Su Shi In " Dingfengbo ", there is a sentence like this: "Where is my hometown when I am at peace in this heart."
Do you feel this way?
When you are in a foreign land, no matter how lively you are, how many people are with you, or how expensive the house you rent, you feel "insecurity" in your heart.
But when you return to your hometown, beside your parents and family, you feel that you are calm.
Stay with an annoying person, stay for one more second, and you will feel tormented;
Be with the person you like, and spend a few hours together, and you are still unsatisfied.
In an intimate relationship, this is how a girl falls in love with a boy.
When she likes you, being with you is "Where is my hometown".
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Emotional fluctuations are obvious: contrast
Girls' emotions are very sensitive.
Their emotions will fluctuate with the changes in the surrounding environment.
is even more so in close relationships.
When a girl likes you, you can feel her restless and stumble.
You can also feel that her whole emotions have stabilized and she seems to have become very well-behaved in front of you.
is used to describe it as "abnormal".
For example:
Girls have a carefree and careless personality and are called "toddlers".
But, she is alone in front of you, and instantly becomes quiet.
Girls usually have quiet and gentle personalities, but in front of you, they become like talking a lot. The abnormal emotions and behavior of
This kind of emotional and behavioral abnormality means that the girl likes you.
It is precisely because of your uniqueness that girls have such a clear contrast.
Another example:
No matter what you do, a girl always looks cold in front of you; if you take the initiative, he is silent; if you give, he is still silent. How can a girl like you if she likes you?
Understand the contrast in girls' emotions, and you can understand her attitude towards you.
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"This place of peace of mind is my hometown": A sense of security
What is a sense of security?
simply put it: when she is with you, she is relaxed and happy, and she feels very relaxed.
does not have to be restrained, does not have to suppress your desires, and does not need to restrain your emotions.
When you want to cry, when you want to laugh, when you want to laugh, when you are unhappy, you will make a fuss with you.
This sense of security is based on her liking for you.
Because she likes you, she thinks you like her as much as she likes you.
More importantly, when she is with you, she feels like home.
This reminds me of a story.
Girls have very good conditions, and there are many boys who pursue her.
However, she chose a boy with ordinary conditions in all aspects among many suitors.
Everyone was confused and asked the girl: "Why did you choose him?"
The girl said:
"Because I think of my father only when I am with him; that is a sense of down-to-earth, home."
A girl acts "no opinion" in front of you, but gives more choices to you, which means she trusts you enough.
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Romance for adults: sharing desire
What is sharing desire?
desire to share is the purest and most ordinary romance between two people.
This romance does not require much expensive gifts and does not require much effort to waste.
is the idea that two people are together and naturally want to share with each other.
For example:
The first thing I do when I wake up in the morning is to share with the other party: "The weather outside is so good, it's another sunny day."
When eating, tell the other party what he ate immediately.
Walking on the road, seeing flowers on the roadside, stray cats, and interesting people in the past will talk to each other.
The relationship between two people is gradually heating up during the sharing process.
The important thing is not to share, but to share with whom.
If you like someone, even if you talk to you about nonsense every day, he will feel very romantic;
If you don’t like you, even if you say hundreds of sweet words to her, she will remain indifferent.
determines whether a girl likes you clearly, it depends on whether she faces you and wants to share.
There is a concept in psychology called "self-exposed".
The more a person likes you and trusts you, the more topics he talks to you, and the deeper the degree of self-exposedness.
Therefore, boys can also see if girls want you to know her and take the initiative to share with you more about her.
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The most real feedback on love: give
What obvious reaction does a girl have when she falls in love with someone?
is giving, preference, and attention.
Psychology:
If you fall in love with someone, we will involuntarily want to give for the other person; if we want to take the initiative to get close to the other person, while getting closer, we will show our sincerity bit by bit and try to impress the other person.
When she only has you in her eyes, she prefers you because except you, the rest of her feelings can no longer control her.
Just like this sentence in "Pride and Prejudice":
"Isn't this the true meaning of love when neglecting others for one person?"
Like it, it is also a focus.
In her eyes, you are different from others, you are different from others.
But in the final analysis, girls who love you deeply must be willing to give more time, love and material things in you.
Today's topic:
Have you met someone who "likes you"?
(Article pictures are from the Internet)
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