Love is beautiful. After a certain period of time, many women will want to get married.
Because it is not good to delay too long, for example, being older is not conducive to having children, etc.
There are many couples who have been in love for many years. Women want to get married, but men are procrastinating and never express their opinions.
There are even many couples. The woman wants to get married, but the man’s parents are not in a hurry. What should I do in the face of this situation?
First of all, you need to understand the specific situation
When in love, if the woman wants to get married but the man’s parents are not in a hurry, the woman needs to understand the specific situation.
You should know that it is a man who doesn’t want to get married, so he uses his parents as an excuse to delay getting married. It’s still the man who wants to get married, but the man’s parents look down on the woman and refuse to get married.
If a man doesn’t want to get married, then ask the woman to break up decisively, because the person you love no longer loves you.
It is just that I am used to your existence and have no love for you. Or he doesn't want to be a bad person, wants to drag you and wait for you to break up, so that he will not feel guilty in his heart.
This kind of man is very scumbag. Not only does he stop loving him, he may even have a new love, but he doesn't want to break up, just because he is afraid of being criticized.
If two people have a relatively large amount of money when they are in love, women should remember to come back. They should not let others take advantage of it and let other women enjoy the benefits.
Once you have confirmed that the other party is thinking like this, be sure to end the relationship as soon as possible. The longer you delay, the more harm you will harm yourself, and there is no need to keep it.
If you choose to keep him, keep asking him "Why don't you love me?" cursing him hysterically all day long and pestering him will only make him hate you even more, and even compare you with your new love.
What the woman should do is to be sad for a night, calm down and think, and strive for the best interests of her. Never leave without anything, as this will only make others cheaper.
If the man wants to get married, he loves you, but the man’s parents do not agree, it depends on the man’s own attitude.
If the other party just said something verbally but did not dare to object to his parents and was always in a state of confusion, then choose to leave. Because he doesn't have the courage to leave his parents, he can't give you a home.
If the other party is on your side, keeps trying to convince his parents, and also takes practical actions, then you can work together. At the same time, the woman should be mentally prepared, because a marriage that is not blessed by her parents will be more difficult and will have more obstacles.
The second is to get out of the pain
When the woman wants to get married and the man’s parents disagree, the result is mostly sad, ending the relationship with breaking up.
For women, they need to get out of the pain quickly after breaking up and should not be trapped in the previous relationship.
Since the other party abandons you and cannot protect you, leaving is also a good thing. It is much better than waiting in a long distance!
Many women are emotional, and it is often difficult to get out of a failed relationship.
Remember, if you can’t forget the man who doesn’t love you, it’s just a crime, it’s just a punishment for yourself and making your parents sad.
Others have long forgotten your existence, married another woman happily, and even got pregnant before marriage, and became a father. The family of three has lived happily and is particularly happy.
It is a good thing to leave a man who doesn’t love himself and cannot give himself happiness. Although the ending is heartbreaking, seeing a person clearly before marriage is much better than finding out after marriage.
A person’s life is particularly long. Over the past few decades, not only love, but also family affection and work.
When love is frustrated, don’t let your work be ruined. Use work to make up for the pain and make yourself stronger and better.
You should know that everyone’s circle is different, and the people you meet are also excellent. Therefore, you are better and worth meeting better people.
Finally, summarize experience to avoid pitfalls again
If you want to stop being hurt in your relationship, you must summarize experience in your previous relationship and never be in love.
If you only have love and irrationality in your mind, you will still fall into the same pit again next time.
When in love, you must keep yourself alive and not listen to the other person’s everything. When faced with unreasonable requests, you should refuse.
At the same time, remember that the time for love should not be too long, after all, the best years are only a few years, and when they pass, they will pass, and they cannot go back to the past.
If a man has been in his or her life for more than three years and has no idea about getting married, then you need to consider whether to go on.
If love lasts for more than three years, love will also become family affection. If you don’t get married, there will only be more and more conflicts.
Because family affection is always more realistic than love. If it is love, the other party will continue to tolerate you and your beauty will be in your eyes.
If it has become family affection, it will bring in the role of relatives, constantly demand you and constantly change you.
The longer you spend together, the more shortcomings you find. Arguing again and again will continue to amplify the shortcomings and gradually lose the beauty of the past.
After every relationship ends, women must learn to grow and make themselves better.
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