There are various problems during love. For those who are in love for the first time, they have various questions in their hearts.
For example, I once saw a question, someone asked: "My boyfriend always said he wanted to spank me, why is that?"
This is just a way of flirting between boyfriend and girlfriend. Although he said he wanted to spank you, he actually didn't, because it was just a saying.
Even if he really takes action, it won’t be very heavy. He usually pats his butt gently. Because couples need physical contact to promote relationships and warm up feelings.
Generally speaking, if you say this, it is a state of passionate love, so it is easier to joke about it. At this stage, men like to tease their girlfriends and see how they react.
Two people are in love, and earthy love words , some small actions, etc. can bring the two people closer. So saying "the boyfriend says he is disobedient and hits you with a spank" is a very common way of flirting, and women don't need to think too much.
Here some love tips are recommended to help couples warm up their relationship:
1. Take the nickname
After falling in love, you can give the other party a nickname, or choose the name you want to call. For example, I always called him elder brother from love to marriage. Because I was used to calling him, I didn’t think it was bad, so I never changed my words to call him husband.
2. Walking together
Now people are very busy every day. After get off work, they lie on the sofa to play with their mobile phones. After the two of them live together, they communicate less and less. Whether it is love or marriage, communication is needed. It is recommended that two people go out for a walk after dinner, which can not only cultivate feelings, enhance intimacy, but also promote digestion and exercise health.
3. Eat delicious
Eat takeout all day or cook by yourself. You will get tired of it over time because the unchanging life is boring. In a boring environment, people are more likely to be irritable, cause bad emotions, and quarrel. Go out occasionally to eat delicious food, discuss what to eat, and eat delicious food together, which will help make your mood better. At the same time, you can also create common memories and be romantic.
4. Express love
Love needs to be said, but if you don’t say it, the other person won’t know. Women are more subtle and rarely express love. Some women think that if you love me, you should know what I want. If I am with you, it means it is yours and you don’t have to say it out loud. In fact, love is something to say. If you occasionally express your love and let the other person know, he will be happier.
However, it should be noted that no matter what kind of interaction it is, you need to pay attention to the scale and not to be too much. For example, when you act coquettishly and beat others, you must not take heavy measures, and always slap them or pinch them.