"Dad, we are also doing our best. If you go to a nursing home to live in a nursing home, three meals will be guaranteed and someone can take care of you." "Yes, you are not young anymore. As children, of course we hope you can get better."

"Dad, we are also doing our best. If we go to the nursing home to live in a nursing home, three meals will be guaranteed and someone can take care of you."

"Yes, you are not young anymore. As children, of course we hope you can get better."

The old man sat silently, listening to his children's words without saying a word, feeling helpless inside.

He really can't understand why he had to go to a nursing home. He didn't get in the way of their own home. Why bother?

Uncle Liu met the second spring after more than 10 years of retirement

The old man's surname is Liu. He retired at the age of 60 and can receive a pension every month. In addition, he originally had a small savings and had a house in his name, so his life after retirement was quite comfortable.

Uncle Liu has two sons and one daughter. His wife passed away a few years ago. , but he did not live with the children. One is that he did not want to bother them, and the other is that he acted frankly and could take care of himself.

Uncle Liu is quite leisurely every day after retirement.

I am old and I sleep less. Uncle Liu wakes up in the morning and cooks a pot of tea, takes a water cup and walks in the community for a walk, and then buys breakfast to eat.

After breakfast, sometimes he plays chess with other elderly people in the same community, and sometimes he wears reading glasses to play with his mobile phone. The day passes very quickly.

Life alone is a bit lonely after all. Uncle Liu has only himself at home every day, and he feels very uncomfortable in his heart.

Although children sometimes bring their children to the house, they are mostly alone and they are really lonely.

60-year-old Mr. Liu looked at himself in the mirror and felt that he was not very old, so he wondered whether to find another class, otherwise it would be too boring.

Finally, with the help of some old friends, Uncle Liu found a guardian job . The salary was not high, but he had something to do.

Occasionally, I can say a few words to people coming in and out, and Mr. Liu feels quite comfortable.

However, when Mr. Liu's children knew that he had found a job, they were very dissatisfied.

On that day, Uncle Liu came home from get off work and found that the lights at home were on and he could hear the sound of the children. He knew that it must be his children coming.

Uncle Liu happily opened the door and found that all three children were there. He was quite surprised.

The eldest daughter saw Uncle Liu come back and took Uncle Liu's hand and asked him to sit down quickly.

The second son is straight. As soon as Mr. Liu put down the teacup and sat down, he said directly: "Dad, why do you still have to go to work when you retire?"

Uncle Liu heard the dissatisfaction in his second son's tone, frowned, and asked back: "It's my business for me to go to work. Why do you care about so much?"

The eldest daughter knew that her father was unhappy when she heard her father's tone. She hurriedly said: "Dad, my second brother has no other meaning, just worrying about your body. Already, don’t think too much, , we are also for your own good. ”

Uncle Liu heard this and said directly: “I am sick and painless, and I am in good health. Going out to work can both kill time and make money. What’s wrong with it?”

Uncle Liu’s meaning is already very obvious. What else does the second son want to say, but he was stopped by his third son. This matter was exposed.

More than ten years have passed in a blink of an eye. When Mr. Liu was 76 years old, he accidentally fell down, and the result was a big deal.

After such a fall, Uncle Liu became much haggard and lost his job as a doorman. He stayed at home every day to raise his feet.

Uncle Liu is alone at home, and his legs are inconvenient, so he naturally cannot be left without a serving, but his children have to work and may be by his side every day.

In the end, the three siblings found a nanny for Uncle Liu.

The nanny is an older sister, in her early 50s and her surname is Wang. The reason I chose her is mainly because she looks honest.

However, the three siblings never expected that, and later they all regretted asking Sister Wang to be a nanny at home.

Sister Wang is indeed an honest person, but Mr. Liu saw from her the shadow of a girl he liked when he was a young boy.

Perhaps because I saw such a shadow, Mr. Liu was very nice to Sister Wang. Sister Wang was a pitiful. She got married in her early years, but unfortunately her husband was uneasy.

After 40 years old, Sister Wang gritted her teeth and divorced her husband. After divorce, she was dependent on her daughter. Unexpectedly, there will be unexpected events and disasters. My daughter Wang died in a car accident.

In the end, Sister Wang was left to live alone.

She can be a nanny at home. On the one hand, she is good at doing housework and can only make money by relying on this. On the other hand, she doesn't want to be alone and have someone to talk.

Sister Wang felt the warmth of her family in Mr. Liu, and Mr. Liu also likes to get along with Sister Wang very much.

After a long time, they really made the two of them feel a relationship.

Children persuade Mr. Liu to go to the nursing home

When Mr. Liu's children found out, it was already 3 years later because Mr. Liu wanted to get a marriage certificate with Sister Wang.

Uncle Liu knew that Sister Wang had a bad life in the first half of her life, and knew that she was older than her. He also wanted to get a marriage certificate from her and wanted to give Sister Wang a guarantee.

On that day, Uncle Liu called his children home and showed up with them directly.

Uncle Liu held Sister Wang's hand and said: "I decided to marry your Aunt Wang. I took a look. Next Friday is a good day. We will get the certificate that day."

Uncle Liu's children heard this and all of them were quiet on the spot. They looked at Sister Wang, who was sitting on the sofa with blushing faces and a little shy, and they all came out without saying anything.

Uncle Liu's second son was dissatisfied with the first one. He glared at Sister Wang and said, "Dad, you weren't cheated by this woman, right?"

The eldest daughter also said, "Yes, Dad, you are not young anymore, is it necessary to get a marriage certificate? We are also doing it for your own good. "

The third son naturally disagreed, but he did not say it directly, but said, "Dad, there is no need for you to rush to get a certificate. Anyway, you are old, and you will not live the same life or not. I believe Aunt Wang thinks the same way."

Uncle Liu has long guessed that his children would not agree so easily, but he still wants to get a certificate.

Sister Wang originally thought that Mr. Liu had already communicated with the children, but she didn't expect that this was the case.

Sister Wang said, "Old Liu, otherwise I won't get the certificate first. In fact, they are all living the same."

Sister Wang is not young anymore, and Mr. Liu is almost 80. She doesn't want Mr. Liu to get married with the children because she is sick in the future and will not even take care of her children.

Sister Wang’s concessions instantly made the tense atmosphere at home disappear. Mr. Liu’s three children looked at Sister Wang in a little surprised, with a complicated expression.

Uncle Liu sighed and finally compromised and did not ask for a marriage certificate with Sister Wang.

How come Uncle Liu doesn’t know what Sister Wang is thinking? He has reached the age of having to accept his old age. His funeral still depends on these three children.

Maybe it was because she had not obtained a certificate, but this incident became a knot in the hearts of Mr. Liu and Sister Wang. Sister Wang thought Mr. Liu would mention it again with the children, but it didn't work, which disappointed her.

About half a year later, Sister Wang chose to resign because she helped her find another honest man in her hometown and asked her to go home to meet her.

Although Sister Wang is 50, she doesn't want to spend the second half of her life alone. Mr. Liu's children do not agree, and he himself is not determined. It is not a solution for her to waste like this.

Sister Wang chose to leave. Mr. Liu did not obstruct , but took her to the station in person. Mr. Liu sighed and looked at Sister Wang's back as she dragged her suitcase and sighed.

Another half year has passed, and Mr. Liu is already 80 years old. As he grows older and Sister Wang leaves, his health is even worse than before.

Although he later hired a male nanny who lives in the house, this male nanny was introduced by his third son's friend. He is very good at talking, which made Mr. Liu feel much better and likes the new nanny very much.

Although Sister Wang has left, the new nanny is very lively and interesting, which has also made Mr. Liu look a lot more open.

On this day, Uncle Liu's children came to the house to sit. Every time he saw the three of them appear at the same time, Uncle Liu felt that something was going to happen. was the case, and it was true.

The three siblings did not take care of the children, and they were only three of them. Seeing this, Uncle Liu felt that they probably didn’t know what they were trying to make, and they were very imposing.

The first one to speak is the second son.

The second son said, "Dad, you are 80 years old this year, so it is inconvenient to live at home by yourself."

Uncle Liu said speechlessly, "If you have something to say, just say it, don't talk about it here."

The three siblings looked at each other a few times, and the second son continued, "Dad, we want to say, contact you a nursing home, how about you moving in? "

The eldest daughter immediately continued, " We are also for your goodness "

The eldest daughter immediately continued, " We are also for your goodness . Nursing homes are more reassuring after all, and in nursing homes, you can also play with people of the same age. "

The third son saw his old father's expressionless face and couldn't figure out what he was thinking, but he also said: "We have seen it. There is a nursing home in the city that has a very good environment, and we will pick you up to stay at home for a few days every month."

Uncle Liu refused to go to the nursing home

Uncle Liu silently listened to the three children keep saying how the nursing home is good, and he said "It's all for your own good". He was so bored.

About three minutes later, Uncle Liu spoke and said: "I don't go to a nursing home. I don't need you to take care of me when I live here, nor do you need to take care of you."

Uncle Liu wants to go to a nursing home. How could he live in that kind of place be more comfortable than home!

However, the three children did not give up, and the eldest daughter said again: " Dad, this is all for your own good. We can't even think of harming you. "

Uncle Liu was a little unhappy and asked, " Am I living here disturbing you? Can't wait to rush me to the nursing home? "

The third son quickly said, "Dad, we don't mean that, just......"

Uncle Liu interrupted the third son and said directly: "You go, I don't need you to take care of you."

Uncle Liu's eldest daughter was a little anxious and wanted to interrupt, but Uncle Liu didn't give her this opportunity.

Uncle Liu continued: "If you think I'm in trouble, you can stop using it in the future. I will pay the fee for hiring a nanny by myself. If you don't care, you will worry about it."

Although the second son spoke bluntly, he never had this meaning. He said, "We don't mean this, Dad, why are you so stubborn?"

Uncle Liu was completely unhappy this time and asked, "I raise so many of you." In 2019, I will raise you to college, support you to go to school, help you find a husband and marry a wife, and never bother you even after retirement. "

" Now you can't stand me so much and live a good life alone? You don't want me to marry again, and I agree with you. Now you still have to send me to a nursing home? Do you have any conscience? "

The three siblings were completely quiet this time, and they all looked at Mr. Liu silently and embarrassedly.

Uncle Liu is old, but he is not yet confused yet, and no one can recognize him, but he really can't figure it out. He has never troubled them. Why do they have to send him to a nursing home now?

Although they paid the money for hiring a nanny now, he had long said that he could pay it by himself. If they refused, he would follow them.

Is it because I don’t want to pay for the nanny again? But going to a nursing home also requires money. What are the plans for these three children?

Uncle Liu was not a person who could hold back his words, and asked directly: "You have to send me to a nursing home. What are your ideas?"

What are the children of Mr. Liu thinking?

The eldest daughter sighed, spoke, and said, "Dad, aren't you curious why Xiao Li (the male nanny in Uncle Liu's house) is not here today?"

said this, and Uncle Liu realized why Xiao Li was not here today? Going out to buy groceries?

The second son looked like he couldn't hold it in his mouth and said, "That kid wants a salary, we don't agree, so he fired him directly."

"Also, he would secretly quote a high price for buying vegetables. If it weren't for the eldest sister who found that your food expenses in the past two months had increased a lot, we wouldn't know."

The third son looked embarrassed and said, "Xiao Li was introduced by a friend of mine. I don't know that he is so unreliable, sorry."

Uncle Liu's anger gradually faded, this It was something that Mr. Liu didn't expect. He said, "Why don't you tell me directly?"

The eldest daughter was helpless and said, "We know that you have been unhappy about Aunt Wang before, and we also have opinions about us. Xiao Li is smart, Are we afraid that you will be unhappy? "

Uncle Liu was silent for a while and said, "Then find another one, I won't go to a nursing home anyway."

The third son looked at his father's appearance, old and old, and he almost couldn't remember his father's appearance when he was young.

The third son said: "Dad, have you ever thought about living with us?"

Uncle Liu was a little moved when he listened to the third son's words, but also a little resisted.

Uncle Liu is unwilling to live with his children. The most important thing is that he doesn’t want to become a person he is disliked when he gets old.

So since he retired, even if he broke his leg before, he never said he would live with them. He would rather hire a nanny than bother them.

Uncle Liu said: "I don't want to live with you. I'm old, go to your place to live, let you serve me? That's not a hard work for you. "

Uncle Liu's words made his eldest daughter's eyes red on the spot, and tears fell down. She cried and said, "Dad, don't say that, it's us wrong."

Although the three siblings always said that they should be good to Mr. Liu and for his goodness, in fact, this is the first time they proposed to let Mr. Liu live with them.

Uncle Liu's two sons were also infected by the sentimentality of his elder sister, and their eyes were red.

But Mr. Liu did not change his words because of this, and still said: "I won't live with you, just find a new nanny. When you have time, just go home and see me."

Mr. Liu's three children rarely come to Mr. Liu, almost once every two or three months. Mr. Liu doesn't say it, but he still often misses them in his heart. He wants to know how they are doing recently and also wants to know the situation of his grandchildren.

But he doesn't want to give the children too much trouble. After all, as parents, he has always wanted to make them better.

Uncle Liu's children nodded repeatedly, all of them crying and their noses were red. Those who didn't know thought something big had happened.

Uncle Liu's children hired a better and more reliable nanny forUncle Liu, and there were more people going toUncle Liu's place. Almost every week, a family would come toUncle Liu's place.

Uncle Liu's overall complexion has improved a lot. He can see the child every week, which makes him very happy.

Uncle Liu occasionally sees news about Sister Wang on his circle of friends. He knows that Sister Wang seems to be doing well, and he feels very pleased.

Uncle Liu's children finally understood what the real "for your own good" is.