Ms. He, 43, felt that she had sex with her male neighbor just an accident, but her husband just kept on the matter and chose to divorce her no matter how she said that. She couldn't even figure it out. Isn't it just an accident?

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Introduction

43-year-old Ms. He felt that she had sex with her male neighbor just an accident, but her husband just kept on worrying about this matter and chose to divorce her no matter how she said that. She couldn't even figure it out. Isn't it just an accident? Why do you have to go to the point of divorce?

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Ms. He has been married to her husband for 18 years. The marriage between the two was introduced by a matchmaker. Ms. He’s family conditions can be said to be average, and her husband’s family conditions can be said to be much better than her parents’ family.

When Ms. He heard the matchmaker's introduction, she felt that the other party's family conditions were very suitable for her. She was afraid of that kind of hard life. So after they met, Ms. He chose to take the initiative to pursue her husband, and the two of them came to the point of getting married.

After the two got married, Ms. He and her husband lived a peaceful life and had never had any other thoughts that should not have been moved. But since their family moved a new neighbor, their lives have also undergone earth-shaking changes.

When this male neighbor first moved in, he sent a lot of delicious food to Ms. He's house. The reason for delivering food is that everyone will be neighbors in the future. If you have any questions, you can take care of each other and help each other.

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Ms. He also agreed with the words of this male neighbor at that time. She always felt that distant relatives were not as good as close neighbors. If everyone gets along better with each other, they could have someone to help with anything in the future, which would be a good thing.

It is precisely because the male neighbor sent some food to Ms. He's home when she first moved here, so Ms. He would give her some food to her male neighbors whenever she cooked. In addition, the two people have more common topics, and the relationship between the two soon became particularly good.

Later, Ms. He knew that the male neighbor was a divorced man, and she felt even more distressed about him. She always felt that the male neighbor was a divorced man, and he took care of everything in the family by himself, which was very pitiful.

And this male neighbor is also a very good talker. After returning home from get off work, he often brings a bottle of wine to Ms. He’s house to drink with her husband. After drinking a few times, the two of them seemed to be brothers who had known each other for many years.

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Ms. He has no objection to her husband's approach. Every time the male neighbor comes to eat, she will treat her delicious food and drink. But what she didn't expect was that because of an accident, she had sex with her male neighbor, which made her life particularly painful.

Some time ago, Ms. He's husband went on a business trip. The male neighbor was in a bad mood that night and couldn't find anyone to drink. He wanted to come to find Ms. He's husband, but he didn't expect that the other party was on a business trip. Ms. He also saw that he was pitiful, so she accompanied the other party to have a few drinks.

When I woke up the next day, Ms. He felt very guilty when she saw that she had sex with her male neighbor. She didn't expect that this unexpected cheating would make her husband know.

Ms. He didn't expect why her marriage with her husband came to this point. She and her male neighbor were just having sex unexpectedly. This was not what she wanted to happen. Why was her husband insisting on divorceing her?

Conclusion

Many things are not something that can be forgiven by others if they think it is an accident, especially in marriage. Once a third person intervenes, no matter whether it is an accident or not, there is always a barrier in the heart of his partner.