emotional topic interpretation, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional worry-relieving person, but you must know how to let yourself go!
text | Feng Ding Yebo
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The reason why people suffer is because they have too many obsessions and beliefs that they should not have and should not persist in.
People are alive and are most afraid of four words: self-righteous!
self-righteous is another way of being self-indulgent!
If a person doesn’t know how to look at himself and look at himself, then 80% of such people will be suffering from everything they think they are in repeated pain.
That’s right, many times, people’s pain and torture are given by themselves!
It can be said that everyone walking in the world has suffered all the hardships because of being self-righteous.
Some people gradually realize that they use the experiences of previous generations and personal experiences to find the meaning of "living".
Some people, even though they are covered in scars, have not yet realized how to face their lives, so they may not have had a certain pain.
Often we see some people, and it seems that we haven't been happy for a long time. When talking about why this happens, those people will say:
nothing worth my happiness, it is just living a day.
Look, what a perfunctory attitude is this?
If a person lives just to live, then no matter how old he lives, he will not be happy. If a person places his happiness and satisfaction on people or things other than himself, his life will be really too sloppy.
A few words that enlighten life, every sentence is reasonable:
Sentence 1: The source of happiness is "not overestimating"
Most of the troubles of people come from expectations for relationships. The most comfortable relationship between people is not overestimating!
When a person learns to reduce expectations, then his happiness will be much easier!
Don’t expect too much about relationships, and you will feel less disappointed until it is zero.
Whether it is relatives, friendship, or people around the pillow, the people corresponding to these relationships are all supporting roles on our life path, and the protagonists are always ourselves.
Everyone is willing to have a long-term relationship with someone who can establish a mutually beneficial relationship with them. The more harmonious the forms of mutual benefit, the more harmonious the relationship will be.
When you cannot bring other people the satisfaction of their needs or other benefits, in the long run, any relationship will stay away from you.
Don’t think that in the past, your relatives said, “breaking the bones and connecting the tendons”, don’t always be convinced that “friends are unchanging wealth that can be used to break their bones in their lives”, don’t think that “the lover and yourself are concentric circles”…
Remember, when you are in the eyes of others, “nothing is”, you walk away quietly is the best ending of the relationship.
Sentence 2: The best way to get happiness is to know "Who am I"
Do you know who you are?
I believe that the answers given by many people are "wrong answers".
It doesn’t matter who you are, but it’s the most important thing that you live as. A person only knows who his surname, occupation, and age is far from enough to understand himself.
A person who truly knows who I am is, is familiar with my own advantages and flaws from the bottom of his bones, and knows how to accept, recognize and correct himself.
Only in this way can people live in harmony with themselves and deeply understand what "contentment is happiness".In this way, peace of mind, freedom and comfort are in the most reliable perception in the heart. Do you think such a person can still not feel happiness?
Everyone is born ordinary. Some people like you, others don’t like you. However, it doesn’t matter whether others like you or not.
When you know "Who am I", you are patronizing your own life and have no time to do anyone likes or rejects you!
The relationship between people is mutual, but it is absolutely impossible to achieve the balance of time. Since that is the case, why do you have to make yourself someone in the eyes of others and forget how to live as yourself?
Sentence 3: All relationships have value swaps at all times, so that they can last for a long time
In real life, there is no relationship of balance at all times, but there must be a relationship of long-term interchange value.
When you interact with others, you always hold some value and are what others want, and you will establish a long-term relationship with this person.
The longer the value exchange, the stronger the relationship.
Putting aside value, people cannot be described as the depth of the relationship, but can only be described as "knowing or not".
When you are valuable, you can't beat friends and friends without any wrestling in the mountains.
Don’t think that you are indispensable to who you are. If the existence value is there, you are in the relationship. If the existence value is not there, you have to be indifferent to who is coming and leaving, and who is close or separated.
This is not a solicitation of elaborate self-interest, but a result of human nature. We only want to see the yang side of human nature and do not like the yin side of human nature, but we cannot completely ignore the yin side of human nature.
We must respect human nature and interpret human nature, so that people will be much better!
Don’t think that anyone is not interested enough or who is unwilling to empathize with you . When you want something, you must first know whether you are worthy. What determines that these three words are worthy of your existence is always your value.
When people live, all pain and unhappiness come from themselves - they don’t know how to recognize themselves and have an epiphany of interpersonal relationships.
When a person can read human nature well, and know who he is in deep self-awareness, not overestimate interpersonal relationships, and know how to transform and improve himself at all times, then happiness and satisfaction are at your fingertips.
Life is short, time is valuable. The more you know how to live your life well in the present, the more you understand how to go about the road of life.
Meeting with people is fate, just treat each other with sincerity and expect less. When the fate is over, don’t bother or be upset, just focus on the things at your fingertips.
All things that cannot be put down or can’t be opened are because there is no real enlightenment of the essence of the relationship that is “value”.
When you suddenly realize the above three sentences, you will not be bound by any relationship, troubles or depression.
All those who leave you are not people worth your efforts, don’t consume yourself anymore.
All relationships that failed to reach the end are not really worth it. Just take it lightly.
Some people are destined to be just passers-by in your life, and some people are destined to be with you for the rest of their lives and will never be separated.
For the rest of my life, I will be grateful for all the past and for all the encounters. If the relationship is still there, cherish it. If the relationship goes far, everyone will be well! All the relationships of
, that's it!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it is love or friendship, only by meeting the right person at the right time can you achieve the right result!
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Topic discussion: Are you a person who knows "who you are"? Leave what you want to say in the comment section.
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