What is " Seven Years Itch "? "Seven Years Itch" specifically refers to: one year fresh, two years of familiarity, three years of boredom, four years of thinking, five years of planning, six years of idleness, and seven years of action.
Usually, a lover will face a trust crisis that is enough to subvert the marriage around the seventh year after marriage. If the couple can cross it, the relationship between the two will rise to a higher level. Otherwise, their marriage will undergo a qualitative change and eventually fall apart.
implied that it seems that once a relationship is cast into a seven-year itch, then emotional mutations will become reasonable and expected.
Looking at the love entanglements between men and women, the seven-year itch is not the culprit. There have been many people who have entered the stage of cheating and confide in me. In fact, it is not so much to confide in, but rather to find a suitable person to repent and beg for another understanding so as to achieve the goal of peace of mind. Usually, they blame their cheating for the time being that it has been the "seven-year itch". Although it is unforgivable, those who still expect or expect to be understood. Under the guise of "seven-year itch", they are looking for passion in the flower world outside. After spending this period or being tired of looking for flowers and willows outside, they will naturally blame the "seven-year itch" for their past infidelity to their marriage on the "seven-year itch".
In other words, after a relationship lasts for seven years, the passion that once had disappeared without a trace, and love may have transformed into family affection. Gradually, both parties have a deeper understanding of each other and are familiar with each other's thoughts and feelings. Life will gradually become like boiling water, dull and tasteless, but it is impossible to lose each other.
Therefore, behind all the cheating emotions, there is a heart that is unwilling to be lonely and ready to move. If it weren't for being unwilling to give up, how could we go to the fire again and again? We all thought that the next one would be better, but we didn't know that the law of emotion is: no more than three years of love, and no matter how intense the passion, it will eventually return to dullness; and the excellent way to pursue long-term in dullness is to start one period of passion after another.
In fact, there is no distinction between men and women in the way of cheating. Our consistent thinking pattern determines that men are animals that are unwilling to be lonely, and the impulse in the lower body will guide men to deviate from the emotional track. In fact, a man's cheating also indicates a woman's infidelity. Whether a man or a woman, as long as the conditions are right, the heart that is ready to move will sprout; and those who only sleep with one person in their lifetime are just emotional germs that have not encountered the right soil in time and can only be suppressed in the glass bottle of morality.
The seven-year itch of emotions is just another excuse after emotional mutation. If a heart does not die, let alone seven years, it will be itchy for half a year, and I wish I could break free from the shackles of reason and morality and go to have a secret fun alone. Seven years is just a concept of time. For the gendered emotions that will eventually become dull, this concept is enough to make countless unwilling people cheat thousands of times. It is said that the sorrow is greater than the death of one's heart. If a person gives up, he will be on the ground. If you don't believe it, ask yourself.
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