivation to be sure and recognize in their hearts little by little, and do not want to control themselves.
The other half is flawed. Friends of the opposite sex must not be that kind of person. Otherwise, unless someone goes crazy, they will say "short" words in front of a lame person!
Second: Talk about sharing and sharing topics in the details of life
Active sharing and sharing between non-single men and women is undoubtedly an involuntary joy from the inside.
This kind of active sharing and sharing in daily life should be an act of managing feelings between men and women in marriage and love.
In other words, if a person can devote the energy he actively shares and shares with his friends of the opposite sex to his marriage relationship, then his marriage relationship must be particularly happy and fulfilling!
In real life, we see more men and women. When facing the people in front of us, we have no desire to share or share, and we have no patience to listen to the other person's voice.
On the contrary, you will be particularly concerned about your friends of the opposite sex!
If someone says to him/her in response to this phenomenon: Why don’t you treat your friends in the opposite sex, like you do?
Then, this person will definitely say: I and the person in front of me are unwilling to communicate at all. There is no way to reach a good interaction between us.
Or, this person will say, I am very good to the person in front of me!
In fact, no matter what kind of answers, it is difficult to conceal such a person's motivation to be unfaithful to the people in front of him.
But judging from his/her ecstatic and active sharing and sharing of friends with the opposite sex, it is enough to show that the relationship between them is never as simple as friendship!
Men and women of the opposite sex can have the title of friends, which is a kind of respect for each other.
The opposite sex can be a pure friendship relationship, which means that there is no word or deed that crosses boundaries except for non-essential work and cooperation.
especially, men and women of the opposite sex meet separately, interact happily on chat software, actively maintain each other, and interfere with each other's emotional life...
And, during the chat process, they constantly complain about their partner's bad habits, and treat each other with extra patience and tolerance...
Really, stop pretending, this is not the appearance of friendship!
Finally, I would like to advise all non-single men and women:
If you don’t want your marriage and relationship that could have been very happy ended in failure, you must stay away from the opposite sex outside the marriage and relationship that makes you happy.
If you really have no love for the person in front of you and the person in front of you is optional to you, then you can end your marriage and love relationship. After all, there is no grievance or grudge. Never use ambiguity, cross-border or betrayal with other opposite sexes to "retaliate" the people in front of you.
Born as a human being, kindness is the foundation of being a human being!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it is love or friendship, only by meeting the right person at the right time can you achieve the right result!
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Topic discussion: Do you think that after the partner crosses the line with other opposite sex, the relationship between marriage and love is still necessary? Leave the comments below to the comments you are not comfortable with!
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