Previously, the student asked me a question: "Do love at first sight really exist? Is there any way to make me the kind of person who makes men fall in love at first sight?"
For a while, a popular sentence on the Internet: "Love at first sight is just about being lustful, and love over time is just about weighing the pros and cons." I think this is a very pessimistic idea.
In fact, love exists at first sight. When that person appears in front of you, you will feel that he is so unique. You will be deeply attracted by that person. At that moment, you will feel that each other is destined and you really want to happen to that person.
Falling in love with someone may be just a moment. This is not a metaphysics, but a skill and method.
Today I will talk to you about how makes men fall in love with you at first sight when they first meet?
1: Arouse men's desire
Many people subconsciously think that only those who look good and dress up can make people fall in love at first sight. This idea is a bit one-sided.
Many times the people we like are not the most beautiful among the crowd, but the most special in our eyes. You can't tell the reason. Maybe the sunshine that day happened to be on his side face, and you were moved.
Studies have shown that love is divided into three stages: physiological needs, attraction and attachment. If we want a man to fall in love with him at first sight, we need to arouse his desire for him.
Physiological needs are human basic desires and things that must be encountered between men and women. food and sex are also food and sex. Talking about physiological needs is not a shameful thing. The reason for this is to hope that everyone can face it rationally.
Then how do we arouse men's desire when we first meet?
First of all, external image management . At this time, everyone may have a misunderstanding, thinking that as long as the face is long and you want to see it, it can be attractive to wear a sack. Beautiful looks are indeed an advantage, but most of us are ordinary, which does not prevent us from pursuing beauty.
What we can do is improve our aesthetic ability and make our clothes look generous and decent. Imagine a woman dressed in a sloppy and unkempt face, wearing colorful and colorful clothes that are not available. It is difficult for people to have the urge to fall in love at first sight, let alone arouse men's desire.
Secondly, we are a little sexy in dressing . Men are all visual animals and are easily attracted by sexy women. But being sexy does not mean being too naked when wearing clothes, but finding a sexy point on yourself and showing it.
For example, if you have a good figure and a thin waist, you can choose some clothes that modify your figure and highlight your waistline when dressing; for example, your collarbone looks very good, then choose some V-neck clothes that can highlight your collarbone when matching the clothes, and you can also choose some distinctive necklaces to pull the visual center to your sexy point.
Use your own sexy points to attract men's gaze to their own advantages. This is the first step to make men fall in love at first sight.
2: Mobilize men's emotions
External image is the first step in love at first sight, that is, the basic . However, if further development, you need to learn to mobilize men's emotions to make men have emotional fluctuations towards us.
What is the best way to motivate a man’s emotions? Storytelling !
is not asking you to make up stories, telling how miserable your experience is, how many scumbags you met, how you were deceived into your relationship, and the fake stories made up cannot empathize with .
Can you convince yourself of things you have never experienced before? What makes people empathize are often those stories that happen in a real way and are told in a plain tone.
For example, a student before me said that he had just graduated and went to a big city to work hard. Because he was young, he was often bullied by others. At that time, his salary was very low, and he was embarrassed to ask his family for money. He was often hungry and full. Once, when the winter solstice, the landlord saw that she was pitiful, so he gave her a dumpling. She still remembered the happiness of that moment.
She once told the men around her, and without exception, mobilized men's empathy and aroused their sympathy.
When we can mobilize men's emotions, men will develop a desire to protect us, which will mobilize men's interest in us and desire to explore, and will develop the idea of continuing to understand us.
For example, the student in the above case, her current boyfriend became more and more concerned about her after listening to that story. He always pays attention to the students' emotions in daily life. The students have simple headaches and fevers, and men will take care of them carefully. This is because the students' stories arouse men's desire to protect themselves.
3: Understand a man's inner needs and resonate with his emotions
When we arouse men's desires and make men interested in us, all we need to do is understand men's inner needs and resonate with men's emotions .
We have also talked about it before. men hope to get the recognition and respect of women. They enjoy women's praise and worship, which will give them a great sense of satisfaction and superiority. When you can meet a man's inner needs, he will naturally be deeply attracted to you.
For example, if you can talk to him about things that he is very good at, he will definitely talk to you endlessly. As long as you listen carefully, nodding from time to time to express your approval and approval.
You can even say to him in an admiring tone after he finished speaking: "You are so awesome, you know so much. You are the most knowledgeable person I have ever met." The more you praise him, the more satisfied his sense of superiority is provided by you, how can he not be attracted to you?
Whether it is to attract a man in the early stage or to fall in love and marriage in the later stage, emotional resonance is very important. Let the man feel that you are a woman with the same values as him and has a common topic.
can discuss some topics with men, such as asking them about their plans for the next ten years. This will not only let you understand whether you have the same values as men, but also make you sad and happy when you are targeting the same thing, establish a state of emotional resonance, and win the desire for sharing by men.
There are skills in love at first sight. We must arouse men's desires, mobilize men's emotions, and then meet men's needs and resonate with men's emotions.
doesn't sound difficult, but it also requires repeated practice to achieve the ideal results. Of course, you can also come to consult the teacher, and the teacher will develop a one-to-one exclusive plan for you.
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