Interaction between the opposite sex must be well grasped. Excessiveness leads to disaster, and excessiveness leads to changes!
Whether it is your confidante or your confidante, you must grasp the proper relationship. Not everything can be said. If you do not pay attention to the boundaries, it will cause adverse effects. How many estrangements between couples are caused by improper handling of the opposite sex relationship?
01. No matter how good the relationship between the opposite sex is, don’t pick on your partner. In this world, there are perfect people. People have shortcomings and shortcomings. Things between husband and wife are originally things between two people. If you talk about the secret between two people with a third party, it is disrespect for your partner.
The correct solution is to communicate well with your partner. If you really can’t communicate, you can correct it slowly, or simply tolerate it. Telling the shortcomings of your partner to the opposite sex around you is tantamount to digging a grave. Your complaints and weakness are equivalent to posing hidden dangers to the marriage. If one day your partner knows that he will be disappointed with you, he will not only hurt your face, but will cause a gap between you. Don’t tell the public that your partner is not bad. Not only can you not say it, but when others say it, you must also protect it and help him defend it. Husband and wife are one, and only by cherishing each other can we last longer.
02. No matter how good the relationship between the opposite sex is, don’t not know how to reject the party.
. In fact, what is most offensive to people is not the people who take the initiative to chat with the opposite sex, but those who refuse with embarrassment but accept other people’s ambiguous relationship.
If you can clearly draw a line between the opposite sexes, no matter how much others have ideas, they cannot conquer your strong fortress. If you are afraid, you are embarrassed to refuse the gifts given to you by others, or you simply don’t want to refuse them, so you accept them; if someone asks you out, you refuse to say no, and you are tempted, so you agree. Many problems arise between the opposite sex, starting with not knowing how to refuse.
Rejecting the opposite sex is actually not difficult. Sometimes when you don’t speak, it’s not that you don’t know, but that you are reluctant to let it go. I don’t want to give up ambiguous emotions, I don’t want to give up a fresh relationship.
03. No matter how good the relationship between the opposite sex is, don’t seek help frequently.
Emotional debt is the most difficult to repay, especially among the opposite sex. It is common for men and women to interact and help each other, but if they frequently show weakness and rely too much on each other, it is excessive. Over-reliance on the opposite sex creates spiritual needs, and seek help or comfort from the other party whenever there is any disturbance. Over time, it will not affect both parties' families.
Friends of the opposite sex cannot become your safe haven; friends of the opposite sex cannot become your peace nest.
The shoulders of friends of the opposite sex, if you say lie, just rely on it, there will be problems sooner or later. Unlimited interactions will not only cause conflicts between family and marriage, but also make people feel that you are too frivolous and not solemn enough, which will hinder your character and reputation. Friends with alien shapes must keep a distance.
can be appreciated, but cannot be missed; you can chat, but cannot be restricted. When getting along with the opposite sex, don’t be too close to you to create ambiguity; don’t rely on you in the past and develop feelings for you. If the relationship between the opposite sex is too close, it will be disrupted and will be disturbed. If you should not let go, you will be hurt by him!
If you want a long-term friendship, you can only maintain the distance you deserve and make the relationship open enough.
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