Once saw a question on the Internet: At what moment did you find yourself mature?
has an answerer who told his own story.
When I was in my senior year, my family called and said that my father was hospitalized after a sudden serious illness and urgently needed a life-saving money.
She hurried back home, but her mother had no idea, so she had to knock on the door of her relatives one by one just to piece together the cost of her father's surgery.
She never wanted to look back on the road she walked that night.
It was also that night that she suddenly grew up. From now on, she will no longer be the youngest daughter loved by her parents, and will become the pillar of the family in the future.
No one can follow, rely on oneself in everything.
I heard a very reasonable saying: people do not mature gradually, but suddenly mature at a certain moment.
No matter whether you want it or not, at some point in your growth, we must take off our childish cloak and welcome the coolness of fate.
Some time ago, a single mother delivering food was popular online.
What is surprising is that she is a post-00s and is only 21 years old this year.
At this age, most people are still children protected by their parents. She has gone from wind and rain, bearing the wind and frost of life.
She already has a daughter over 1 year old and takes on the important task of supporting her family.
In 2019, when the child was just 5-6 months old, the husband left in an accident, leaving the mother and mother.
originally had a pension, but less than half a month after the husband left, the mother-in-law drove the mother and the mother-in-law out, despising the daughter-in-law gave birth to a girl.
My parents do not agree with her taking care of the child. She is still young and can have a better life, but she doesn't think so.
Since you gave birth to a daughter, you must be responsible for her.
so she was young and entered the takeaway industry.
The salary for delivering food is high. Their average salary is 3,000 to 4,000 yuan, and you can earn 7,000 to 8,000 yuan when delivering food.
She said:
"My mother feels sorry for her daughter, and I feel sorry for my daughter, having her is the life I want."
In just a few short sentences, the image of a strong, optimistic and resilient mother appeared before us.
She endured a dilemma that she shouldn’t have at this age, but she was stronger than most people in life.
Fate hand threw her endless suffering, she took the burden and took it calmly and never complained.
For her future and for her daughter's tomorrow, she must support this family.
Even though no one shared the burden, she still greeted tomorrow with a smile.
I remembered a passage from " Skin ":
often wants to find a backer when you can't stand it, but no matter how you look, you will find that some mountains are full of thorns, and some mountains are full of wild animals, so you should be your own mountain.
Life has no choice for many people.
instead of lying flat on the spot and complaining, it is better to stand up and run.
As long as you don’t give up and are not defeated by life, you can take yourself out of the quagmire, out of the trough, to the plain, and up the mountains.
When we reach middle age, we have already understood a fact:
Some people live in Rome , enjoy the cuteness of their parents, and the future is smooth and unstoppable;
Some people are in ditches, and the road ahead is full of thorns, and they can only break through by themselves;
Unfortunately, there are only a few people who are lucky. Most people are born in an ordinary family, have ordinary abilities, and live a life of upgrading and fighting monsters step by step.
Once chatting with a friend about his experience of working hard in Beijing.
In his early years, he had a bad relationship with his parents. He came out to work at a young age, went to the kitchen, and went to the construction site. When he was the most difficult time, he had eaten white flour steamed buns for two months, and never asked for help from his family.
His family is not difficult, but it is not his safe haven.
Once saw a question on the Internet: At what moment did you find yourself mature?
has an answerer who told his own story.
When I was in my senior year, my family called and said that my father was hospitalized after a sudden serious illness and urgently needed a life-saving money.
She hurried back home, but her mother had no idea, so she had to knock on the door of her relatives one by one just to piece together the cost of her father's surgery.
She never wanted to look back on the road she walked that night.
It was also that night that she suddenly grew up. From now on, she will no longer be the youngest daughter loved by her parents, and will become the pillar of the family in the future.
No one can follow, rely on oneself in everything.
I heard a very reasonable saying: people do not mature gradually, but suddenly mature at a certain moment.
No matter whether you want it or not, at some point in your growth, we must take off our childish cloak and welcome the coolness of fate.
Some time ago, a single mother delivering food was popular online.
What is surprising is that she is a post-00s and is only 21 years old this year.
At this age, most people are still children protected by their parents. She has gone from wind and rain, bearing the wind and frost of life.
She already has a daughter over 1 year old and takes on the important task of supporting her family.
In 2019, when the child was just 5-6 months old, the husband left in an accident, leaving the mother and mother.
originally had a pension, but less than half a month after the husband left, the mother-in-law drove the mother and the mother-in-law out, despising the daughter-in-law gave birth to a girl.
My parents do not agree with her taking care of the child. She is still young and can have a better life, but she doesn't think so.
Since you gave birth to a daughter, you must be responsible for her.
so she was young and entered the takeaway industry.
The salary for delivering food is high. Their average salary is 3,000 to 4,000 yuan, and you can earn 7,000 to 8,000 yuan when delivering food.
She said:
"My mother feels sorry for her daughter, and I feel sorry for my daughter, having her is the life I want."
In just a few short sentences, the image of a strong, optimistic and resilient mother appeared before us.
She endured a dilemma that she shouldn’t have at this age, but she was stronger than most people in life.
Fate hand threw her endless suffering, she took the burden and took it calmly and never complained.
For her future and for her daughter's tomorrow, she must support this family.
Even though no one shared the burden, she still greeted tomorrow with a smile.
I remembered a passage from " Skin ":
often wants to find a backer when you can't stand it, but no matter how you look, you will find that some mountains are full of thorns, and some mountains are full of wild animals, so you should be your own mountain.
Life has no choice for many people.
instead of lying flat on the spot and complaining, it is better to stand up and run.
As long as you don’t give up and are not defeated by life, you can take yourself out of the quagmire, out of the trough, to the plain, and up the mountains.
When we reach middle age, we have already understood a fact:
Some people live in Rome , enjoy the cuteness of their parents, and the future is smooth and unstoppable;
Some people are in ditches, and the road ahead is full of thorns, and they can only break through by themselves;
Unfortunately, there are only a few people who are lucky. Most people are born in an ordinary family, have ordinary abilities, and live a life of upgrading and fighting monsters step by step.
Once chatting with a friend about his experience of working hard in Beijing.
In his early years, he had a bad relationship with his parents. He came out to work at a young age, went to the kitchen, and went to the construction site. When he was the most difficult time, he had eaten white flour steamed buns for two months, and never asked for help from his family.
His family is not difficult, but it is not his safe haven.
He talked to his home on the phone, but after a few words, he had to hang up the phone. Every time his parents either asked him how much money he made or saw that he was doing so miserably, it would be better to go home.
He held his breath in his heart. His family looked down on him, so he insisted on making a clear understanding;
No one in the family supports him, so he will be his backer.
He joined a startup company and started from the most basic employees. Because of his diligence and insight, he is deeply trusted and valued by his leaders.
slowly, from the grassroots level to the middle level, and gain a firm foothold in this city.
Some time ago, I was just promoted to director.
Speaking of the experience over the years, he said that he has suffered too much along the way.
Just left society, I don’t know anything, offends people in one sentence, and runs into walls everywhere. When
is not capable enough, the cold greeting and rolling eyes are more than the northwest wind blowing.
Fortunately, he has experienced so much, and he has been able to survive. He can reach this point by himself.
If you feel that you are unwilling to be interested in and helpless, don’t be sad or afraid.
treats experience as a test, plant your own seeds and build your own network well. When you have enough strength, you will be a backer that no one can take away.
has no way out for everyone, and those who help themselves are helping God.
Born as a human being, as long as you rely on your true ability, you can settle down in this world and find your own place to stand.
I saw a video a few days ago and I was particularly touched.
Linyi, Shandong, a girl wanted to jump into the river in the early morning, but was rescued by a firefighter and cried.
spent 20,000 yuan to learn technology, but still couldn't find a job and no factory was willing to accept her.
She said that her interpersonal relationships were not good, she had no friends, and she couldn't get a table even if she died.
instantly touches the hearts of many people. Life is too difficult and there is too little help. Adults have to survive the wind, rain and frost in their lives alone.
You must have that kind of darkest moment in your life. You can’t find someone to talk to, you can only digest it alone.
The most difficult time is all by myself.
As an adult, who has never been bullied by life, but if we don’t want to be defeated by life, we can only put away our grievances and continue running forward with tears in our eyes.
An animated image was circulated on the Internet, which has been deeply imprinted in my mind .
Animated picture shows a delivery guy who was quietly wiping his tears a second ago.
The next second I realized that someone was patting him, turned my head and immediately converted into a bright smile.
Many people have been cured by this picture of the guy.
In front of life, who is not this delivery guy?
Even if you close your eyes, anger, sadness, helplessness, and fatigue have already accumulated into a sea in your heart, and the waves are surging. Open your eyes, I still have to play a good adult with a stable and calm mood.
You can heal yourself in times of sadness, and you can be reborn from the trough step by step.
I heard a saying:
"There is a kind of effort called relying on yourself. No one can always be your safe haven. You are the only person in charge on your own life."
What kind of life you want to live is your own decision.
What you want must be obtained based on your own ability.
people reach middle age, adults with no way out can only rely on themselves.
When you are used to working hard with both hands, you will find that others are unreliable, only you are reliable.
makes money by yourself, buy what you want to buy and be happy and wanton;
makes progress by yourself, and your ability will naturally be seen;
heals itself by yourself, and you can see the peak by being able to survive the trough.
What kind of life do you want can only afford.
Without a backer, just move forward bravely and overcome obstacles; without eaves, just run against the wind and move forward.
Wait for you to be so powerful that no one can replace you, and you will be grateful to yourself who has not given up.
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Author | Su Shanshu, can't tell truth, only tell stories.
official account: Wen Yue is here.
pictures | Visual China, the Internet (If there is any infringement, please contact us to delete it)
Wait for you to be so powerful that no one can replace you, and you will be grateful to yourself who has not given up.
click like , and share with you.
Author | Su Shanshu, can't tell truth, only tell stories.
official account: Wen Yue is here.
pictures | Visual China, the Internet (If there is any infringement, please contact us to delete it)
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