text丨Tao Xiaojing
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People who fall in love are most afraid of parting, and the ones they don’t want to face the most is also parting.
However, parting is the norm in life. Whether it is afraid or not to face it, it cannot prevent it from happening.
Everyone who lives in this world will leave one day, it is just a difference between time and time.
Farewell can happen at any time, and even two people who are in love cannot escape the separation.
The relationship between two people is not stable and unchanging. Once there is a problem with the relationship, leaving may become the only choice.
In the world of love, leaving is a normal thing. The next farewell may come at the next moment.
Although it is very uncomfortable to be forced to accept parting, everything is a foregone conclusion, so why should you deceive yourself?
Maybe you think that as long as he doesn’t say the word “breakup”, there is still a possibility between you.
But one day you will find that from the moment he wants to leave you, your feelings have changed.
Changes in feelings mean changes in your mind. A person gives you these feelings, implying that he wants to leave you, don’t misunderstand.
gives you the feeling of being close and being separated
Two people who truly love each other will still maintain close contact and will not be too far away even if there are some conflicts.
is like this when you love it. Once you don’t love it, everything will change.
When getting along, if a person gives you a feeling of being close and distant, it means he wants to leave you.
Although sometimes he is approaching you, more often he is away from you. No matter how you reach out to grab it, it is difficult to grab him in your hands again.
If it weren't for wanting to leave, he wouldn't give you this feeling. He can make you realize his closeness and separation, but it is actually implying that he wants to leave.
He didn't say it clearly, not because he couldn't bear it, but because he was giving you the opportunity to let go.
If you feel the feeling of being close and separation in your relationship, please be prepared in advance and don’t wait until the separation has arrived before you suddenly wake up.
gives you a feeling of coldness and ruthlessness
A person may act cruelly and ruthlessness without being moved, but once he is moved, ruthlessness will be replaced by tenderness and sweetness.
A person is obviously with you, but he always looks cold and ruthless. It can be seen that his love for you is not true at all.
Not even love is true, so what reason does he have to stay with you?
So, a person gives you a cold and ruthless feeling, implying that he wants to leave you.
When he was with you, he might be as tender as water, but his tenderness had long been wiped out by time, and what was finally presented to you is all coldness and ruthlessness.
Whether you ask him for help or hope he will give you some warmth, he will treat strangers like he is unwilling to pay attention to you at all.
Those who treat you like this will inevitably leave you. Even if you don’t leave now, you will leave sooner or later. No matter how you try to keep him, you will not be able to keep him.
gives you the feeling of loneliness
There is clearly someone by your side, but you still have the feeling of loneliness. What does it mean?
You may not care about it, but you should know that if you still feel this way when someone is with you, it means that you have not won the other person's heart at all.
On the surface, he is indeed by your side, but in fact, he is ready to leave you long ago.
Although he has never revealed his thoughts of leaving, from the feeling he gives you, you can see that to him, you are just a familiar stranger.
He is waiting for the best time. As soon as the time comes, he will leave you with great strides.
A person gives you the feeling of loneliness, which is actually a hint that he wants to leave you. Even if he doesn’t say it clearly, you should understand.
Since leaving is a foregone conclusion, don’t struggle anymore. Letting go of his hand as soon as possible can be considered as letting yourself go.
Xiaojing's emotional message:
I believe everyone is unwilling to face the separation. But the parting will not happen just because you don’t want to face it. People who want to leave you will not give up on this idea just because you don’t want to face it.
There are too many helplessness in the world of love, and the person who cannot keep his love is one of them.
No matter how much you love, you still cannot stop the other party from leaving. No matter what method you use to save it, you can't keep a heart that wants to wander.
When a person has the idea of leaving you, he will slowly give hints in the process of getting along with him.
Although he never said that he wanted to leave, through the feeling he brought to you, you can clearly feel his detachment.
Since you have noticed it, don’t deceive yourself anymore. Deceiving yourself can't change anything, it will only make you more painful.
Although parting is painful, it is also something you must face. By bravely surviving this disaster, you will grow faster.
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