So I told him not to force myself to marry me. If your parents don’t agree, we will end here. Now I feel a little sad when I think about it.
But my husband told me not to worry, just leave everything to him. With a nervous mood, I don’t know what my husband said to his parents, and agreed to our marriage.
Then we discussed the marriage between the two parties. His parents began to ask us about the marriage customs and the amount of the betrothal gift. Later, the parents of both parties met and discussed, and according to the customs of our hometown, the bride price was given a neutral number. At that time, there was no mention of buying clothes and hardware.
My mother told me that they would not take the initiative to mention it, so they would buy it if they didn’t buy it, and they wouldn’t have to ask for it. In this way, they ordered our marriage, and I got married with my husband a few months later.
After getting married, I don’t know what my mother-in-law agreed to my husband and I get married, because in my husband’s house, she is in charge of everything, and she has the final say. During the time I got married, I can say that I lived a cautious life every day, and I was not good at speaking, so I didn’t know what to talk about when I was with her.
may cause the reason for inner inferiority. I will take the initiative to do a lot of things and communicate with my husband if I have any. I will deal with anything in my mother's family alone, and I will not think of trouble them. My mother-in-law didn't make things difficult for me to target me.
Later, because my husband was transferred to work, I went to another place with him. I spent less time with my mother-in-law and didn’t have to face her easily and relaxed.
Be pregnant and have a child. When I went home for confinement, my mother-in-law didn't give me any special treatment, so she made three meals a day for me. My husband and I took care of the whole process.
I am the kind of person who is easy to satisfy. As long as my mother-in-law doesn’t ask for trouble and doesn’t cause trouble, I will be very content.
We have been married for many years, because we have not been with our mother-in-law for a long time, so we have no conflicts. When we are together occasionally, she may say some strange things, but I don’t think she can hear it.
has also figured it out. No matter how good their family's conditions are, they are the money they have, and no one gives me, so whether the family's conditions are good or bad has nothing to do with me.
Apart from the noisy relationship with my husband, my life is still good.