It has been more than six years of marriage, and my marriage life seems to have not yet entered a stable period. I still live like a 16-year-old first love girl.
I only spend two hours with my husband every day after get off work at night. Most of these two hours are spent taking baths and playing with my mobile phone silently. He actually made me cry three times within three days, although he coaxed me up in the end.
When I was at work yesterday, I cried the night before yesterday and was annoying at work, but I felt that my family life was so happy and I thought I would dance with him in the living room when I got home tonight.
Today, but my mood continued with the unhappiness of last night and I couldn't get enough.
Sensitive personality, that's it, with ups and downs.
In fact, to be fair, he did nothing wrong these three days. I took on his role and thought about it. It may be me who made unreasonable trouble.
But from my perspective, I feel that how to deal with it as a spouse in some situations is such a simple and natural thing as 1+1=2. Why do you just don’t, or don’t want to? It's so damning! There are only a few words for two people to be together every day. Can't you say it to make me happier?
I know that he had comforted me very patiently after realizing my displeasure, but I also tried my best to persuade myself to learn to take over the steps. If I can’t do this, there will be no such store in this village...
Every day’s life is like opening a blind box. The good or bad mood depends on whether he gives me sweet beans or bitter beans today. Only annoying work is an unchanging constant.
Aware of this, I feel a little afraid and resistant to the new day that is about to begin, because what this day feels like is in the hands of others, and I don’t seem to have much initiative.
is too annoying. I want to treat my husband as a roommate and as non-existent, and save my emotions and revolve around me, but it is unrealistic and difficult to do.
Married for several years, I have summarized the three laws of marriage, although it may only apply to myself:
1. Two people live together for a long time, and they can only choose to deliver their sincerity and be their true self. Treat your partner as your boss and as a job - I am not Zhen Huan, I can't do it;
2. You can only choose to be happy together, or choose to be physically separated when you are unhappy, and you have to be separated without a house or money. If the two are extremely unhappy together but have to bow down under the same roof, it is definitely a torture of the soul, which is worse than having nowhere to live;
3. Marriage is an extremely fragile relationship. I still have a loving love today, and I may become enemies tomorrow; I still have clear sky at this moment, and I may be covered with dark clouds in the next moment. Although there are constraints on children and common property, those are just external forces and are unscrupulous. The most important foundation for maintaining a marriage relationship is invisible. Once it breaks open, it will turn over and it will be difficult to go back.
I extend the worship of blood ties to a certain extent from Law 3. Blood ties are really the most solid. Some relatives actually don’t have much love, no understanding or respect, but just because of that little flesh and blood connection can also allow a person who is not responsible to maintain a lifelong support or support obligation .
When will the robot lover be launched? Always be gentle and considerate, always listen patiently, and always tolerate the kind you prefer. I am willing to save money and save money to buy it. I don't mind that he is not a physical body, has no real emotions, and needs to be recharged and battery life at all times.
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