In the ignorant moment of emotional development, because no mature view of love and no understanding of the way to manage emotions, it is easy to cause some improper behavior and make mistakes in love again and again, but these are understandable, because no one has a strict standard system in love.
There is no responsibility at this stage. Two people can come together because of pure heartbeat or part ways because of disappointment.
If you enter marriage, then the subsequent relationship should be taken seriously and seriously, and don’t ruin the marriage because of your promiscuous love.
Once you enter marriage, it means you have legal and moral responsibilities to your partner. Therefore, no matter how unsatisfactory your life after marriage is, you should not be the first person to betray. Without an already perfect marriage, no matter how beautiful the marriage is, it requires two people to continue to pay for it.
Therefore, you should consider all the emotions you encounter after marriage. All the order of order in the world is destined. Many times, if you miss it, you miss it. If you break all the rules and insist on disregarding your marriage, then you are destined not to be happy.
After getting married, in order to protect the marriage and not make mistakes, you must stay away from the following three loves.
1: Ex-loving
The moment you enter marriage, it means that your fate and love with your ex are over. You have to learn to cut the mess quickly, cut off all your thoughts, and draw a clear line with the other party. This is not only respect for your partner, but also the responsibility you must take.
Even if you and your ex are not in love, this ending is already destined. If you still have to be entangled, it will hurt your family and make the other person's life change. Since you have lost it, you must learn to say goodbye.
Those who appear in life are all scenery, whether it is hatred or love, and the ex you lost is just a scenery on your way forward. Looking back, no matter how beautiful the story is, it is just a memory.
And since you chose to get married, it means that you must have a certain degree of favorable impression of your partner in front of you, and your commitment to him must be sincere, although many times, couples who have been together for a long time will lose a lot of freshness.
especially when the relationship between husband and wife is in a burnout period, it is easy to lose the sense of proportion when pursuing freshness and getting along with their ex, thinking in their hearts that they want the old love to rekindle, but even if the old love is rekindled, you will never go back to the past, just like a broken mirror that cannot be reunited.
So, don’t hold some unrealistic ideas, and don’t go against your original intention because you can’t control the temptation.
Any desire needs to be paid accordingly. If you cannot keep your original heart once, you will break it again and again. Such irresponsible behavior will ruin your life.
Although you may have missed a stop of scenery, you don’t have to leave a memory. You should learn to cherish what you have in front of you. If you don’t know how to cherish it, it will add to your regrets. Only then will you find how ridiculous what you are pursuing hard is.
2: Unnecessary favors
Everyone may need to deal with some distant relatives and relatively unfamiliar colleagues, but such getting along is just exchanging favors with each other. Therefore, when you enter marriage, you must keep scholars away from unnecessary favors.
You should know that entering marriage means supporting a family with the power of two people. Both psychological and economic pressure is very great, especially when facing the problem of supporting the elderly and raising children, the financial burden will become heavier.
And at this time, if you continue to get entangled with such unnecessary human feelings, it will undoubtedly make your life worse.
These people will only exploit you with their own interests. There will always be a lot of reasons to need your help, but if you face difficulties, these people will be the first to draw a clear line with you.
Therefore, when a person enters marriage, he needs to stay away from unnecessary favors. There are many people you need to protect, and there are also many people who really care about you. There is no need to waste your energy for these people. If you draw a clear line with these people earlier, you can end up relaxing sooner.
3: Stay away from extramarital affairs
After getting married, when getting along with the opposite sex, you must be at a proper level and keep an appropriate distance from the other party. Whether it is your words or actions, don’t cross the line, otherwise it will be easy to fall into ambiguity, and at this time it will be difficult for you to get out.
Once you enter an extramarital affair, although you have gained satisfaction in a short period of time, your behavior has deeply hurt your partner.
The trust between you will never be able to go back to the past, and your feelings that go against your conscience will naturally not be blessed and will not be able to go through the test.
Love is an involuntary emotion, but marriage is a shackle and a responsibility. You can be free under this rule, but it cannot be done if you exceed this rule.
Every stage of life has joys, anger, sorrow and happiness of each stage. When you slowly accept the shortcomings and confusion of marriage and work hard to protect the beauty of marriage with your own strength, you will find that other temptations in life are just obstacles to prevent you from moving towards happiness.
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