A single mother lives alone with her daughter. In order to create good conditions for her children, this mother has tried her best. She went out early and came back late, worked day and night, and spent almost all the money she earned on her daughter.
In order to train her daughter to become a talent, she spared no expense to send her daughter to the best local school and also enrolled her daughter in various interest classes. She believes that as long as her daughter can get into a good university in the future and have a good future, everything she does is worth it.
This mother has not been very smooth at work recently. She has been following a project for a long time and has put in a lot of time and effort, but in the end she has not achieved it. For this reason, she was criticized by her leaders, and her colleagues with bad relationships also laughed at her for this, so she was in a very bad mood after get off work.
Nevertheless, she went to the vegetable market to buy vegetables and made a sumptuous dinner for her daughter. However, my daughter's appetite seemed to be bad, and she only ate a little bit of supper. After dinner, my mother was washing dishes in the kitchen while thinking about her work worries.
At this time, the daughter suddenly came over and told her mother that she didn't want to take swimming class. The daughter had mentioned this several times before. The mother thought that the daughter wanted to be lazy, so she did not agree to her daughter's request and encouraged her to persevere. The mother took a deep breath and asked her daughter why she didn't want to go to class. The daughter replied that the water in the swimming pool was too dirty and she didn't like it.
What is this reason?! The mother suddenly got angry. She shouted at her daughter and said that her own difficulties were not easy. The more she said she became more angry, she pressed her daughter's head into the dishwasher filled with water many times, saying that she wanted her daughter to wake up. The daughter was frightened and begged for mercy while crying.
After calming down, the mother found that she had done too much, so she quickly apologized to her daughter and scrubbed her daughter. After this incident, my daughter no longer dared to mention not taking swimming classes and continued to go to school and class as usual.
However, a few days later, the daughter actually died on the way home from school. The mother called the police. After investigation by the police, she found that the cause of her daughter's death was inhalation pneumonia. The reason was that when the mother was angry, she pressed her daughter's head in the sink, causing part of the water to enter her daughter's lungs, causing lung damage to , and finally respiratory failure and died of . At the same time, the police also learned that the reason why her daughter was unwilling to take swimming classes was because her coach was misbehaving and sexually harassed her many times.
Mom cried bitterly after knowing the truth. She didn't expect that her impulse would ruin her daughter's life. She regretted that she was just treating her daughter very well in her own way, but she didn't really understand her daughter. She didn't expect that her daughter would encounter such a difficult thing. Not only did she not help her, she also pushed her to the bad guy.
In short, it is too late to say anything. The tragedy of has happened and cannot be recovered.
This is a tragedy caused by a mother under the control of her anger. In real life, there are many examples of making mistakes due to momentary impulse. Small conflicts caused by small matters such as traffic jams, line-up, quarrels, and homework tutoring, but the impulse of the parties involved escalates into big things, and the small ones will be injured and the big ones will be killed. After calming down, I regretted it.
people are prone to lose their minds when they are angry and are most likely to do out-of-control behaviors.
Angry is inevitable, just remember one thing: don’t do anything when you are angry.
This way, many tragedies can be avoided.
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